Can I be with a disabled person?

The conclusion is certainly yes.

The inability to live together refers to the inconvenience of communication and the world's vision.

To paraphrase the lyrics: Love really takes courage!

If you don't mind other people's gossip, if you don't mind using sign language to communicate later. As long as you love each other, there is no problem.

Absolutely. Don't think that people with disabilities look down on others, if you feel suitable, you can be together, if you are together, you should be good, wholeheartedly, and don't listen to other people's slander.

Love is inseparable!! If you want to love, love boldly!

Born afraid of heredity.

I'm not afraid of this, I'm not afraid of being gossiped about, I'm chasing after you.

I think as long as you really love each other, you can do it.

In my eyes, the so-called love is to be with the person I like, so the idea of love that I advocate is: the heart must be in tune, otherwise it is nonsense. So much so that I have always disliked blind dates, although this is a traditional Chinese way of finding a partner, but I think that blind dates are due to the pressure of parents.

Being with someone you don't like is equivalent to pushing the other person into the sea of suffering, and at this time, your parents will not be responsible for this matter, because it was your own choice and has nothing to do with others.

Back to the topic, can people with disabilities only be with people with disabilities? Of course not. Although there will be some difficulties in communication between disabled people and normal people, as long as the two people have a tacit understanding, mutual understanding and understanding of each other, these are not problems.

The reason why people with disabilities feel that they can't be with normal people is that their experiences are different, just like the rich class and the slums, after all, the two are different.

Someone once said that there are too many boring skins and too little fun in this world. I think this is very reasonable, two people fall in love together, get married and have a baby, not because of hormones, but values, the mutual attraction of the soul, if it is just to meet the needs of the physiology, then it will inevitably end in disgrace.

In fact, whether it is a disabled person or an able-bodied person, the most important thing for the two to be together is to run in. I believe that only by understanding each other's deeper communication can we keep love fresh, on the contrary, if there is no common language, then no matter how beautiful love is, it will eventually deteriorate.

It is more difficult for people with disabilities to find a partner than ordinary people, but as long as two people are sincere in their relationship and impress each other with sincerity, I believe that all problems will be solved. Here, I also wish all disabled friends can find their true destiny as soon as possible.

This is not the main thing, some people with disabilities also teach a lot of people, but some people they can't teach people according to their personality is decided, not according to the disabled people are with the disabled, but if they are in a school, they will have a high chance.

Summary. Hello, dear, I'm glad to answer for you, yes, if you have a disability, someone will be willing to marry him, and people who really love him won't care about that.

Hello, dear, I'm glad to answer for you, yes, if you have a disability, someone will be willing to marry him, and people who really love him won't care about that.

If you have a handicap, you just care if you have money, and if you don't have money, do you care?

The disabled are as respectful as Zhijian, and some disabled people are much better off than normal Liang Cong Qiren. I have a friend who is blind, I learned blind massage the year before last, found a girlfriend, and now I can not only support myself, but also support my family, which is much better than many normal people.

If the other person really loves you, he will not care about your physical defects and will not care if you have money or not.

If you mind leaving because of these, it's not worth nostalgia, you can only say that fate has not yet arrived, and the lover who belongs to you in your life is still waiting for you to meet.

But some people don't just stay with you when you have money, and leave when they cheat you out of all your money.

Yes, there are many such people in society now, so we must be more cautious in dealing with the feeling of chaos, and don't be sad, you can earn it again when the money is gone, and you can use that money to see that a person is not a loss, after all, what you lose is money and a **, and what that person loses is your love and dignity as a person. Silver Pie.

Also. Don't be discouraged, the person you hit the omen is waiting to meet you, although the hand is defective, anyway, as long as we don't lack the heart, the virtue is not lacking, we will live a very beautiful grip, very fine Laspike Cai, come on <>

I'm not talking about me.

Oh, sorry, dear, it's better if it wasn't you<>

Willing. People with disabilities also have a healthy and beautiful life. With the increase of policy attention and social attention, it has become an inevitable trend for disabled people to go out of their homes and integrate into society.

Many people believe that people with disabilities are worthy of sympathy, including myself before me. And after experiencing it myself, I realized that this idea alone does not make me how tall I am. The word "compassion" itself carries with it an inequality, and people with disabilities are human beings, equal like all people in the world.

And I believe that no one wants to be sympathized with.

I remember an interview with a young girl who was admitted to university in a wheelchair, and she was born with polio and could not walk for a long time. Before the interview, I had a lot of concerns, inquired a lot, asked her classmates and asked the teacher, I didn't know if it was suitable to disturb, I was afraid that it would disturb her life or unintentionally hurt her, so I had a lot of drafts in my heart, and I was worried even if I dialed **. Yes, I labeled her from the beginning as disabled.

Later, the little girl gladly agreed.

When I saw her, I tried my best to be very polite, and when she saw me, she said, "Look, you treat me differently from the beginning, in fact, I can't run except for not smelling the air from the top, eating, writing, reading and thinking like you, having my own feelings and my own circle, and after so many years, I don't think about my own defects as suffering, I don't think so, but passers-by often worry a lot." ”

That's right, I was on a wrong footing from the beginning of the interview. We feel that they are pitiful, that they must need our help, that they must have had some earth-shattering experience, that they must be unhappy, that they lack care, and that life is boring. Walking down the street, we see a disabled person sideways, and we often only see physical inconvenience, but we don't see that their faces may be full of happiness and contentment, maybe they are doing well.

Not to bother, is our last tenderness.

We don't have to deliberately sympathize or help people with disabilities, as that will only hurt their self-esteem even more. Don't worry about being unkind, because most people with disabilities and special populations will appreciate your indifference. Of course, what I mean by non-discrimination is not to let the deaf and dumb help you pick up **, not to drag a person with a disabled leg to run around the street, not to tell a person in a wheelchair that he occupies your place.

To put it simply, we will be very grateful to others for not being strong, not wearing colored glasses, not making fun of themselves, being able to understand their difficulties, and being able to lend a helping hand when they ask for help, and that's enough. When you encounter people with disabilities in public, don't focus on them, even if the people around you are genuinely curious or sympathetic. Sympathy, respect, or pity, these emotions are too heavy.

People with physical impairments cannot carry this burden.

No, I feel like I've had a hard enough life, and I don't want to live with someone who still needs me to take care of me, and I'm going to break down.

I don't want to, although this sentence is cruel, but I really don't want to live with people with disabilities, and when I have a choice, I prefer to live with able-bodied people.

Yes, in fact, many people with disabilities are physically disabled but not disabled, and their positive and optimistic attitude towards life can benefit me a lot.

Absolutely. We should not look at people with disabilities in a different light, they experience ten times more pain than normal people, and we should not allow them to be discriminated against by their peers.

Yes. I don't discriminate against people with disabilities, although they are physically handicapped, they are really kinder than many normal people.

Not reluctantly. I may not be able to accept that living with a disabled person is too painful and I don't know how to get along every day.

I don't want to, not because I discriminate against him, but because I'm a person who needs to be taken care of by others, and I don't want to take care of others.

I don't want to, because I feel that I am troublesome enough to be alone, and I have to live with a disabled person, and I am afraid that I will not be able to take care of him.

I can't take it. As a young girl, she is the only daughter in the family, and she is still a little lacking in taking care of herself, not to mention having to bear another disabled person.

Unwilling. It's selfish to say that, but I can't even take care of myself, and I don't have the confidence to cope with this life if I have to take care of another person who is physically disabled.

I don't want to, I don't want my whole life to revolve around him, I can't make money, I have to take care of him, this kind of life must not be what I want.