Suddenly I have a baby, and I am a little caught off guard, what should I do?

First of all, I understand your mood very well, presumably every expectant mother will be caught off guard when she first knows that she has been "hit". So, you don't need to be overly nervous, it's normal to accept yourself first.

Then, let yourself calm down and think about what to expect after the "baby arrives": including:

1. Work arrangement. If so, you should consider who you can hand over to your boss and how you can help others take over smoothly, after all, after having a baby, you can't be a workaholic or a desperate Saburo as usual.

2. Family arrangement. There may be morning sickness in the early stage of pregnancy (not 100% of people have it), and the body is inconvenient in the later stage, and you may need someone to take care of it.

3. Plan for the arrival of the baby. Adding a new baby to your home will be completely different from life without children, of course, this change is acceptable, after all, you have seen all the families with children around you come over like this, but it is not the same as the previous free period.

But in short, don't be overly nervous and panicked, human beings have a history of tens of thousands of years, and modern science and technology are so advanced, everything will be as you wish, and everything will be smoothly transitioned.

Finally, I wish you again: the baby is healthy, and the mother is smooth!

My mother told me that she was 21 at the time, and she was still a child, so she was at a loss in the face of a new life, but since she has become a mother, she should learn how to be a good mother, so you don't have to worry about how to take care of the baby who is caught off guard, learn step by step, step by step, because every young mother comes over like this

First of all, you can go online to see some mothers and babies, there are still a lot of baby raisers on the Internet, their experience is kept in Weibo, and there are some special ones, WeChat, which are very good references. Also, I think you can spend some money to ask a dietitian or a doctor in the hospital, and ask them to tell you how to take care of the child's diet and life when it is born, these authoritative professionals still have a unique understanding of taking care of the child<>

Then, you can learn from the experience of the old people. The older generation has actual combat experience, so they still have more say in taking care of children, but the old people can't trust all of them. My mother told me that my grandmother used to tell her that it is easy for children to digest what adults have chewed, but she thinks it is unhygienic, cough cough, now I am a little scared when I think of this, I don't know if I have eaten what my relatives fed me when I was a child...

But you can listen to the opinions of taking care of the children, but don't listen to the old people in terms of educating the children, after all, there is a generation gap, their thinking is still relatively old-fashioned, take my grandmother as an example, when she was young, she has always insisted on filial piety under the stick, so many years, my father still hates her, thinks she is too ruthless, so, the problem of educating children, or to find the right way by yourself

If you come, you will be safe, and other people's children will come to you, which is a gift from God, just accept it. The answer was also unprepared at the time, at that time I had just left the unit, and then applied for the current unit, to the new unit to report for just a month, and there will be nothing, one day I suddenly remembered that I seemed to have not come to the aunt for more than 20 days, and then urged my husband to hurry up to buy a test strip, at the beginning of the test did not respond, I was quite happy, haha, nothing is postponed, no need to be nervous, and then I saw that my husband's face was green, and then said that it seems to be true, ah? I was in a really mixed mood, both suspicious, surprised, apprehensive and a little happy, anyway, I had never been in such a mood.

Later, we comforted ourselves that it was okay, and the unit would not fire me anyway, and then we happily accepted the fact that we had a baby.

Then I started to wear flat heels, at first no one told me, and then when it was six months, I couldn't hide it and told the leader and colleagues, and then our leaders didn't arrange any work for me, until now, but today I also figured it out, the leader may be in my childbirth period with other people has been very comfortable, then I will take this opportunity to study, take a senior engineer, then take an MBA, and then take an intermediate economist, even if you don't want me, go to other units to find a job. Anyway, since the child is here, then welcome his arrival happily, the baby is really cute, and will give you a new surprise every day, for example, my son is only nineteen months old, and today I already know to pick up the mother at the door, haha.

First of all, you should adjust your attitude, develop good habits of work and rest, no smoking, no drinking, in short, you can't eat, you must not eat, and you must make up for what you should make.

Adjust your mindset first, and then try to accept this fact, you will feel the happiness of your baby.

Actually, you should feel happy. First of all, you already have children, children will bring you joy, adjust your mentality, treat your children well.