How do people who are highly emotional and jealous deal with long distance relationships?

People who are highly emotional and jealous are better off not talking about long-distance relationships, because once they are in a long-distance relationship, it will definitely be easy for you and your partner to have conflicts, and then quarrels, or even break ups. But if you are already in a long-distance relationship, then I advise you to be cautious, never quarrel at every turn, and be sure to fully trust each other, because long-distance relationships often break up because of lack of trust.

To be honest, I'm the kind of person who is very emotional and jealous, and I used to be in a long-distance relationship with my partner, but at that time I didn't know the role of trust in long-distance relationships, and it was precisely because I was suspicious and jealous that my girlfriend would leave me, and I didn't understand these truths until after the breakup, but it was too late.

At that time, my emotions were completely decided with my object ignoring me, if one day she could talk to me well, I would be very happy all day, but once one day she ignored me, I would not be happy for a day, and it was easy to be cranky, I felt that she was not getting along with other men behind my back, the more I thought about it, the more angry I became, and then I called her to vent all her emotions, and then I knew that she went to the library for a day without a mobile phone. After this happened a few times, she finally couldn't stand me anymore and broke up with me.

Since then, I have learned that the most taboo thing in a long-distance relationship is to get angry at every turn, be jealous at every turn, and often be emotional, so if you have just been in a long-distance relationship, you must give each other full trust, and that kind of relationship will make people feel comfortable.

I advise you not to have a long-distance relationship. If you don't want to break up, you can only change your temper yourself. Don't be so paranoid.

It's best to make yourself have plenty of time, and it's best not to have time to be jealous. Either you are in pain, and he is in pain. Why bother?

Lessons from the past.

This is very difficult, because there are many problems with long-distance relationships, and the first is that the distance is too far away, and it is very dangerous to have fewer topics.

Getting along in a long-distance relationship is a very difficult process, if you are always inexplicably angry and jealous, it will only make the relationship between the two people worse and worse. Hope it helps.

Long-distance relationships will inevitably make people lack a sense of security, there are uncontrollable factors, due to the environment, contact with different contacts, long-term will also make the two parties feel that there are differences on some things, or will change some of the original ideas. Maintaining a long-distance relationship is not easy and delicate, and the focus is still on how you control it, and you have to grasp the other person's mind and what she thinks. It's one thing you have to work on.

Trust is the foundation of this thing.

I often run to see him and surprise him.

What long-distance relationships need most is trust....I'm also in a different place with my partner...It's normal to be jealous or something.

In a long-distance relationship, if you say that you like her very much, you ask her if she will leave you, if she likes you, if she says she likes you, how to prove it, you ask her, if she says she doesn't like it, break it, and you can find it again.

Ask all your doubts clearly, and hiding a little suspicion in your heart will become the seed of a breakup. If she really loves you, she won't deliberately make you uncomfortable without explaining, and it's best to be in love with everything clear. If she answers vaguely and keeps her mouth shut, there may be a problem, and you have to trust your girlfriend in your heart until the question is clear, otherwise it will affect your judgment.

Tell her that you care about her dealings with others and hope that she will consider your feelings.

The easiest way, and she needs to have a topic.

You can try to take some risks with her the next time you meet, such as cooperating to steal things from the supermarket, or cooperating to eat and escape orders.

In this way, you have a common secret, a girl who has a common secret with you will subconsciously treat you as the closest person, at this time you are humorous, and girls can't do without you.

It's hard to say, it's better not to force emotional matters, trust her.

Brother, you think too much, and after a long time you get used to it.

If you're good enough, none of this is a problem.

When a guy is jealous, it proves that he loves you, and if he doesn't love you, he will definitely not react. You should give your boyfriend enough security, and there is nothing more important for two people to be together than security. The more a boy loves someone, the more he will be petty tempered. But if it's vexatious jealousy, then it's a different matter.

It's not everyone, it depends on people. It is mainly caused by the inability to fully understand the information of the other party. For example:

Hearing someone say that you are talking alone with another boy will cause misunderstanding. It would be nice to explain it clearly. In addition, it is recommended that you and him use a small notebook to record the daily itinerary in the form of a diary, although it may not be comprehensive, but it is more reassuring.

This doesn't work for everyone. ）

Of course not, this is a sign of his lack of self-confidence, he is afraid that others are better than him, he is afraid of losing you.

Some things should be explained clearly, and it is best to change the other party's problems as soon as possible, so that he can become generous and open-minded.

It shows that he cares about you, it's better than if he doesn't be jealous and you are jealous.

3 This is indeed the case with your sibling love, and you are 25 and she is only 19 years apart. He's the kind of milky one. is still very ignorant, which is equivalent to an adolescent teenager.

And if you say so, they are so angry. It's purely because they can't think about it, or they don't understand what these so-called loves are like, they just think it's love, they think it's bad, they are jealous. And he's only 19 years old, can you really walk together in the future?

Still not necessarily. So, in your current situation, you just need to communicate and communicate.

It's really not easy to get together.

Now I can only wait a day or two and talk to him again.

Let him know that you care about him, but just let him know, and don't be too humble and make him too proud.

First: I hear you love your boyfriend very much.

Second: I hear you're insecure!

Third: I hear you are in pain!

Fourth: I hear you're looking for a way!

But you're using your quarrel with him to show that you're insecure! It's a pity that your boyfriend can't hear it!

Tell your boyfriend about your worries and your pain, share your feelings with him sincerely, and listen to his opinion on the feelings you express, as long as the relationship is still there, everything is not a problem

First, don't control yourself too much, otherwise it's counterproductive.

Second, find other things to distract yourself from and let him give you a little bit of your own space.

Third, don't deliberately cranky or not cranky When you are upset, before you want to quarrel, close your eyes and think about it, there is a river flowing quietly in front of you, calm yourself.

Are you insecure? Do you think the less time he spends with you makes you unhappy?

Try to keep yourself busy, anyway, at school, get more exposure to your favorite things, read books or something. Calm yourself down and communicate patiently when you hit **.

If you're in a bad mood, just say it, come in and don't lose your temper, otherwise no one will be able to stand it for a long time, and it's easy to have problems.

You take care to restrain your emotions, you tell him, you miss him, you're not wrong, just see if you can hold on a little longer, when you think about him, look at more things about him, do something you want to do, distract you, and not lose your temper, which won't be good for your relationship, you know.

Why don't you go to his place for a day with him (if you're sure you're safe), you can see where he lives, you can pick out a few clothes for him, you can cook a delicious meal for him, you can go to the movies in the evening - whenever you want to lose your temper, when you want to lose your temper, think about the happy time you had together that day, you don't have that big temper.

I have to meet when I have time, my girlfriend and I meet once every 15 days, and every time we meet, we have endless words, and she won't get angry when I lose my temper, and I won't get angry when she loses her temper, and we have to understand each other.

I hope you don't lose in distance like me ...

This is normal, because they are in love from a long distance! You lack time together, which can easily make you feel lonely and bored! Loving each other is not only about mutual comfort and encouragement, but also about having a common life and memories!

It is recommended that you come and go more often, have a fixed time to go to him or him to find you, find your common happy time, and go forever!

Isn't it possible to find a way to get to a city instead of being in a different place?

Feelings are not afraid of quarrels, quarrels are a part of the life of two people, my object and I quarrel every day, we have been arguing for seven years, and the first four years are also long-distance relationships, but principled issues cannot be quarreled, such as emotional problems, and it doesn't matter if you quarrel over other trivial things.

Well, it's a bit of a sympathy, only tolerance and understanding, two people can go far, you can tell him softly that you miss it, it's much better than losing your temper! When you're in a bad mood, you can replace anger with grievances!

Because I care, I care. You should try to communicate as much as possible about this kind of emotion, and talk about this topic when the two people are very calm, talk about this kind of thought, and let the other party understand, otherwise there will be misunderstandings when you don't understand. Although long-distance relationships are difficult, there are still many people who can persevere, and I believe you can too.

Because love can encompass everything. I don't know if this is satisfying?

Your personality is really the same as mine, but now it's really open, sometimes, feelings really need to quarrel, and too calm love seems to be more dangerous. But quarrels really have to be done in moderation, sometimes I quarrel with my boyfriend, very vexatious, he is really innocent. I feel like he's innocent myself...

So my solution now is: I usually tell him something that is in a bad mood, and ask him to tolerate me a little more, and not to worry so much about little girls... Then sprinkle the coquettish ......When he is really in a bad mood, because he has already been vaccinated, he will be more or less considerate.

But as a wayward you ......Be sure to take the initiative to ...... after losing your temperTalk to him, joke around, be coquettish or something. Boy, I really want you to coax ......If a girl can be really coquettish and won't make people look fake, that's really good ......

I've also encountered such a situation I understand your feelings You can slowly adjust your mentality in normal times You also know that it is not easy for both of you to tell you a way Every time you want to say something, whisper it Don't let him hear it Don't think about him when you hit ** He is far away from you You just want to be him by your side Take your time In fact, you should get used to this kind of life It's been 3 years It's really not easy for you.

Maybe it's because the pressure is too much, try to control yourself when you lose your temper, you really can't control it, just reflect on it afterwards, and then take the initiative to apologize, it's no big deal, I wish you all love each other forever1

You can find something to do for yourself, so that you don't care so much about being in a different place with him, and then the time passes unconsciously, and soon, you can be together again...

If he loves you, you can tell him the kind of situation you are talking about and let him work it out with you.

There are few long-distance relationships that have achieved positive results, what you said is not unreasonable, I advise you to make plans early.

She must not have spoken a common language with you. You are in a different place now, can you guarantee that you will be able to love her alone for the rest of your life in the future? Also, will she be able to hold on?

This kind of pain, can you go and spend hours a day doing a car to see her? Do you want to talk to her? Concerned about her?

If you do choose her, you calculate how much the fare will cost for the month. Also, chatting on the Internet, ** After all, there is still a river among you, can you go beyond this river and face to face with her? It's not that I'm against long-distance relationships, but in fact, there are really very few long-distance relationships that succeed, and some of them break up after being together.

You may not understand what I said now, but I believe you will understand later. People who learn to let go are the ones who can succeed. You can't give up an entire forest for the sake of a single tree.

It's purely hand-beaten, hope!

Just treat her as a family member, an acquaintance, put aside all obstacles, and talk about some topics that both parties know, so that it will be much easier, and you will have everything to say, and you will have endless words.

Tolerate each other, respect each other, and understand ......