After the blind date, I was entangled, and the results of the blind date were not good

Blind dates can be said to be open like you can ask him directly if he doesn't care about you or is he really busy? Let him give you an answer Nothing like this [Maybe he's very introverted and won't express it, I think you'd better talk to him If you feel that he cares about you, it's okay if you don't prevent you from confessing to him] This is just my personal opinion I hope you can come together Bless you.

I'm a man, and I can't guess... This is related to people's personalities, in fact, you don't need to care too much, women's irrational psychology is manifested here, I see you, it's best to go with the flow, he has made you so entangled now, you don't know what he's thinking, it means that you may not be a person of the world, why poke together, after falling in love, after getting married, you will have problems, because your personality is not very compatible, so you will be entangled now. If the two of you are very suitable, then it will be very natural to be together, very easy, very comfortable, my girlfriend and I are like this, just like God has arranged it.

Do you understand? Of course, I don't know your specific situation, this is just a reference! Hopefully, it won't ruin your future marriage.

Hehe, I wish you all the best.

I'm just using my experience to tell you that he's not in a hurry to get married, right, his work, life, and entertainment are more fulfilling, so he should have a more casual attitude towards this matter, I'm a post-80s generation, and my family is also forced to go on a blind date Anyway, I feel that I don't have any sense of emptiness when I play, and I all get along with these things indifferently, landlord, you care a little too much about the details

Landlord.. It seems that you still care more about him.。。

You're pretty happy with him.

Maybe the other party is a more introverted person.

Find a time to see if you can communicate with him.

It's normal to be busy at work, and you can go play together when he's free...

One is the problem from the direction of the introducer, and the other is the problem from the person being introduced.

One. Introducer's question.

1.This problem is also the problem of the elders, and it is very direct that most of the elders do not have a clear understanding of the real interests of the younger generations when they introduce them to the younger generations, but only match them according to the very superficial one, family conditions and personal income, in fact, most people lack understanding of the two parties he wants to introduce.

2.In addition, many elders do not introduce them seriously, but send them out casually, and when they talk about gossip with relatives, neighbors and even colleagues, they arrange blind dates with fate. You must know that even professional matchmakers may not do a good job in blind date introduction, and they are introduced at will, of course, the success rate is not high.

3.There is also a point that sometimes the blind date of the elders may be deliberately unarranged. In order to get married to their children, many elders have also put a lot of thought into the blind date.

In the conventional practice, I will deliberately find a few people who are not suitable or have lower conditions than the child's vision, let the child feel a round of frustration first, and then arrange them.

2.The introduce's question.

The young men and women who are introduced to the blind date actually have some problems themselves.

Many people are singled because they have problems, or even problems with the opposite sex.

Of course, there are many people whose own conditions are not very good, and they do not recognize their own situation, and they have too high requirements for others, and they can't look down on them everywhere.

In addition to the above two points, it is also very important that many young people are more exclusive to blind dates, and many still have expectations for themselves to find a partner, of course, there are also people who do not want to get off the list, and they will not succeed if they are forcibly arranged.

Of course, putting aside these problems, it is not easy to find a partner by itself, otherwise everyone will not always say that fate is rare.

The blind date is actually a quick match of marriage, and when you fall in love, you will often find that you don't match the world and separate and change people, not to mention that marriage is a more prudent life event? The blind date itself is a quick marriage match, and it is naturally inappropriate, so it is normal to fail often.

First of all, we need to be clear that blind dates are not necessarily a bad thing. Blind date is a traditional way of dating, which can be slowed down to help people get to know each other better and choose a more suitable partner for them. In busy work, people often don't have much time to meet new people or find lovers, and blind dates become a quick and efficient way.

Secondly, following the arrangement of the family to go on a blind date does not mean that you have to give up your rights. You can put forward your own ideas and needs, and your family will choose the right blind date according to your situation. If you don't like the other person, you can politely decline, and the family will respect your wishes.

In the end, blind dates may not be the only option, but they are also not an unacceptable thing. We should be rational about blind dates and not make decisions because of our own prejudices or emotions. Blind date is a process of getting to know each other, and it is also a process of growth.

The two parties can gradually build a relationship by communicating with each other and getting to know each other. If you feel that blind date is not suitable for you, you can choose other ways to find love, but blind date should also become a way for us to consider.

To sum up, it is not an unacceptable thing to follow the family's arrangement to go on a blind date. We should be rational, respecting the wishes of our family members and protecting our own rights and feelings. Blind dates can help us get to know each other better, and can also be a way for us to find love.