Two 13 year olds love each other and are afraid to let their parents know what to do

Don't go overboard, since you love each other, study hard and work hard to create your future!

First of all, do you think this is normal?

After all, at a young age, keeping a certain distance between the two is the key to maintaining a relationship.

Isn't it okay to fall in love too early? You should focus on your studies now.

If the relationship between two people is real, then it is best to continue to communicate in the way of friends, encourage each other, respect each other, and help each other in study and life! When you are all admitted to the ideal university and walk out of your perfect life, you will be the best you at that time! At this time, when you still want to give each other happiness and create a home together, you can tell your story to both parents!

Of course, during this period, you may not be in the same school in high school, or you may experience a long distance in college, you can't see what the other party is doing, what you are thinking, chatting less, there are differences in thoughts, and there are countless conflicts and quarrels! What if....You don't know the weight of the future just because of the ignorance of adolescence and the good feelings you have! Then don't think about being together!

People will change, just like when you are three years old, you only want a piece of candy, thirteen-year-old you will be satisfied with a handsome and beautiful bicycle, but at the age of twenty-three, your desire will be greater and your mind will be more mature! Change will be right and wrong! You have to be mentally prepared!

Yes! I can't afford to play emotionally, and I can't afford to wait!

Divide it, what kind of love to talk about at a young age, it's right to study hard.

1 Spend half an hour a day talking to your child.

2 Also use civilized language at home with children, such as "good morning, please, thank you, good night", etc.

3. Let children develop good habits of hygiene.

4 Listen to your child's voice! ——With patience, love, and happiness, the heart has eyes!

5 Don't always reveal your child's scars in order to remind them.

6 Seriously point out your child's mistakes!

7 Don't always be serious with your children, but laugh with them more: because laughter can make children love life more; Guide your child to look at things positively, easily and happily.

8 Be patient when telling stories to your children, as they have educational significance.

9 Don't impose on your children the ideals that you didn't realize in the past, and want them to achieve them.

10 Care for the child, but appropriate punishment at the right time is also needed, do not protect the child's shortcomings.

11 Education does not have to be just reasoning, and sometimes it is appropriate to take some strong measures.

12 Think about at least one question about your child's development every day in light of your child's performance.

What do you need to know first? Is the child's communication with the parents smooth? You must not use your own so-called experience in the process of growing up to educate and know today's children.

Personally, I think it is still necessary to really approach or enter the hearts of children through communication, and then we can resonate, form a consensus, and provide effective help.

You should communicate with your heart in the way of a friend, and you can't always beat or scold.

Lead by example, and teaching by example is better than words.

The benefits are only big ones that can help you take care of the small ones. But there must be a generation gap between the two children who are too different, and not being able to play together is not conducive to the relationship between the children!

I have a younger sister, also more than ten years old, she was very unhappy when she was born, but I didn't have much time to contact in school, so it's okay, but you must pay attention to the boss, since it is puberty, a bowl of water is flat, don't say that you are the boss You want to let your sister like this, it is best to let the boss get into the child, let the boss take care of the education and cultivation stick is easier to deal with the relationship.

The key is to look at the physical condition of the mother and the economic condition of the family. If the mother is in her 40s and is an advanced maternal age, the risk will be great. At the same time, raising a child now requires more money.

Therefore, the economic conditions need to be good, and the quality of life will not be reduced because of having a second child.

Of course, there are many benefits to having a second child. For example, Dabao will not be lonely, and someone will share and discuss things in the future.

If there is a condition, you can, often that will make the boss more mature, and when he grows up, he will have less pressure and take care of each other.

When he was born, the eldest was still young, and the more he grew up, the more he felt unbalanced, why should he earn money to support his younger sister.

This is the child's rebellious period, and it is necessary to correctly guide, persuade, educate, scold, and punish him, which will cause him to be more rebellious, and try to make friends with him like a friend.

Talk and communicate, give a few more examples of people around him who are young, impulsive, and old, don't compare with his peers, make it clear what is at stake, let him feel that everything is for his future, don't let him feel that he is studying to fight for face, let him really realize that parents are intimate and understand his friends, so that it is not a good foundation for understanding children to help children and increase their feelings.

Sincerely, the child has developed to the current state of du, forming such a sexual personality, and the parents should be the first to take responsibility.

One responsibility. But the current problem of the child cannot be solved, so how to solve it, I will give you my opinion. At present, there are two problems that need to be faced, one is that the child is not obedient, and the other is that the child does not like to learn.

But it is not realistic to solve these two problems at the same time, so which problem to put in the first place, I feel that solving the problem of children's disobedience should be put in the first place. Then it is necessary to be friends with the child, grasp the child's psychology, understand the child's thoughts and needs, if the child is unwilling to be the main psychology with the parents, then the problem should be more serious. Be sure to figure out the inside.

You can also seek help from a psychologist. The family environment also has a certain impact on the formation of children's personalities, and if couples say that they quarrel, the children's personalities are definitely not good. It is very important for parents to educate their children if they set an example.

Be sure to be friends with your child, be the kind of friend who doesn't talk about anything, and know how to solve your child's problems when you grasp your child's heart. After the problem of obedience is solved, the problem of reading can be communicated with the child to understand the truth, and then the medicine can be given.

13 years old is not too old, it needs to be honed and honed, and parents need to be ruthless and patient. First, we must accompany him to study, slowly cultivate interests, and second, we must hone our will in a difficult environment, step by step, and slowly get better.

I also have rebellious thoughts, and its self-truth is normal, you say him, bai he thinks you Rosso.

Du thinks that there is too little communication between mother and son, you call him dao and ask his classmates to come to a party at home, and then you quietly ask his classmates, his hobbies and whether he will mention these questions about his family (to bring some skills) and then you know his preferences, you will slowly learn to communicate with your child, in fact, I don't think it's very difficult.

Since you think so, why do you still get divorced, think twice for the sake of your children, you know, it's the same for anyone to marry, life is not about falling in love.

For the sake of the children, take a step back from your husband.

If your husband wants to give it to him, you already hate you when you divorce.

To my husband... They will understand when the time comes.

If you have a hard time, your child will understand when he is older.

Your husband is divorced and can have one child per person.

It shows that the child has grown up and matured, and parents should still respect the child's privacy and communicate more with the child.

It is possible to install software that is automatically hidden.

It's against the law, and he can sue you if he knows it.