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When Dad beat himself up because of something, and he was very unreasonable, he didn't listen to his own thoughts and opinions at all, at this time he felt very strange, and he felt that he was not his own father.
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When he made a mistake and his father beat him, he felt that he was not his own father at this time, although he said that he made a mistake, but he should not beat himself because it really hurt.
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When he and his younger brother are doing things, my father always favors my younger brother, and at the same time, he never ignores his life, and at this time he feels that this is not his own father.
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Once it was raining very hard, the parents of other classmates came to pick them up, but no one picked me up, and when I got home in the rain, my father slapped his thigh and said that he forgot about me, and I felt that this was not my own father at that time.
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When my father is always partial to my younger brother and never cares about myself, I feel that this is not my own father.
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When my dad is always partial to my sister, I feel that he is not my own father, because my sister and I are her daughter everywhere, but he only thinks about his sister, which makes me angry.
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When the family bought a piece of watermelon and there were many guests, he always gave the watermelon to others to eat first, and he didn't let himself eat it, and I felt that he was not his own father at that time.
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When I was in college, I didn't have living expenses to ask my father, and my father always asked me and my mother to ask for them, and at that time I felt that my father was not my real father.
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When he was bullied, his father did not stand up because his daughter was bullied, but had a lot of concerns.
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When I was young, I always thought that my father was unproductive, cowardly and timid by nature, and didn't let us go out to start a business and work hard. Inadvertently, I also grew up, got married, had children, and became the father of the children.
I thought that being a father was a very sacred, very face-saving thing, with the daughter's croaking landing, I found that it is not easy to be a father, every day to play with my daughter, but also to cultivate her hobbies, to teach her some knowledge, I feel that I must be an all-rounder, in addition to cooking, living is not my job, my daughter's education is in charge of me, from kindergarten to primary school is basically smooth.
The conflict occurred after junior high school, the daughter has her own thoughts, and the communication between us becomes difficult, during this time I think the father is really not good, and the daughter will be very disgusted when asked about her learning, and the ideological dynamics are not communicated with me, so I broke my brain, and thought of a lot of ways, to tell her about my experience when I was a child, leaned down and looked at my daughter, and gradually we became good buddies, and the communication became smooth.
In the course of an exchange, I said to my daughter: I have no objection to falling in love, you don't have to hide, but there is a prerequisite, first of all, you have to protect yourself, the second is to promote each other's academic performance, you can't walk and lose your way, you think about what your original dream was. My daughter was shocked when she heard this, and she decisively put her mind into studying, and finally got admitted to the ideal university.
Now that my daughter is studying in college, I am a father There is no other pressure except to make money, and I think I can't be too strong when it comes to educating my children, and the best way is to guide rather than suppress, and being friends with my children is the best way to communicate.
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Oh no, it's really sad, my dad just I don't think he's a dad.
19 years between me and him is still very estranged, in my impression of the first time I felt that there was a distance between me and him was when I was a few children playing in a room, (I was still very young at the time, but also the age that needs love, not yet in elementary school,) he came back, hugged another child kiss, ignored me, I think I was disappointed.
When I came home from high school, he picked me up, and before I went back, he had to go to a dinner first, and he couldn't bring me over, so he just got my clothes done before I went in, and after I went in, people said this is your daughter? He acquiesced without a hint of pride, but was embarrassed because I didn't know how to dress up.
Many times he likes to say: you ask A (home is very close, since childhood to now) Oh, you go shopping with A, ask her to help you pick out clothes, you go with A.
Many times he was unusually cold to me, and he was very enthusiastic about A, and I wondered if I was his daughter. It's true, I'm happy with his smile on her face and half of her words if I can. If you can pinch my face and smile at me, the distance between us will be immediately narrowed.
I'm a road idiot, I just don't know the direction. A few of our friends went out to play together, and when he asked him to take us home, he asked me if you were there, and I couldn't tell me. He will be very impatient and say that he will give ** to A.
He is the most face-loving person I have ever met, he likes to climb a little relationship, he is very face-saving, and he is very particular about himself in the eyes of others, he must be a rich and generous person.
Once I took my classmate home, and when I left, I actually had 200 red envelopes for one person. I'm a good classmate! Is it necessary?
He likes to go with the money, no matter who he is, as long as he knows a little bit and has a little relationship, he has to drink, he just likes to go with the money! The wine that my aunt held when she left was originally a funeral banquet, and everyone else told him not to do it like this, (I heard it here), and he also said that he would return all the money that others had with him!
He never did housework at home, and my mother was a nanny he married. When you return home, if the fried food is not delicious, you have to use chopsticks to click the chopsticks"Quarrel like this"。
And their dinners, there is no AA, either he is out or someone else. But for the most part it's him. He is very bad to his family, and he is super unusual to people outside.
He simply did not fulfill his responsibilities as a father and a husband and a son. I've never communicated with him, and trying to communicate won't exist with me.
Why do I have a stranger named Daddy?
I think his life motto is that the closest person is not the most important person to me, and the good others are really good. I was in tears as I coded these words. If you don't want to write, it's just a sad tear.
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My dad is a hero to me, and he is the person who loves me the most.
I went to school abroad, returned to China and interned in Shanghai, and went home once every 2-3 weeks, every time I came home, my father would let me soak my feet, and then carefully help me repair the calluses on my feet because I wore high heels, and carefully help me trim my nails. When I go out shopping with him, I like to hold him, and he always pushes me away and says: People will misunderstand when they see it!
While happily closing his mouth.
At home, I usually cook and go to the vegetable market to buy vegetables and say to me like a child: I want to eat braised pork, I want to eat bean sprouts, I want to eat lettuce, I want to eat clams. I said okay, let's buy it, and at night I criticized each dish like a foodie for being salty, light, and sweet, and at the same time I ate more than anyone else.
Dad didn't know how to cook, but my favorite gourd meat slices soup and farmhouse fried pork, he tried a few times and made it well, so I would ask him to cook by name, so these two dishes, he made more and more delicious.
Every time I return to China for a vacation, I will directly give me two cards, a cash card and a credit card, and tell me, you can swipe it if you want, and your father will support you.
Every time there is a quarrel and a cold war, he bows his head first, and the opening is always the same, do you want to eat durian, mango, mangosteen, watermelon, let's go buy it together. Well, all the fruits I love to eat. He knows it all.
I like to sit on the couch with my parents and watch TV while chatting with them until midnight, because the time at home is very limited. He has always been proud of this because the daughters and sons of his colleagues like to lock themselves in their rooms and are not very willing to communicate. Every time she takes me out, she will say with a special face that my daughter loves to chat with me, and basically doesn't turn on the computer or play with her mobile phone when she comes home, and then enjoys the envious eyes of other fathers.
I don't like wearing makeup, short skirts and shorts, and I like me to be just like a student, because it's easy to attract attention when I look good.
This is my dad, someone I will love for the rest of my life.
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I felt that my dad was very good to me, and despite his pressure, he kept working hard for me and my brother, without complaining.
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I think Dad was very good to him. There will be no shortage of food, clothing, study care, and life care. Maybe Dad wasn't very expressive, but I could tell he loved us.
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I think my dad is very good to himself, this is as I grow up, I always feel that my dad doesn't care enough about me, I don't have time to spend with me, but when I grow up, I know that it is my dad who makes me worry about food and clothing, and I resist the pressure of life.
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I feel that my dad treats me very well, gives me everything he wants, provides me with education and school, and sends me on trips, he spoils me very much, respects my choices and does not interfere too much with my decisions.
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It's been very good to me. My dad was strict and gentle, he was very me when I did something wrong, but he rewarded me with a lot of small gifts when I was doing well.
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I feel like my dad was very nice to me. Although he was sometimes very strict with me, I only knew that he was all for my own good, and every month he would ask me in advance if I would have enough living expenses and if I wanted to take it.
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I think my dad is very good to me, cares for me meticulously, and is also willing to spend money on me, and will not beat and scold me for no reason.
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I think my dad is very nice to me, and although he is usually very serious, he still pays attention to my life. Usually when there is something good, I will be the first to think of it, hoping that my life can be better.
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I feel like my dad was very good to me. Whether it is in life or study, he is very responsible for me, he will often care about whether I am doing well in life, and he will often teach me some topics that I don't know.
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I feel that my dad is not very good to me, not as good as my mom is to me, because he often goes out to work in other places, and he doesn't have much time to come back to see me, most of them are my mom by my side, and I don't have a deep impression of my dad.
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I feel that my dad is not a lot of words, but he is a very good dad, he doesn't know what to do to be good to us, he will ask a lot of people, and work hard to earn money to make our life carefree.
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I think my father is a very warm person, although he usually doesn't talk much, but many small things in life are silently helping me.
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I think my dad is very good, but he loves to drink, hurt his body, I don't like my dad who drinks, and the usual dad is very good, humorous, and will give me pocket money
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I think my dad is the most handsome and greatest person in the world, fortunately he worked hard to earn money, and he came back to tutor me in my studies, and he was a very responsible dad.
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I felt that my father was an irresponsible person who gave little to my family's education and did not set a good example for me in my usual life.
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My dad is very good, he will try his best to give me whatever I want, teach me a lot of life principles, and he will also be afraid of my mother, listen to my mother, in my feeling, he is a good man.
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He is a good father, although his ability is limited, he can't make a lot of money, and he can't make me live a rich life, but the love he gives me is quite abundant.
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I think my dad is very good, my mom said that I haven't been beaten since I was a child, and when I make mistakes, my dad also reasoned with me and wouldn't scold me and beat me. Although not particularly wealthy, he worked hard to achieve a better life for us.
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It's good that my father taught me to live my life in the most carefree way, which made me look mature and happy among children of my age, and I am very grateful to him.
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I think my dad is very good, the best dad in the world. He can play with me, cook me a lot of good food, and help me with my homework. He's a superman.
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