I live in a world of worries and melancholy every day, what can I do about such a life? Ay!

Troubled and depressed in the world? What kind of world do you want to live in? The situation is born from the heart, and all you have to do is change your depressed heart.

You have to admit that there are too many unsatisfactory things in this world, and so do others. So don't always live in the spiritual world, go to the crowd.

Chat with your parents or chat with an elder, in doing so, you will learn some knowledge, broaden your horizons, have a new understanding of some things, you will not be stuck in the trivialities of daily life, and you will see things a lot more calmly, do this, come on, you can. I had a similar experience, believe me.

Troubles and melancholy are the emptiness of one's heart; If you are empty, start a business!

It is recommended that you go out with your family, friends and relatives more often; If you have the conditions, you can travel and relax; Develop your own hobbies and give vent; Don't be able to hold anything in your heart, it's hard to feel like that.

People who have no spiritual sustenance, are you a man?

There is no such man, melancholy is not the character that a man should have!

You can go and listen to the songs, spring is coming, go outside, take a walk, and get together with a few friends!

Get involved in more sports and fit into your social circle!

This is mainly a problem of the heart, if it is not solved, even if you go to the ends of the earth, he will follow you like a shadow, so first start from the heart to find the problem!

When I see you, I see myself! No way! So do I.

Numbness is the best thing to do, really.

When we encounter difficulties and pains, we try to think about the more helpful side of him, and when we really can't figure it out, we think of it as an experience or a cycle of cause and effect. Try to find people and things that may make you happy, and try to move forward in the direction of happiness, and slowly you will feel that life is getting better and better!

Life is like a game, the sweetest laugh at the end, success or failure is often converted in an instant.

Life needs to have a systematic planning, need to lay a solid foundation first, first learn to survive and then seek development, and gradually realize ideals and goals.

If you really want to become a successful person and be invincible, you must not care about the gains and losses of the moment, you must have a long-term plan, and you can win a thousand miles by strategizing, and if you want to succeed, you need to have the following basic conditions: 1. A higher level of knowledge; 2. Solid material foundation; 3. Good personal quality; 4. Good interpersonal relationship; 5. Timely opportunities; 6. Have a series of long-term plans and short-term goals; 7. Good economic operation environment in the surrounding area; 8. Stable and harmonious family; 9. Indifferent mood, optimistic interest in life, open-mindedness, gratitude and other excellent qualities.

Hello, some people say: "The wise man is determined in all directions", and the ancients said: "Parents are here, not far away".

Which one is right? It depends on what position you stand on to look at the problem, take advantage of your youth, go outside to break through, broaden your horizons, increase your experience, if you have an ideal development, this is the yearning and pursuit of every young person, but the difficulty of breaking into the world is unexpected, only to see others laughing in front of you, how do you know the hardships they have paid for this laugh? You may not understand when those successful people cry behind their backs.

Since your parents have arranged a stable job for you, or he will do it well, according to the loneliness, then participate in more business learning, and constantly improve your skills and business level, when you fully arm yourself, that is your greatest capital, remember that there is a saying: "I am born to be useful", therefore, only with the ability to meet the needs of society, you will be chosen to be able to do it freely, otherwise, even if there is an opportunity, you will not be competent.

Therefore, being down-to-earth, doing a good job in the moment, and being yourself is the most correct choice for you.

It's good that you have this kind of heart. My advice to you is to wait for your rest time to go out for a walk, or to travel and see the outside world, and I can understand your desire to go out and explore. However, life is very stressful now, and undergraduates are generally able to go out and find their dream job.

We've all been working for almost a decade. But I still feel like I'm struggling to live, I'm really tired, and I have the opportunity to go out for study and training for 12 years before I feel that my life is somewhat secure. Either you stay in your original unit first, further your studies, and then go out, otherwise you will have no way back.

It's a bit more conservative, but it's better than leaving your job and going out on a rampage.

I don't want to give points but I want to help you, and I often want to get help and guidance from others......It's just some emotion and your own opinion, I hope you will consider it carefully, make a thoughtful judgment and choose ......

I wish you all the best.

You're the same as me, I'm also a high school graduate, let's learn some technology, more**, animation design, architectural design, or learn photography, decoration. It's all good, find what you're interested in, be optimistic, there is no boredom in life, how can you feel the joy of life, we are all the same, if you don't study hard at the beginning, you have to work hard and work hard in society, otherwise others will look down on you. Hope it helps, I wish you a pleasant stay.

(Maybe in a few years, people will want to be where you are!) It is the hope of being cut off from the outside world and living a peaceful life! Think about where you're going and what kind of life you need to live! You can come out and experience it for a short time, anyway, it has something to do with your thoughts! Think about it.

To be honest, I wouldn't want to find out. The outside world is not as simple as you think, if you want to break through, you must have a certain strength, it is a good thing to know more, and it is a good thing to accumulate life experience, but I recommend that you just understand it from the news. Went outside, can you yourself.

It's a big problem to be able to get a job, and besides, if you don't study, if you want to break through, you must have an academic degree. If you have made up your mind and are determined to go out, if you don't want your parents to work hard, when you find a job with a stable salary outside and you have a place to live, send some living expenses back to your parents!

Otherwise, stay and help your parents, so that they can relieve their worries and be a filial child.

The countryside is a good place, don't regret it when you go out. There are some people who go out and break in, but they have achieved nothing in their lives, and some are even worse.

to the point of poverty, overwhelmed by the mortgage.

By the way, I would like to give you advice: If you want to break through, you must not only see your strength, but also have enough savings and luck.

If you want to get out of here and seek a new life, then you should be bold and enter, as for your parents, I think they will help you out; If you continue to stop and let go, you only have two ways: first, work in the factory like your parents, and second, you can only work harder and be more resourceful than your parents, look for opportunities, and learn to find a new path in the factory, that is, to make the factory bigger. People, you can't always stop now, you have to go out, I support your idea of wanting to go out!

However, at the same time, you also have to bear the pressure that you have to learn as much as you want to get a good job!

I don't know how to be blessed in the blessing!! The life I yearn for, I hope not to be disturbed, I would rather be quiet all my life.

One. It would have been a good thing to have twins. It is really sad that the husband and wife are not in harmony due to financial problems, and even want to divorce!

Two. From your statement, it can be seen that your wife is a generous person who is willing to spend money for her family regardless of the consequences. If she does the same to your parents, you won't have anything to say!

But she shouldn't have thought of it, let alone done it! (She's really disappointed!) ）

Three. After getting married, you are both very diligent, but what you need most now is diligence and thrift, because you have two children, since you have given birth to them, you have to be responsible for them and take care of them!

Four. After the young couple gets married, after properly arranging their own small home, they should also consider the elderly on both sides, and help them solve the problems or difficulties encountered in life in a timely manner. (Taking care of the elderly is a sign of filial piety, but you must not ignore each other's parents!)

This is a very ordinary way of doing things! ）

Five. The status of husband and wife in marriage should be equal, united, and harmonious. (The former will make your relationship closer and closer, and the latter will artificially amplify family conflicts!) ）

Six. It seems that your wife made two mistakes:

Neglecting to give priority to your in-laws' family when taking care of your mother's family (it hurts your heart so badly!). ）

When he took care of his mother's family generously, he neglected the importance of raising children (seriously hurting his own small family!). ）

It seems that she is a person who has not learned to deal with people who is more self-conscious and does not know how to arrange her life skillfully (although you know better than she does this, but you are very helpless!) (My wife has developed like this, which shows that you are an honest person who takes care of the overall situation.) Now you can't take it anymore! ）

Seven. For those of you who are married and have a family, and have children, and you have two children, the consequences of divorce are tragic! Divorce is the next step! You must not choose to divorce, that will be a tragedy for all four of you:

It is very difficult for you to reorganize your family.

There is no complete fatherly or maternal love for a child.

Especially her, a woman like her who doesn't know how to deal with others, and then builds a family, it is difficult to meet a man as tolerant and generous as you!

Her fate in the future will be bad! ）

Eight. The solution: start from the ignorant thoughts of the wife to fundamentally solve the current problem! It is recommended that you:

Invite one or several respected elderly people to act as peacemakers, and treat her as a serious consequence of ignoring her husband's feelings, caring for her mother's family, and finally hurting her family, hurting herself, and hurting her children. And explain to her the importance of people in society! (Be patient!) ）

Starting from the desire for unity, it is necessary for you to review what is wrong with your own existence, so that your wife is moved!

Nine. I believe that after some hard work, she should have repented! Next, she will unite with you well, plan your economic expenditures well, deal with people well, and live well!

People are still good old ones! She will not mention the divorce again, because she was really wrong in the past! She used to be more ignorant in dealing with people, and she should have been unbroken!

Prioritize. Obviously you should have some money for your mother's medical treatment. You should also have some money for your children and yourself.

Of course, in fact, there are times when you should tell her the truth, and ask her where the money comes from?

You should cut off a portion of your salary, hide it secretly, and solve her problems when the time comes. That's what shows you're right.

Your daughter-in-law's character is not particularly bad, but she has a good face and is dead-eyed.

To be honest, I'm a little ashamed of you, are you still a man? My family is very difficult, and I don't even take care of my mother's illness, so my wife is outside! In this case, you still say that I am stingy?

And you want to mess with me... If it were me, I would leave, this grievance of life, and be my own adoptive mother!

Discuss a distribution plan together, because you also have a place to spend money. It may be necessary to pay money to the mother and living expenses for the child.

So both sides made a list of the expenses they needed. Of course, if your wife has an urgent matter at home, it is inevitable to spend money, and if the other children in her family do not support their parents, should your wife also learn? This can only say that your wife is very filial.

When discussing, we must pay attention to the attitude, women eat soft and not hard.

I think you're quite aggrieved from your description, well, a little complaining. I don't have any malice, it's just that the family is such a thing, and everyone has to pay for it, after all, marriage has responsibilities in addition to love, not to mention that you still have children, if you divorce so easily, what about the children? They are innocent.

Therefore, you should think carefully, find a time, communicate about the problems between you, talk clearly, if you really can't leave, after all, life is only these decades, why bother to tie up, such noisy, you yourself are unhappy, and it is not good for your children.

There is a lack of communication between the two sides, and if they both rush, it will only cause a stiffness.

It may be that you lack communication, no matter what you do, you have your own ideas, do you know her thoughts? Agreed? Do you know what she thinks?

Agreed? Husbands and wives need to communicate, if there is a dispute over a matter, both parties calmly talk about their ideas, and finally reach a consensus, no matter what, husband and wife should not say fair, I think there is no absolute fairness, only mutual understanding, tolerance ---

You're wasting your time, you're wasting your time, you're bothered because you're doing something over and over again every day: just get up and brush your teeth, wash your face, blow your hair...There is such a life every day. Don't you do anything other than do these things, do you come out of your life to get up in the morning and wash and scrub and go to bed at night?

You still have a long way to go, if you do these things repeatedly every day, you will always be stuck with these troubles, try to do something meaningful, I think your troubles will be solved!!