How do you have a big heart and don t care about what others say?

It is to relax the heart, filter the words of others, listen to the left ear and the right ear, and know the number in your heart. People with big hearts prove that they have a positive and optimistic attitude towards life, that is, they can be open-minded when dealing with interpersonal relationships and things.

Improve your ability to focus.

Put your mind on a thing that you are interested in, and work hard for it, even if you harvest other people's incomprehension and gossip in the process, then in fact, think about it, it is also the motivation to promote you to work harder, besides, this mouth grows on others, they want to say it, let them say it, as long as you are doing right, sitting upright, no matter what they say, you will do your own thing without distractions, and make a way to block their mouths.

Just thinking that "some people say" is not necessarily a bad thing.

It's not that "there are many people who are popular", you think, just like which celebrity is popular now, even if they are popular, they may not be able to do what everyone likes, not to mention that you are still an ordinary person, being said to prove that you actually have a place in that person's heart, even if he hates you, then it must prove that you have something in his heart that makes him feel envious, which just proves that he is an excellent person. It is because of excessive envy that jealousy will arise, and then gradually transform into those "sour" statements.

What about people, always meet their own nobles, but also meet the villain who makes a stumbling block for himself, for the nobles you respect them, for the villain you don't have to worry about them, always behind the people to make the trick of the person can have a good end, do their own work, master everything the villain does to you, not to always tolerate, but to wait for the opportunity to move, and then "kill him by surprise".

It's good to be yourself, just follow your heart.

Recently, I was watching "Tomorrow's Son", and I fell in love with one of the contestants in it out of control, Meng Zikun, oh my God, that voice is really touching, I'm a mother, is it a little bad to be so excited, but, really, not only people look energetic, but also sing as if they can stimulate every emotional cell in a person's body, I especially like the song "Never Again" he sings, I sometimes listen to it repeatedly, it is very good. By the way, I seem to be a little off-topic, then again, he is rebellious and eclectic in the eyes of others, although the state of the performance is like this in the eyes of the public, so everyone has different opinions about him, but in fact, the judges or the vocal teachers of the program group said that he is actually a very polite big boy.

It's understandable that a player with such a magical voice has a little personality, not to mention that he's just a player?! Even in the face of different controversies, he still insists on being his own **, which shows that no matter what he does, as long as he feels happy in his heart, he doesn't have to care too much about other people's opinions.

Born as human beings, we must have our own imperfections, after all, no one is perfect, so living in this world is of course going to make mistakes, and it will naturally be said by others, when others have opinions about us and talk about us, some of us will feel very aggrieved, some people will feel very angry, and some people are relaxed and don't care about these views. Personally, I think that the last group of people is the right thing to do, and we should really be big and ignore other people's comments when they are talking about it.

But everyone understands the truth, but they can't do it, and the key is that they can't convince their hearts. Therefore, we still have to overcome this level from the heart, and I think everyone should maintain a peaceful attitude in their hearts. First of all, we are not saints, it is inevitable to make mistakes, so it is natural to be caught by people to say something, talk about something, it is very normal, if you do something wrong, you really can't stop others from talking about you, but you have to learn to see some, because even if you are wronged and angry, you can't change anything, you can't stop other people's mouths, but it will affect your mood, it's a big deal when they are all air, and your own happiness is the most important thing.

But there are a lot of discussions and opinions that actually contain the part that you did wrong, so if you want to avoid being talked about by others, then correct it from yourself, and after correcting it, let yourself stop making these mistakes, and naturally you will not be able to grasp the handle to talk about you.

If it's that kind of nonsense, some people are born to like to catch other people's faults, but in fact you haven't done anything wrong, then don't pay attention to them, remember that the lion will never turn back for the sake of a dog barking, go your own way, let others do it! Believe you're right!

All in all, you have to have a wide heart in order to better adapt to this society.

People are not saints, and no one can really not be influenced by the outside world. But this influence can be weakened by your own efforts, read more books, calm down, and many things can be seen through without much impact.

For what you said, in my personal opinion, such people can probably be divided into two situations. First, this kind of big heart, or character is born, and people are born with such a big heart. The second is that it is mainly related to the living environment and personal experience.

In these two cases, people who are born with big hearts are estimated to be in the minority. After all, life is a problem. It's not something that can be solved by having a big heart.

Most people with this kind of personality are formed by later life circumstances and personal experiences. People with big hearts are actually people who are more positive, open-minded, and cheerful. Such a person is usually full of energy.

When encountering problems, think about the best aspects. In short, as long as it is not to the extent of Madahar, it is all good.

As for how to do it, in fact, if you force yourself not to care, this is simply pretending not to care, and you still can't let go of it in your heart. Therefore, you don't have to deliberately be big-hearted, as long as you are a person who is not good to yourself, you will no longer care about it in the future.

A big heart is not something that can be done if you want to do it, a large part of this is genetics, some people are born with a big heart, and some people even if they seem to have a big heart, in fact, their hearts are struggling, so it is very painful to look at it, if you have to force yourself to have a big heart, then look at things a little bit, nothing big, but it is difficult to do this.

The heart is relaxed, and all the good and the bad are downplayed. Don't think about anything and have a good attitude.

Just because someone can do it doesn't mean you can do it. Everyone is different, and the philosophy of acceptance is also different.

Do things informally, just look at the results and be successful.