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I'm here to write about my thoughts and practices on optimism, which I hope will help you.
First of all, you are not optimistic because you have hope in life, but you are difficult, because you seem to have a lot of demands in your heart, you are at a loss, and you don't have the mood to let go, so you feel depressed.
The road is to go step by step, you can have great ideals, but you can't ask yourself to do it, what is hope, hope is your current situation, you want to be an outstanding person in the future, whether it is a scientist or a writer, it is good to earn money that you can't use up, of course, this is what you think in your heart, you can't think of it as achievable, time is there, for life, you can't say that there is no hope, this is a positive thought. I don't mean to say that you don't put in the whimsy of effort, you can have any kind of positive lofty ideals, you can hope to start from scratch, you can't be a person who can't dispel your thoughts with a stick, right? If you don't even have the idea of faith, how can you hope?
Time is of the essence, because sometimes it needs to be excessive.
You can think about the hope of your future life, just think about it, don't get old and think about it. Why? Because there are positive thinkers in the heart, there will be people who are active in doing things, I said that you have to have lofty ideas, this is as a driving force, but this is to grasp the proportion, just like a hole card in your heart, there are, but not true, can not be shown, placed on the motivation, although there is nothing, but hope.
Forget the past right and wrong, don't use the emotions of the past mistakes to stifle the vitality of your heart, even if you are wrong, if you are wrong, you are wrong, from now on as an experience, you can forget, I say forget, I don't mean that it is not the same thing, what you want to forget is its negative impact on you.
If a person in distress wants to have a way out, he must have ideals.
To realize the ideal, where to be motivated, is to be cheerful.
How to be cheerful, always be humorous, don't think about things in bad ways.
How can we be cheerful and forget the past, whether it is right or wrong, whether it is joy or sorrow.
Don't think about the hardships in real life, which means that you have to care, but you can't care too much. Hope you understand.
Don't say things that make you unhappy.
Don't do things that you regret.
When you're having fun, you don't have to think about anything else.
When you work hard, you work hard, and you don't have to think about anything else.
When mistakes happen again and again, it is not something that people can do to stop them, forgive yourself, and remember the experience if you can learn from it.
In general, happiness is the source.
These are my personal thoughts, I hope it will be helpful to you, but it cannot be implemented in a logical way, it can only be based on the actual situation. For some people, there are also those who disagree with my ideas and practices, the world is thousands, the so-called personal choice, everything can only be taken according to the actual quantity.
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Go watch the show of Hunan TV, "Metamorphosis".
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Don't make excuses for anything, you can only find a way to do anything and not the external environment, you can make money if you have time to complain here, it's better to think more about how you make money, look at things with a different attitude, and you will be optimistic.
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Buy a lottery ticket, two bets a day for four dollars, not much but give yourself a hope. Also, if my friends are all pig friends, I'd rather not have friends.
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When I was a child, the thing I really wanted was marshmallows.
Although it is a very ordinary food, it is a beautiful and simple memory of our childhood, which can make us feel the warmth of life and live our life with a more positive and optimistic attitude.
1.Maintain an optimistic and sunny attitude.
People who have an optimistic attitude are more likely to present a positive and enthusiastic side in life and work. No matter how big the difficulties are, they will try their best to solve them, such people are more comfortable at work and more interesting in life, while people who like to look at things around them with a pessimistic attitude often worry about the world before they even set off, and the sense of loss is increasing day by day, and life becomes less positive because of this. So, no matter what kind of predicament you are in right now, please remember to keep smiling and facing it positively, that is the way life should be.
2.Have the courage to live an active life.
Every step we take requires courage, and this bravery comes from the conviction in our hearts. In real life, many people do not know how to face difficulties and setbacks when they encounter them, so they are depressed and lose the confidence and motivation they should have in life.
When encountering any difficulties, please do not be arrogant, learn to face difficulties, always believe in yourself, and move forward bravely. The road is step by step, you just have to take a brave step, and the beauty of life will definitely meet you unexpectedly.
3.You must be focused enough to do things, and Zaoqing is serious.
I want to do everything, but I often can't do anything well. The best thing to do is to find something that interests you and try to do it to the best of your ability. Maybe the process is lonely, but it can make you different.
If you don't do it well the first time, it doesn't matter, take your time, try a few more times, and slow work can produce fine work. Those who are always in a hurry, are prone to failure.
So, don't get by, do your best to do everything in your hands well. All your days accumulate and sooner or later you will become beyond the reach of others.
4.Have a good zest for life.
People like to stay in their comfort zone and get used to a comfortable life. Many times we stagnate, not because we are not strong enough, but because we lack a curiosity about new things.
Only by always maintaining a love for life can we continuously improve our enthusiasm for life. Only by maintaining a curious mind and maintaining an optimistic attitude can we continue to improve and improve.
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Introduction: You must keep yourself optimistic in life, face life with optimism, and you will find that there are many surprises waiting for you. If a person is in a negative mood all day long, there will be diseases in the body, and it is necessary to maintain an optimistic mood in order to have a healthy body.
Today, let's talk to you, what are the benefits of staying optimistic for our body?
If a person faces everyone around him with a positive attitude all day long, the people around him will be infected by this attitude. People who are always happy will prolong their lifespan, so that their bodies can also maintain a state that others can't reach, and people who don't have troubles will be very relaxed, and if you don't live happily, if you are negative all day long, your body will be very depressed, and a series of diseases will occur, and then it will be impossible for you to get rid of your troubles. Don't put too much pressure on yourself all day, keep your mindset optimistic, only then can you gradually get rid of your worries.
Parents should not always scold their children when educating their children, scolding their children, children are prone to withdrawn personality, if you want to make yourself have an optimistic state, you must first face everyone around you with a smile. Learning to smile is a big step towards optimism. The people around you will be infected by yourself, and the people around you will become very optimistic when you are infected by your optimistic attitude, no one wants to be with a negative person all day long, and you can usually do more exercise and exercise.
If you want to be optimistic, you must participate in more entertainment activities and stay optimistic, so that there will be no disease in your body. If a person has a disease in his body, he will be happy all day and the disease will naturally dissipate, so don't use your anxiety to create a disease for yourself. No one likes to be unhappy all day, make yourself happy and do something meaningful.
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First of all, you have to meet an optimistic friend.
Communicate with him more.
I can also get infected to some extent.
In your free time, watch inspirational movies or comedies.
Personally, when I'm in a bad mood, I always watch the happy camp, and even if you don't think it's funny, you have to force yourself to laugh.
Xie Na once taught a method: when you are depressed, laugh out loud, force yourself to laugh, when you laugh for 3 minutes, it will naturally become visceral, hahahaha.
It's a bit silly, but it's practical.
I am also a person who is particularly pessimistic and depressed every autumn.
Every time I'm pessimistic, I scribble on paper.
I feel that there is nothing to be sad about when I write and write.
Then listen to a little dance music or a light **, like "Tik Tok".
And then I went to the fun.
In a word.
Try to allow yourself to accept happy and positive things, not to ignore the negative, but at least let the positive prevail.
Accumulate over a long period. I believe that the mentality of the landlord will be greatly improved.
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1. Have a good self-concept
This is also called "self-concept" in psychology, which refers to a person's innermost evaluation of themselves. The more positive a person's self-concept, the more positive the mindset becomes; Conversely, the more negative evaluations in the self-concept, the more negative the mindset becomes. When you look in the mirror every day, do you look at it more and more happily, or do you look more and more unhappy?
Is it more and more satisfied, or is it more and more dissatisfied? I estimate that many people are more unhappy and dissatisfied the more they shine, because they see all the shortcomings and imperfections.
2. Be good at self-motivation
The first is the incentive of knowledge. Because we are now a knowledge-based economy society, and there is a lot of knowledge and information, we must continue to learn and build a capacity structure and knowledge structure that are compatible with the development of modern society.
The second is emotional motivation. A person's emotions are like an engine that cannot run at high speed forever, and the engine must be refueled when there is no oil, so people must adjust their emotions and not always be troubled and dominated by bad and low emotions. Methods of Emotional Motivation:
You can cultivate a variety of interests and hobbies, build harmonious family relationships, and have good friends who share like-minded interests, so that when you are feeling down, you can find all kinds of support and security.
3. Maintain an optimistic mood
Psychologists in the United States have conducted a detailed survey of more than 10,000 people in more than 100 countries and regions, and found that happiness is a psychological feeling unique to human beings, and it is not intrinsically related to race, age, occupation, status, and personal wealth, and happiness belongs to each person. The growth of material wealth is not directly proportional to the happiness of the heart. The high growth of China's GDP has created a miracle in the world economy, but the number of depressed patients in China is also growing, and the suicide rate in China exceeds the international average.
So, how can you be happy? Based on personal experience, I believe that simple is the only way to be happy, and when I was a child, the moment when the family shared a small piece of meat was the happiest time for me.
The American psychologist Seligman did an experiment. Seligman tested 70 people with heart disease, and 16 of the 17 patients tested as pessimistic died because they did not survive a second heart attack; Of the 19 people who tested the most optimistic, only one had lost their lives to a second heart attack. This shows that if a person has a positive and healthy attitude, he can mobilize the positive factors of the whole body to resist the disease, and if he is negative and pessimistic, he will be quickly defeated by the disease.
4. Be grateful
Being grateful means that we have to be grateful for what we have, for the circumstances in which we live.
We should cherish what we have now. A positive mindset can help us face life with a positive and optimistic expression, and such a mood can bring us a lot of unexpected gains and strength. Therefore, no matter when and where, you should keep your positive heart.
If you want to be in love with a person for a long time, it is to keep it all the way, go all the way, if you develop faster than him spiritually, wait for him, pull him, this is called to love him physically, isn't it, don't let him stay away from you, too far away spiritually, don't let him stay away from you, too far away spiritually, love is the union of the heart, if the heart goes away, the love will be scattered, and it will fade.
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There is a limit and time for any emotion. Let it be. Don't try to control the emotions you need to vent. When the pessimism passes, it's optimism.
The most important thing is to drink plenty of plain water! If you do more for the face**, if you do it every day, it is recommended to make it homemade, and buy cosmetics** generally 2 3 times a week, homemade has no dependence, and you can do it every day. If you are in the body, do not use very hot water in the bath, and rub the body lotion as soon as possible after washing.
Always remind yourself to enrich yourself every day and add more positive energy to yourself.