The unmarried woman comes, and the married woman comes in to answer this question

It's better for a woman to be realistic, to be honest, if you marry someone you like now but he is poor, then in the future you will quarrel over firewood, rice, oil and salt, and quarrel over no money to buy a cosmetic product you want, have you ever thought about such a day? Then your relationship is getting worse and worse, arguing all day long over trivial things, you will become more and more annoyed, and then you will regret why I married him in the first place, he is so poor! I think it's better to marry a man with good living conditions, and feelings can be cultivated!

Life is only smooth, not fulfilling

Life is a balance, and your choices determine the quality of your life later on, not only materially, but also spiritually.

I advise you not to choose poor people, considering your future happiness, the pressure of life, etc., which are basically material. You mentally can't do anything about them.

So you have to think about it yourself, balance it, and make a decision.

Money is not the main problem, and temporary hardship is not the main problem. But it is absolutely impossible to have no money all the time.

So, the road, walk on your own.

I like to watch struggle, although that TV is not very realistic, but I really like one of Charlene's lines in it, if you work hard, even if you are poor all your life, I still love you.

A rich life is certainly nourishing, but the taste of jealousy is not very good.

My boyfriend is not very rich, we are engaged, sometimes colleagues will compare me with whom, you look at people, the engagement ring alone is 4,000, and the wedding ring is 6,000. In fact, I am also very envious of others, sometimes I also fantasize about what life will be like if I marry into such a family, but I am still willing to live plainly and plainly, rich or not, what kind of character is it in the eyes of others to marry a man, happiness or unhappiness only I know.

In fact, this society is really realistic, even if you say that you will not dislike the poor and love the rich, even if you think so in your heart, the reality will make you sad and jealous, although love and money cannot be equal, they also affect each other.

So the key is to balance the scales in your heart and know what kind of life you want.

I've always felt like there's love. Bread will naturally be there.

Bread and love, I choose the former latter.

I feel like being with a rich man. Despite the money. You can buy whatever you want. But there is no emotion together. Sleep and eat together. Wow.. as if it were for my life ...

If it is two people who love each other together. It's just very poor and miserable. Just a hug will melt all my complaints. All that is left is happiness!

I remember being with my boyfriend before. We are poor. Bought a vegetarian dish for eight cents.

I ate it for two days. At that time, we were miserable. But deeply loved.

Our thoughts are on the same page. Now I can live such a hard life. What can't you live in the future?

No matter what. We are happy.

Here's how I see it. It's also my happiness.

Although many girls are more realistic now. But I believe there is love.

I will choose what I like, being poor is actually nothing, money is made by people, and I will feel happy when I am with someone I like.

Women generally choose to love themselves. See which one loves you more. After all, being poor is not forever, and being rich is not always rich.

People are very visible now. Most people will choose money. But there are also people who will choose feelings. Don't let go of such a person. There are still such people in this day and age. Too little.

Like. Fighting together is the way I want it most.

Then go and like a rich man, wouldn't it be the best of both worlds.

Do you hate that rich man?

If it were me, I would choose the one I love.

For 90 percent of women, money is chosen.

I don't think you should think about whether she wants to be with you at all, you should consider whether you love your wife and your children, whether you care about your family, don't blindly think about the past, even if it was beautiful before, it is all in the past, the past can only remain in memory, if you want to turn the past into reality, it is not necessarily beautiful, it is likely to be a multifaceted injury, women are easy to immerse themselves in beautiful fantasies, someone needs to wake her up, you should be sober as a man as a party, We should be responsible for both families, and we should tell her in time that we can be friends, but we all have our own families, and we should all be responsible for our own families, and we should return to reality. Wake up.

Don't bother with this, she has her own family, and she seduces other people's husbands. You always have to remember that you are a family person. It is the responsibility to protect the stability of the family.

Not necessarily. Take your time.