How do introverts socialize and network?

I'm an introvert, I don't usually like to talk, and I don't like to talk when I see the leader, and I always take a detour when I want to stay away.

When I was in college, I didn't have a good relationship with my roommates at the beginning, and I often ate alone and went shopping alone, because I was the kind of person who didn't come to talk to me, and I wouldn't take the initiative to talk to you, more colorful, more introverted.

But then one of my roommates found out that I was actually a very kind-hearted person, and then he took the initiative to eat with me and go to class together. So I had my first friend in college, so why would she think I was kind? It's because she had a high fever at night, I accompanied her to go out in the middle of the night to find a clinic, looking for one by one, and finally found one, can you imagine the kind of anxiety when two students went out in the middle of the night in the winter, I was particularly afraid of meeting bad people, and then we finally found a clinic and opened it, and then prescribed medicine to her, and then the next day I came back, I also had a fever because of the cold.

Since then, we've both been particularly iron. Later, the relationship between my other roommates and me also became better.

So what I want to say is that whether you are introverted or extroverted is not really important at all, what matters is a sincere heart, a sincere heart that is willing to help others. When others are in difficulty, even if you are an introvert, but you are still willing to stand up and help others, Lu Yao knows that the horsepower has been seen for a long time, and after a long time, everyone will naturally recognize you, and treat you as a friend, the so-called connections, I think that rich and powerful people will naturally look for you, if you have no money and no power, then you have a heart to help others, and your connections will not be bad.

1. One-on-one conversation. Introverts can feel energized by talking one-on-one about topics they are interested in, and they can gain energy through complex discussions where each other thinks carefully about each other's point of view. This rhythm of developmental conversation is more appropriate for introverts because they can sit and talk slowly.

They can also listen more than they talk, pause before entering the conversation and experience more distractions, and they can also look elsewhere without losing touch with the other person.

2. Start the conversation with decorations. Introverts are usually afraid to start a conversation, so we can use some props to attract others to take the initiative to talk to us. Pets, kids, costumes, and cameras are all great decorations.

3. Prepare an escape plan. Before attending a social event, consider your escape plan, set a specific time to leave in your mind, and arrange your own transportation. In this way we can know our own energy***.

It's equivalent to giving yourself a reassuring pill. If you still feel energized at the scheduled departure time, you can stay for a longer period of time.

4. Active listening. In fact, most introverts are very popular in social situations because extroverts are in great need of good listeners. It's just that introverts are too focused on managing their own uneasy emotions and don't realize how other people react to them, such as others expressing their affirmation and liking for themselves through smiling and leaning towards themselves.

Conversely, extroverts are usually able to pick up on these signals right away.

I'm also relatively introverted and not good at taking the initiative to communicate. Especially in ordinary life, even when you meet someone you know on the road, you don't know how to take the initiative to say hello. I can avoid any event every time, and I would rather choose to be alone quietly and alone than a group of people together.

So my circle of friends is very small, and there are only a few people who come and go. Although I know that networking is important, in reality, taking the initiative to make friends is really too difficult for an introvert.

I would like to recommend an approach that I personally think is more suitable. Once the personality is formed, it is difficult to change, but there are many channels to make friends, since it is difficult for us to take the initiative to socialize in our daily life, so why not make good use of the Internet. Now that QQ and WeChat are prevalent, what we say on various chat software may be much more than two people talking face-to-face in reality, in fact, this is also a desirable way for us to establish contacts.

I believe that everyone will have no fewer friends in their address book, but there can be a few who really have a good relationship. If you want to participate in more social activities, you can start with friends on your list. One by one, take the initiative to chat with them, have more contact, and do not need to establish an ironclad relationship, as long as you maintain an ordinary friend relationship.

People like the ones you added to your list, who were either former classmates, former colleagues, or fellow countrymen, will always have common topics to talk about. After all, the Internet is not like reality, you don't need to worry about being shy, running out of words, and you can say whatever you want across a screen. When the conversation is familiar, the relationship will naturally be established, and you can even make an appointment to eat and party, which is also a good way to make friends.

Step out of your comfort zone, take the initiative to participate in social activities, and have the courage to take the initiative to communicate with others, treat others with sincerity, and make yourself valuable, so that you can build a good network.

Or don't communicate, often be pitted, talk more than talk less, be careful that people take advantage of it, bring unnecessary trouble, and the heart of harm must not be dispensed without.

First of all, you have to make up your mind to change this situation, and you also need to meet more people and participate in more group activities, which can not only change your introverted personality, but also make you more aware of how to deal with interpersonal relationships.

For those who are introverted and do not know how to socialize in the workplace, then they also need to expand their networks, so as to ensure their sustainable development in the workplace. First of all, you have to start with the colleagues around you, and his own colleagues get along with him day and night, and it must be easier to get along。We can communicate more with our colleagues at work, and we also need to overcome our own psychological barriers.

It is actually very easy to communicate with your colleagues, and you can also get a good promotion, and everyone is able to change their personality. <>

You can communicate more with your colleagues.

Therefore, for most people, if they think that they are very introverted, it is because they lack exercise in life. Everyone will go against the grain for their own work and for some other part. I believe that everyone usually finds it very difficult to study and work.

But in order to improve their economic level, they will choose such difficult things. Therefore, as long as you are willing to communicate with your colleagues, you will also find that communication and communication are not very difficult. <>

Guarantee your desire to socialize.

Introversion and communication of a person's personality do not become opposing issues. The necessary communication can facilitate some exercise and make your interpersonal communication better and better. Therefore, if you want to expand your network, you need to have in-depth communication and exchanges with others, so that you can become friends with others.

So in the workplace, this is also a very important step, as long as you can learn to be friends with others, then you will definitely be able to gain a lot on the battlefield, and you will gain your own connections. Networking is especially important in the workplace, and as long as you put in the effort and respect for others, you will definitely reap these things.

You can let your friends introduce you to friends, and you should usually go to more parties and participate in some dating parties, so that you can meet a lot of people, and you will also let yourself have a very good network, and you can help if you encounter any problems in the future.

We can read more books and stories to increase our knowledge and experience, and we can have a good way to deal with some problems, and at the same time, we can participate in more social activities, make some new friends, and make ourselves optimistic and cheerful.

First of all, you should open your mind to contact more people around you, and then learn about the basic social skills through reading books and surfing the Internet, and then apply them in practice, so that you can gradually expand your network.

In our lives, many people are more introverted, but it is very bad for their interpersonal communication, which also makes it difficult for them to accumulate their own people, so how can introverts expand their network? Today, I will give you a brief talk about introverts and how to expand their network.

For introverted people, interpersonal communication may not be what they are good at, so they have to accumulate their own contacts through their own efforts, and they have to improve their comprehensive ability, because only when you become excellent can you have the opportunity to integrate into a better circle and make more and better friends, and you have to dare to talk to others in this process, if you can't, you won't talk to others if you're afraid, which is very unfavorable for you to accumulate contacts. And only if you take the initiative to communicate with others, you can let others know your ability, and others are willing to become your network, and they are willing to help you in your work, so for introverts, if you want to accumulate contacts, you must practice more and integrate into the circle of interest.

What you are really interested in will work harder to achieve and complete your own interest, and when you are in the process of pursuing your own interests, you will make a lot of like-minded friends, because the two of you have common hobbies, it will be easier to get to know each other, and it can also make it easier for you to get along with each other, enhance the relationship between the two of you, which is also a good way for you to accumulate contacts. In addition to taking the initiative to make contacts, you also need to know how to share your life circle, because only when you share, others know what kind of person you are, and the maintenance of interpersonal relationships takes time and energy, so consciously introduce friends into your social circle, and then maintain and even strengthen interpersonal relationships through the circle, so as to expand your own network.

The above content only represents my personal opinion, if there is any error, please understand.

You must dare to express your thoughts, be friendly when communicating with others, and constantly improve your strength, which will naturally attract many people who are willing to be friends with you, and speak with an attitude that is neither humble nor arrogant, and behave elegantly, even if you are unhappy, you can't vent to your colleagues.

First of all, you should make a plan for your social activities, do things according to the plan, go out more and make more friends, and then meet friends and friends, and constantly expand your network.

I think it is very important to change your personality first, read more books in your life, cultivate your language skills and knowledge reserves, make a good impression on him, and constantly attract others, which can improve your interpersonal status.

If you can't break through, it's better to accept it, and don't always refuse friends' gatherings. There's nothing wrong with being introverted, as long as you don't have low self-esteem. Introverts sometimes just don't want to waste time on something they're not interested in.

and some without nutrients. If you are an introvert by nature, it is a bit difficult to break through, and it is unnatural. After a long time, it will still return to the original point.

If you have the ability to break through and be natural, and you can continue. Introversion is not the same as social barriers, introverts will leave more time for themselves to be alone, which is a very valuable ability that most people do not have today.

Everyone has something they are good at, and to take it to the extreme, know that introverts are not introverts in all situations. In fact, there are introverts and extroverts in everyone's personality, but the proportion is different. Introverts are more likely to give full play to their own strengths, for example, introverts are better at thinking, more acute, and more independent judgments, and they are better at summarizing and learning from experience, making correct choices and insisting on assertiveness, which is conducive to the efficient use of their own advantages. Introverts are more focused, less affected by people and things in the outside world, and prefer to focus on doing what they like, which is conducive to giving full play to their strengths; Introverts are better at being alone, and many achievements and advantages need to be long-term persistence and loneliness.

Only if you have the ability to do your own thing socially, you can be recognized by others, and others will want to get close to you. Why bother to socialize when you don't have a little accumulation, if you have to do it for your job, then it's a different matter, especially for us introverts, who may break off this idea when they hit a wall. Give yourself a little time to grow, introverts are generally realistic, and only when they are strong will they show themselves from the inside out.