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You can tell from your question that you don't think it's okay because you think it's selfish.
People say that love is selfish, but selfishness can give people a sense of guilt, especially when this guilt is for your parents, which will make you even more difficult to let go.
So now ask yourself, what do you think of the opposition of parents? How do you think he behaved? How is it communicative? Can you afford it? Is there the ability, at least the ability to fight with you?
If you're not sure about these, then you can consider giving up. If the conditions are not met, we can certainly create conditions, but this is actually very difficult and bitter. If you don't have confidence yourself, it's hard to keep going. The same ending to be faced, it is better to break it early, which is better for everyone.
If you are sure and think that you love him very much, and that he has the same love for you, you can persevere. Because you don't know if you'll regret it after being with him, but if you give up now, you'll regret it right away. In the decades of life, if you miss it, you may miss it forever.
You can be stupid, you can have hopes, but you have to be within the tolerance of yourself, including your family.
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With all due respect, you were already hesitant when you asked. Falling in love can be a matter of two people, but marriage is always a matter of two families. First, and most importantly, your parents are the two people who love you the most in the world, you are married, they are old, can you be around?
Second, mishandling things and not being able to speak, which is a big obstacle to communication and development, you must know that details determine success or failure. Thirdly, can you do nothing for him without regrets? Putting aside that society is realistic, can you let it go?
If you can't, just let it go, and you'll meet better, a whole bunch of men, and only one family and home. I think you know what I'm saying. Good luck and happiness.
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What did you marry him for? What do you love him? No man is perfect, especially a man.
If you think you can accept the above shortcomings, your happiness needs you to strive for, and parents just provide guidance and advice to our hesitation. Love is sweet but blind after all, combined with the opinions of your parents, do you think your lifelong happiness can be tofled to her? If you think it's okay, tell your parents the reason why you chose him, your parents just want us to live better, they see your firmness and self-confidence, I think they will agree, but you must think clearly, you understand the impact of marriage on your life, I won't say it, bless you, no matter how you decide, don't regret it, send you a sentence" People can never know whether their decision is right or wrong, neither can they compare with the past life, nor can they be corrected in the next life.
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Personally, I don't think so, parents are the ones who raised you, they don't joke about your happiness, so you should consider whether your boyfriend is the best person to give you happiness...
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Don't insist on it, think about it carefully, your boyfriend can do anything that can make you feel secure and happy for the rest of your life, except for saying some sweet words
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Theoretically, yes, but you have to regret it later.
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I'm voting no! Listen to your parents, your life is given by your parents.
Let's go back ! If it was I would definitely go back, and it was absolutely clean.
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If I and another person are truly in love, I am willing to stick with each other despite my family's objections. There are too many stories in this world, and love may encounter difficulties, but there are also many people who give faithfully and bravely face the opposition of their families because of love, and finally succeed.
In my opinion, love is an autonomous right, and everyone is free to choose who they want to be with or not. If my relationship with another person is deep, I am willing to give everything to face the opposition of my family and truly love you with determination, because for me, the opposition of my family does not stop my relationship with another person.
Of course, when we face the opposition of our family members, we must also know how to respect our family members, no matter what their family members think, we still have to respect them and not betray them on the spot. After all, family members are always more worried than we are. Therefore, even if our family members oppose it, we must know how to respect our family members and each other, and express our thoughts reasonably with a rational attitude.
Only on the basis of each other and on the premise of mutual respect can we reach an understanding, and then we can have more confidence to stick to our love and move towards a better future together.
All in all, when two people are truly in love, we must not only firmly adhere to our love, but also fully understand, respect the opposition of our family, strive to understand our family, and finally obtain the understanding and recognition of our family, and move towards a better future of love together.
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Since the two of us really love each other, even if we encounter resistance in the family, then I will insist that the two of us be together, I will do my parents' work as much as possible, get their support and understanding as much as possible, if not, I will not give up because of their opposition, the relationship between the two people, because this will make me regret it for the rest of my life.
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People truly love each other, I will persevere, insist on my love.
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Summary. Two people love each other, but they have families with each other, and neither party is willing to hurt the family, so that the relationship can last for a long time.
Because they know how to cherish, they know that it is not easy to love each other, although they can't be together openly, but the power of love is strong, love each other, they know how to cherish it.
Two people love each other, but they have families with each other, and neither party is willing to hurt the family, can such a relationship last?
Two people love each other, but they have families with each other, and both parties are unwilling to hurt the family, so the feelings can last for a long time because they know how to cherish and know that it is not easy to love each other.
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Let's put my conclusion first, if two people love each other very much, the advice of parents can be used as a reference.
It is indispensable in the relationship between two people that it will involve two families, if the parents support, then the relationship between the two people will be more stable, and it will be very early as a new stage of development, but many times parents do not support two people together, at this time we need to pay attention to the fact that parents are just starting from their own experience and making a judgment that two people are not suitable.
Parents may think more about the state of the two people together, and the prediction of the future situation of the two people together. Generally speaking, if your parents think that there is a big conflict between two people's personalities, they will definitely not support you to be together. In addition, there are more situations where the distance between the two is too far, causing the parents to be reluctant to accept the two people together.
In fact, in the emotional experience of two people, the most important thing is the state of the two people, if they meet the person who is very suitable for them, even if their parents do not support them, they must be together. Because in this vast sea of people, the probability of being able to meet a partner who you like and like yourself is too small, so if you really meet the right person, you must not give up easily.
It should be taken into account that when we have our own lives, in fact, it is no longer our parents who accompany us the most, but our other half. So it's important to find someone who loves you very much. If we follow the advice of our parents and find a "suitable" person to get married, then we will encounter all kinds of problems, ranging from living habits to personality and three views.
To sum up, in the love life of two people, you must go to the person you think is right, the person who is Xia Huan, the advice of your parents can be used as a reference, but it is not a decisive factor.
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Two people love each other very much, they should follow the advice of their parents, and they should listen to their parents, whether two people are very suitable to be together Sometimes, the experience of parents is very rich, and they must listen to their parents.
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Two people love each other very much, so the advice of parents can also be used as a reference, so as to better promote the relationship between you, but you should also learn to consider after all, their views are not necessarily right!
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You shouldn't listen, your parents' concept is also very different from ours, your parents just see a surface, if you two love each other, you should continue to love each other and prepare to get married.
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Of course it should. Because your parents are from the past, we know that the two of you are not suitable, so we must follow your parents' advice.
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The "two people who love each other" first determine for themselves, whether they will never find someone they love so much if they leave each other in this life. It is also necessary to ask whether the family of the opposing party is resolutely forcing her (him) to break up. Next and most importantly - the choice!
If all of the above two conditions happen, then I regret to tell you that you can only choose one. If you really love each other, nothing can stop your determination to be together, then please stick to it and love well! You will be happy!
If one of them is shaken because of family reasons and can't give up either party, then persuade her (he) to take care of his parents, and then please let go. Although there are many reluctances, this should be the best ending. Because as long as one party can't insist, then what is the meaning of so-called love?
If you can't get rid of it after letting go, it is recommended to listen to the song "It's a pity it's not you", and then cry in pain for a few days and it will be much better. Next, you will find that the past is not only regretful, but also beautiful and grateful!
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True love is acceptance, not endurance; It is support, not domination; It's a condolence, not a question.
True love, to thank but also apologize; Be considerate and considerate; We must admit our mistakes and correct them.
True love is not to stare at each other, but to look in the same direction together.
Perhaps, love, is not the search for a perfect person; Rather, learn to appreciate an imperfect person with a perfect eye.
If you hold hands, don't do it, just say break up.
Perhaps, love is to give willingly and share joys and sorrows.
Don't wait until you lose it to know how valuable it is; Don't wait until you're hurt to beg for forgiveness; Something is lost and will never come back.
If a person confesses to you, please cherish his love for you no matter what, even if it can only be an ordinary friend; Perhaps there will not be a second time for a person's innocent confession.
Because of kindness, so cute; Because it's cute, it's beautiful; Because of beauty, so yearning; Because of yearning, so in love.
It's not because you're lonely that you love each other, it's about making those who love each other not feel lonely.
It's love, not time, that is able to ** all the trauma.
In a person's life, there will always be a large period of blandness, interrupting unsatisfactory encounters, it is love that makes us think of beauty, and there is still hope.
With love, you don't feel that hardship is a burden.
It is far more important to cherish what you have now than to pursue what you don't have.
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Such things have existed since ancient times.
Maybe now you are obsessed, maybe one day in the future, you will regret your stubbornness.
When your parents object, it means that there must be something between you that you don't agree with.
You should think about it, why are these things that are not recognized by parents not recognized? What's the downside?
The two people who are really suitable, family and friends will be full of joy.
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In fact, you already have the answer to this question in your heart, so why ask for the opinions of others?