Girls, did you get beaten a lot when you were young?

There are too many of them, and the kindergarten has been beaten until the junior high school, for all kinds of reasons. My mother took me to buy breakfast and said that she couldn't finish it, and the seller gave half of the less, so she was beaten on the way. My dad worked at home and asked me to hand the wrench, and when I couldn't find the wrench when I was drawing, my dad beat me up, and because he resisted, he tore all my paintings and trampled on my drawing board.

What else is not allowed to scrape the bowl when eating, if you scrape, you must beat, you are not allowed to cry if you hit, you are not allowed to beat again when you cry, you are not allowed to kneel crookedly, you must also beat if you are crooked, and it is normal to have nosebleeds. I had a scar on my knee, and when I was a kid my dad used a belt to whip me, and the belt broke, and my knee was broken. Because of being beaten too much, he has an irritable personality when he grows up, is too independent, and can't be coquettish and doesn't trust anyone.

Now I communicate with my parents, they regret that they often beat me when I was a child, but they always make excuses that it is normal to beat children under pressure, I am a girl, I was often beaten when I was in elementary school, my father beat me until my nose bleeded, and let me drag myself, beat me with a bamboo piece, and as a result, a small piece penetrated my ear bone, and he went to sleep directly, and used a hanger and belt to beat everything, often knelt on the bench and knelt on the floor, and I haven't beaten since junior high school. I don't get beaten much, but my mother is super fierce, and she likes to scold me, for example, I accidentally fell, and my first reaction was not to help me up and ask me if it hurts, but to scold me for walking without eyes, or I obviously promised that I could go to play with my friends, and I could go home later, but when I came home later, I scolded me until I cried, went to school and wanted to go with my friends, and waited for my classmates at the corner of the street, and she found out, so she took out a broom on the street and beat me, saying that I shouldn't wait for my friends, there are too many such things, I think I have a very strange temper now, is imperceptibly like her, fortunately I have been very rebellious since I was a child, and then once, the water pipe burst at home, she asked me to go downstairs to call my father to come back to repair the water pipe, because I didn't wear underwear at home, and when I was changing clothes, I scolded me, scolded me very badly, said I shouldn't change, that time I really couldn't stand her, so I ran away from home once, and then I went home first and may feel that I was wrong, and I was gentle for a while, but then I began to intensify, and said to me, if you want to go, you can go, Seeing how you live outside, I just said that I would rather starve to death than be scolded by you, and secretly ran away from home again at night, she may really think that I can do anything, and then she didn't dare to scold me much.

Did you get beaten a lot when you were a child? In China, many parents believe in producing talents under the stick, so it was normal for us to be beaten by our parents when we were young!

I never lived with my parents, so they never beat me in my memory, maybe they didn't have a chance! Hahaha. Because most of us are separated by two places, we only see each other once a year, and secondly, I have always been a relatively obedient child, and I have never caused trouble for my parents since I was a child.

However, the little friend I play with has to be repaired by my parents almost every day, and he is a boy who is more naughty. We rarely played with him because his mother wouldn't let him play with us and said we would teach him badly. He is the only child in the family, so he has a more domineering personality, and he often does not follow the rules of the game when playing games with him, and will bully younger children.

If there is a conflict, he will be beaten, his parents take turns to educate, I remember the most serious time was that his father hung him up and used a wire to whip him, he didn't go out of the house for many days, and then he didn't play with me anymore, most of them were alone, I don't know what happened to his parents every time something happened without asking the reason and began to beat him.

The child definitely needs to be educated, but the technique is very important, not as long as the child makes a mistake, he will be beaten until his skin is bruised and swollen, which is extremely easy to leave a shadow on the child's heart, which has great disadvantages for his future growth. Our times are advancing, in the past, we have to learn to adapt to the times, the appropriate amount of screening, the original intention of parents is for the good of the child, so we must not harm the child because of improper methods, Confucius said to teach according to aptitude.

I don't get beaten much, but my mother is super fierce, and she likes to scold me, for example, I accidentally fell, and my first reaction was not to help me up and ask me if it hurts, but to scold me for walking without eyes, or I obviously promised that I could go to play with my friends, and I could go home later, but when I came home later, I scolded me until I cried, went to school and wanted to go with my friends, and waited for my classmates at the corner of the street, and she found out, so she took out a broom on the street and beat me, saying that I shouldn't wait for my friends, there are too many such things, I think I have a very strange temper now, is imperceptibly like her, fortunately I have been very rebellious since I was a child, and then once, the water pipe burst at home, she asked me to go downstairs to call my father to come back to repair the water pipe, because I didn't wear underwear at home, and when I was changing clothes, I scolded me, scolded me very badly, said I shouldn't change, that time I really couldn't stand her, so I ran away from home once, and then I went home first and may feel that I was wrong, and I was gentle for a while, but then I began to intensify, and said to me, if you want to go, you can go, Seeing how you live outside, I just said that I would rather starve to death than be scolded by you, and secretly ran away from home again at night, she may really think that I can do anything, and then she didn't dare to scold me much.

When I was a kid, I really couldn't count the number of beatings. I grew up in my aunt's house, and my aunt was very strict with me, and my aunt beat me the most when I was a child. My uncle only hit me once because I lost my books when I was in school.

Then my uncle beat me up, saying that I had lost my books and was still going to school. Then there's my aunt, who beats me up every time I do something wrong.

I remember when I was a child, I saw a child with a needle for injection, and I liked it very much, and then I took the opportunity to hide it secretly. Somehow, I was found out by my aunt, and she gave me a fat beating at that time, asked me to return the needle, and said that I would be beaten if I stole anything in the future, so scared that I would never dare to steal other people's things in the future. Another time was when I was a child, I ate a sweet rod and ate the most, so I asked my aunt to wrap it for me, and my aunt beat me up again and said how to wrap it if my mouth was broken?

Since then, I don't dare to tell my aunt if any of them are broken. Then I grew up a little bit and then I learned to run.

Once, because I beat other children, their adults came to my aunt, and then my aunt was going to beat me, but I was already very old at that time, almost six or seven years old, I saw that it was not good, so I ran immediately, and my aunt chased me behind, my aunt is the kind of person who is very steady, she doesn't run no matter how anxious she is, so I run, run for a while and find that I can't see my aunt, and then I stand in place for a while, wait for my aunt for a while, so that she can't find a hurry. When my aunt was about to catch up with me, I continued to run, and I couldn't find it all afternoon, and I felt quite tired, so I sneaked home and went to sleep. Anyway, when I was a child, I had to be beaten by my aunt twice in three days, but I have never been beaten since I went to school.

I was beaten a lot when I was a kid. And it was not a beating of "thunder and rain", but a beating of red marks that swollen up on the body after the beating, and a beating that took a week or two to disappear. I don't know if the reason for my beating is relatively rare and strange, or if everyone is beaten because of this kind of weirdness.

From birth until I graduated from elementary school, I always had a boy's short hairstyle with short ears, and I was always treated as a boy in elementary school. Because my mom thought that my long hair would interfere with my studies, she insisted that I cut it very short. I would rather die than cut it, and every time my mom asked me to cut my hair, I would hold the door or the stairwell handrail with both hands, and I would just pick it there, not going to the barbershop.

My mom went crazy, and in the end, she was subdued by my mom, and then she gave in, and was forced to go to the barber shop to cut her hair. Because short hair grows quickly, it often needs to be cut short, so it is often beaten. I grew up being beaten when I was a kid.

Anyway, when I went to cut my hair, the master was afraid of me when he saw my crying face. Every time I cut my hair, I went in with red eyes, and when I came out, I had snot all over the place.

The main reason is that when I was a child, my IQ was not high, and my understanding of the world was still relatively shallow, and I did a lot of things that I thought were seamless at the time, but in the eyes of adults, it was mentally retarded behavior. As a result, his deception was discovered, and then he was beaten. When I think about it, I think, if I had this kind of child, I would have beaten it too.

I believe that the trick that everyone basically used when they were children is to change the score of the test paper, or simulate the signature of the parents. When I was a child, I took the exam 36, and the teacher asked my parents to sign the test paper, I was afraid of being beaten, so I changed the score, 39 was changed to 86, and I thought it was seamless, and when I got home, I showed my dad the test paper and said that the teacher asked you to sign the test paper, and my dad said that I really took the test 89, so I nodded and didn't speak.

My dad said, okay, you go to dinner first, after eating what I didn't expect was that I was still beaten badly, my dad said while beating, it doesn't matter if the book is not read, so young let you learn the ability to deceive, this is okay, I was still curious how he saw that I changed my grades, after beating me, he asked me that there were more wrong numbers on the whole test paper than the right number, how did you take the 89 test, after this incident I understood a truth, bear children do this kind of contempt for their parents' IQ, it should indeed be beaten.

In addition, I played BB guns when I was a child. A pistol that shoots plastic bullets. Playing into the nature of a bear child, my mom bought me one.

In order to test whether this gun hurts, my brother and I were very afraid of the pain, so we had to find someone to test it. So I aimed for my mom who was taking a nap. Holding a gun to my mother's thigh.

Biu let out a loud scream. I was rewarded with a double melee.

And what happened when I was older was that my grades were always in the top few of the school at that time, and I often got scholarships. Once after taking the scholarship, I didn't tell my parents, but secretly spent it all by myself, used it to eat, buy clothes and buy shoes, and then kept lying to my parents that it hadn't been sent yet, and I didn't know when it would be sent. I knew that one day there was a parent-teacher conference, and my mother asked the teacher, and the teacher said that it had been sent earlier, and then I was beaten up in my true form.

If you can't change your habit of cheating, you'll have to fight.

Now that I think about it, it's all my own fault, and it's normal to be beaten. Treat it calmly, as long as there is no missing arm or leg now, it is healthier to fight.