What s the unknown bitterness behind your glamour?

As a sales manager, there must be a lot of untold bitter stories behind being able to get to this point. Although I have achieved results now, when I was a salesperson in the past, I had to run to face different customers every day, and it was very hard to face different people every day.

After I graduated, I didn't choose to go to work, but began to travel everywhere.

However, I have to take the train for more than 20 hours and the bus for seven or eight hours every time I travel, and in order to save money, I often hike to many scenic spots, which they don't know.

It's not that I just showed my glamorous side, but because I felt that I had chosen this path, so good and bad to bear, and not miserable, and I didn't feel miserable at all, I felt that it was worth it, because I liked it, so I was willing to eat it.

Others only saw me standing on the podium with high spirits and reprimanding, but they couldn't see me working hard all night behind my back, being criticized by my mentor again and again and then continuing to improve, enduring huge psychological pressure, the effort behind it may not be known, but the moment I stood on the podium, I felt it was worth it.

There is some unknown bitterness hidden behind my glamorous is that when they are playing, I have been studying silently, and when they are studying, I am studying harder, and I have paid several times more time in learning than others, so it can be reflected in the final results.

Now many people think that I am very successful in my studies, and my grades are good, and I am beautiful and in good shape, but they don't know how much effort I put in for these at the beginning, in the past, I was an ordinary girl, with an ordinary appearance and a slightly chubby figure, I lost more than a year, every day, I will do a lot of exercise, and then I learned to make up to make myself more temperamental, and then I soaked in the library every day in order to study, so these are all things that others have not seen, my bitterness.

In the eyes of others, I am a person who has a car and a house, and a stable job, but only I know my pain, I have to pay off a mortgage of about 2,000 yuan a month, a car of about 3,000 yuan, and 5,000 yuan of living expenses and other expenses, so the pressure of interest is quite large, these are things that others don't know.

I am a sales person of a loan company, and everyone may only see that I have good performance and high commissions, but they don't know that I am in the 40-degree sun in summer, and I will never be lazy when I work outside, let alone because of the hot weather. They also never know what time I work overtime at night.

Every day giggles, fights, no heart, always deliberately compete with roommates, and often talk to them, in fact, I am very sad when I can't sleep in the middle of the night, I have been hurt by love, although it has been a long time, but I still haven't completely let go, I have to put on a happy mask during the day, and take it off again at night, and analyze my own heart.

When I was in junior high school, I studied very hard, and sometimes I even got in the top 10 and top 5 in the whole school, and once I even got the first place. Everyone thinks that I study well because I like to study more, and even I like to be in front of me, but this is not the case. Because my family was too poor at that time, someone sponsored me, and if I couldn't get the desired grades or rankings in their hearts, they might not sponsor me.

I probably won't be able to learn anymore.

Meaning: Behind the surface of every beautiful life, there may be many efforts and hardships that are inconvenient to show and unknown, sadness and pain.

Deeper meaning: People often only see the brightness and brightness of things or people on the surface, and often ignore the sadness behind them. Only people themselves can understand the meaning and efforts in life, many times they run with tears, people's hearts are not ancient, the world is declining, and they only know their own warmth and coldness.

Therefore, in life, we should not simply envy the good life of others, but we don't know that the other party may have been under pressure and disappointed and helpless, no one will succeed casually. Not everyone lives an easy and glamorous life, but the embarrassing moments behind those bright spots are unknown.

On the Olympic field, they are as vigorous as eagles, when they won gold in one fell swoop and added their halo, the Chinese people were happy, and since then their names have been known to the world, which can be described as famous in one fell swoop. Touching moments, who would have thought that they have an unknown identity behind them.

Who would have thought that this is the sadness behind the Tokyo Olympics women's diving 10-meter board champion Quan Hongchan.

Family Dilemma] Quan Hongchan was born in a poor family in Maihe Village, Mazhang District, Zhanjiang City, Guangdong Province, and is one of the 38 low-income families in the village.

In 2017, my mother was hit by a car while working outside the home, and her ribs fell and she was hospitalized several times to spend all of her family's funds, and the family then made a living by growing vegetables.

Fate is turning in the dust].

In May 2014, Chen Huaming, a diving coach at Zhanjiang Sports School, went to various regions to select good diving seedlings, focusing on rural grassroots primary schools, because children here can endure hardships. With the height of Quan Hongchan, the test of the standing long jump meter was favored by Coach Chen at a glance.

Genius comes from hard work].

At the age of 7, she began to train professionally in diving, and despite the poor facilities and conditions, she worked harder than anyone else, jumping 300-400 times a day on the shore and 100-120 jumps on the platform.

At the age of 11, she just entered the Guangdong team and won 3 championships in the Guangdong Youth Diving Championships.

In the second leg of the Olympic trials, she didn't jump well in the 207c movement, so she practiced every day, 5 in the past, and 10 now.

The hard work and sweat she puts in is where her talent lies.

At the age of 14, the Tokyo Olympics was her first major competition.

Although he was a fledgling, he was able to score a perfect score in three jumps and close to a perfect score in two jumps in five dives, setting an unprecedented record in the history of the Olympic Games.

As the youngest athlete, she won the women's diving 10-meter springboard championship, setting a record for the highest score in the last four Olympic Games.

From entering the national team to becoming an Olympic champion, it took her less than 10 months.

Hot discussion] genius girl, this is the most beautiful title of the whole network to do skating.

Coach: Don't say she's a genius girl, don't say she's a dark horse, she deserves it. Because her glory is her hard work and hard work, don't use genius or dark horse to cover up her efforts.

Interview] After winning the championship, I was interviewed.

Quan Hongchan: I usually stay at home, because I don't have money, I haven't been to an amusement park, and I haven't been to a zoo. (kind of embarrassed).

Quan Hongchan: My mother is sick, I want to win the prize money and send it back to my mother for treatment.

This simple and weighty sentence makes people feel love and pity.

Conclusion] In fact, in every corner where the sun does not shine, there are many sadness and sadness that others can't see. Congratulations to this gold-winning girl, while bringing glory to the country, I also wish her persistent efforts to get rid of poverty as soon as possible, so that her parents can have no worries and achieve better results in the future!

When I went to high school, I knew Ma Yun, and for a long time, I once regarded people like Ma Yun and Yu Minhong as role models for learning and life goals, and slowly understood more and more about their efforts and experiences, only to know that such people are not what I can achieve by "three days of fishing, two days of drying nets" people who catch up and learn overnight. They have a different vision and perseverance from ordinary people, they are the people who have persevered from not knowing how many failures and helplessness to the end, and finally show their most glamorous side in front of people's eyes, and we often only see the dazzling appearance and ignore the helpless sighs and inevitable nights behind them I don't know how many times.

In fact, in the lives of ordinary people, how can the contrast between glamorous and helpless not be so?

Today, in the WeChat circle of friends, I saw the daily ordinary and no longer ordinary group of people having a meal** and the seemingly intimate dialogue. I happened to think of some time ago, that friend complained about the helplessness of most people who have no sense of responsibility and can't change the status quo, and I began to understand that such a seemingly lively and enviable group of friends gathered together and coded the circle of friends, in fact, how much helplessness is behind it, and that feeling is often only the person who sent the circle of friends to really understand how bleak the helpless mood behind the infiltration is!

In my opinion, there are at least two sides to everyone's heart, one is to be sincere with themselves, and the other is to think about how to "disguise" themselves. The former is the self in his heart, who will express his true feelings, pain is pain, and he ......cries when he is sadAnd the latter is the glamorous self on the surface, just like the appearance of many people in the circle of friends now, it seems to be an enviable state all the time, and the tired and helpless face behind the screen can only be seen by himself.

Perhaps, those seemingly glamorous looks are not as beautiful as you imagined. Living your life in the most comfortable state is the best gift for yourself to come into this world!

As follows:

1. People like to look at the glamour on the surface, ignoring the bitterness and sadness behind it, only they understand the meaning and efforts, and many times they run with tears, and they know their own warmth and coldness.

2. It is not easy to have a decent life, behind every glamorous and glamorous, there are little-known sadness, unspeakable difficulties and grievances. There are always tears for you to wipe away, and there is always a stretch of road that you need to walk alone.

3. Behind every glamorous and glamorous, there is an unknown sadness. All we can do is rush forward, and I believe that there will be a day when the flowers will bloom and the moon will shine.

4. I don't know when I can heal myself physically and mentally exhausted, and only I understand the sadness behind the seemingly glamorous and beautiful. When I was a child, I longed for the life of adults, longed for the freedom of adults, but I didn't know the troubles of adults, and I hoped that my son would grow up slowly!

5, life needs more reasons to struggle, we are thinking about how to be richer every day, envy others can easily earn a lot of money, in fact, who knows the sadness behind the glamorous, as long as you work hard to do what you like, you will be able to succeed.