What is fate, should we believe in it?

Yes, definitely!! Believe it or not, if I told others in the Tang Dynasty that people in the future can fly in the sky when they go on a trip, they will definitely say that I am a fool, but if people look at it now, those people in the Tang Dynasty who say that I am a fool are also fools! You can't deny it because we can't see it, and if you deny it if you can't see it, it only means that you are too superstitious about your own eyes and too superstitious about the current science (superstition is blind faith).

Blind faith is superstition! We all live in a superstitious world, we are all superstitious, we just don't know it yet! For example, we all believe that the TV can receive the TV signal as soon as it is turned on, and we can watch TV programs, so do you know why the TV can receive the TV signal?

Do you know what every element in a TV does? If you don't know anything about that circuit, why should you trust a TV set to receive a TV signal? But you just believe, whether you understand it or not, that's superstition!

There are also people who say that if you can see it, you can believe it, and if you can't see it, you don't believe it, but the human eye also knows that it can only see a spectrum of light between infrared and ultraviolet, but the range of infrared and ultraviolet is not known how many times larger than the visible light, it can be said that it is countless times, and it is simple and incomparable. The TV signal is still invisible, can you say it doesn't exist?

In short, what you see is not necessarily true, and what you can't see is not necessarily fake, whether you are superstitious or not depends on whether you are sober-minded!

If it is a blind belief in science, it is also superstition! In the past, there was a saying that "seeing is believing", and I have seen this era, and this word is not credible! Who believed Einstein when he proposed the theory of relativity?

They all said he was a fool, and now let's look at the people who said Einstein was a fool at the time - that's the real stupidity! If, in the future, science proved that what we now call superstitions is true, would we also laugh at it???

Buddhism is against karma and is resolutely resistant.

Fate is a secular saying, a kind of helplessness that people didn't understand about life in ancient times.

From another point of view, he is actually the embodiment of karma in this lifetime, and Buddhism tells us that the way to change is to understand cause and effect, change one's behavior, and thus change one's fate.

That is, the life has been written at the time of birth.

When you are pessimistic, you should push karma for the liberation of the responsibility of the soul, but there will always be something that we can control.

Don't believe it! Too negative.

What determines a person's choice, and indeed his fate?

I am pessimistic by nature and often have a sense of helpless fatalism.

I once saw the psychologist Wu Zhihong tell such a story.

A man once came to the counseling room for help while he was struggling with an unusual love triangle.

He has a wife who is not good-looking, and a very beautiful lover, and this lover is his first love.

What is surprising is that for him, the first love was originally the ideal partner, but he kept going on blind dates, and finally he chose a person who was not very satisfied to get married, and he couldn't let go of the first love in his heart, resulting in the same love triangle.

When asked why he made that choice in the first place, he only said three words: it's fate.

After a later in-depth analysis, the answer was finally found. It turns out that for him, his first love is like a goddess, in front of the goddess, he always subconsciously feels "she is so good, how can I be worthy", and he has been tormented by inferiority.

On the contrary, with an "ugly wife", not only did the inferiority complex disappear, but there was even a sense of superiority.

It's hard to say whether some things in life are predestined or just because of the subconscious mind that the final result slowly goes in the direction you feel you do.

After reading some analyses at the level of psychology, psychology believes that only 5% of our daily "conscious" thoughts are made, and the remaining 95% are hidden underwater subconscious, which is like an invisible hand, dominating a person's personality, personality, and psychology.

A person's life is just a choice driven by the subconscious.

An unintentional action, a myriad of deliberate major choices, is often the result of our inner subconscious

Being attracted to a person into marriage, you like his talent for humor, this is conscious, he laughs like your mother makes you feel safe, is subconscious;

Procrastination is very serious, you feel that you are lazy and don't want to do it, it is conscious, you don't like it in your heart, you are afraid that you will not do it well, it is subconscious;

Instinctively retreating in the face of opportunities, the object of your crush does not dare to confess, you say that you lack courage, this is consciousness, it is subconscious to decide that you are not good enough, not worthy, it is subconscious;

So many times in psychology, we think that we are in control of all judgments, choices and actions, but in fact, the subconscious mind is secretly helping us make decisions.

I feel suddenly irritable but I don't know why, I want to communicate well with my partner but it turns into mutual complaints, I don't like my current life but I don't know what I want......

Similar to the confusion, psychology believes that the answer is also likely to be hidden in the subconscious. The more we know about the subconscious, the more we unify our conscious and subconscious minds, the more we can expand our awareness and the more we can control our lives to the greatest extent.

Is that really the case? I do not know.

Each person will know about 27,000 people in their lifetime, some of them have become our friends, some have become our lovers, some have become our relatives, and many more are passers-by who have passed you quietly and you can't even see his face. The cause of the past life, the fruit of this life. There is fate, even if you are thousands of miles apart, you can meet; There is no fate, even if people are opposite, they can't meet.

The writer Bai Luomei once wrote a sentence with rich meaning: "I have criticized fate, so I have the destined fruit of this life." "In fact, everyone's fate is destined, and everyone you meet is the person you are destined to meet.

Who you marry is actually predestined, so we don't have to look for it anymore, we just need to wait seriously, and one day someone will love you more than ourselves. "Love, in fact, is an extension of self-will", this sentence touched me deeply. Countless poets and writers have praised the greatness of love, but what this sentence tells us is that love is not so great, it just stems from a need of you, your need to realize your own will.

Each of us comes to this world with our own ideas and pursuits, but due to strength, vision, opportunities and other reasons, not all of us can realize our own pursuits. Then, when we choose our other half, we tend to look for someone who can help us realize our own pursuits and wills. In this way, in fact, there is a force in the dark that pushes us to find the other half that suits us.

From a numerological point of view, the trajectory of fate is fixed from birth. Life is like a rocket after launch, the speed and direction are certain from the beginning, so the fatalistic view can easily sink into people's hearts.

A person's life will go through many ups and downs, and he will always unconsciously fantasize about the human mind, with a supernatural absolute master, to arrange everything from the past to the future.

Fate, ** in Buddhism is also the title. Cover"Overnight"Old, old, old, before, past; "life"Destiny also; "Fate"The fate that has been decided has been stipulated before. We know that according to scientific reason, everything happens for a reason, and it will be careless"Accidentally"The existence of universal connections in the world, the existence of causality, is the reason why all science in the world can happen and exist.

At the beginning, scientific reason attributed all events to the result of the action of certain factors in the previous time, so that the time was pushed forward indefinitely, and the causes were traced back indefinitely, and finally the question of how the world came into being and how the first conditions of the world came into being (i.e., Newton's first impulse problem) had to be encountered and raised"Hand of God", or"The universe is big**", in fact, it is all rational public assumptions.

However, both philosophies of materialism and idealism believe that science can exist because the world has a causal relationship, and if the world is separated from cause and effect, and all events occur without cause and randomly, then science has absolutely no possibility of existence, and there is no need for existence without success. Cover the scientific scholars, that is, the causes of the occurrence of the event, and summarize its laws. And man, one of all things in the universe, is actually insignificant compared to the universe, how can it be possible to deviate from the universal laws of motion?

Human behavior. Nature. Encounter.

Even all encounters have their reasons, and the ** of numerology, that is, the ** of the law of movement of the person himself, how can it be"Superstitions"And in a nutshell?

Since ancient times, the behavior of human beings themselves and the acquisition of relevant knowledge has never been interrupted, and the methods of understanding and their conclusions are different, and materialism decomposes all human activities into biochemistry.

Electromagnetism. Cell.

Molecule. The activity of the atom, however, is the difference in human consciousness and its social behavior.

It is difficult to explain the differences in social circumstances.

Correspondingly, the Buddhism and filial piety sect is also based on rational thinking and a new path, believing that the world has no beginning and no end, and life has no beginning and no end, and that events have their causes, and this event is also the cause of the next event, and the so-called world is nothing but"Fate is born and fate is extinguished".This can be avoided"First push"Problems can also be avoided"How life happens"The problem, in terms of the simplicity of its theory and the sophistication of its logic, is superior to other doctrines.

Buddhism talks about human beings and the realm of life (the realm of consciousness), and holds that human beings have"Knowledge"(spiritual ontology), while"Knowledge"It not only records consciousness but also records various life activities, after the death of the human body, this"Knowledge"Imperishable, because it is the cause, is naturally reborn in a new life of a similar nature, and the new life bears the entire record of the actions of the previous body and bears the inevitable consequences of the previous actions.

Therefore, the meaning of fate is actually the result of the previous action (becoming the cause) that will inevitably lead to the consequence of the encounter, the trajectory of the encounter.