What do you think about the practice of parents hitting children after they are naughty and injured?

"Playfulness" is a child's nature. If the child is young, the child's skin is normal, but the skin should be divided into time and situation. If you skin it all the time, you will develop a bad habit.

In the child's primary school stage, in fact, the important thing is not the child's grades, but the formation of the child's habits. What if you can let your child develop a good habit of behavior and let him know what to do when and when? Then he will definitely not be very skinny.

With the development of society, there are various concepts of education in China. At present, many young people's educational concepts cannot be beaten, and they can only be taught to their children, but in the long run, the effect is minimal. There is a saying that "filial piety comes from under the stick", which I think is especially suitable for Chinese children.

Therefore, to educate children, as parents, we must have principles, communicate with children, respect children, and strictly abide by the rules when we should make rules for children. If the child is very skinny, does whatever he wants, and has no rules, not only must he be beaten, but he must be beaten hard. "Hitting" plays a big role at some point, try it!

In fact, parents often beat and scold their children to set a bad example for them. Children are very imitative, and parents often beat and scold their children, and they will bully and scold other children outside, especially children younger than them. Psychological imbalances and feelings of contentment often lead to moodiness in children, which can lead to certain psychological disorders.

Some children choose to suffer silently in the face of their parents' denial of beating and scolding when they are young, but when they reach adolescence, they will become very rebellious and even fight and scold their parents. When you grow up and get married, you are also prone to bring this pattern to your own marriage, and you will be grumpy in front of your wife and children.

The mistakes that children make are not innate, they are not innate, there must be a reason. For children, parents are in charge; Parents can also punish children for mistakes and mistakes, but it is better not to use the means of beating. We can adopt the method of "punishment of natural consequences" proposed by the French educator Rousseau.

It is the child who makes a mistake and causes bad consequences, so that he can take it upon himself, experience and bear the bad consequences of his own mistakes, and learn from them. In this way, the purpose of punishment and vigilance can also be achieved.

Cultivating children to become talents cannot be rushed. The one who is the parent is not in a hurry, and even pulls out the seedlings to help it! Practice has proved that parents who are too hasty cannot cultivate good talents.

I have been engaged in education for many years, and I once came into contact with the father of such a child, and whenever his son fell behind in grades, he always scolded loudly. Once, his son couldn't bear to say, "Dad, I really want to take off the moon in the sky, but the difficulty is that there is no ladder to the sky!"

What do you say? He didn't understand the meaning of the child's words, but he kept criticizing. This shows that parents' requirements for their children's education have been far from reality, causing harm to children.

If this situation is in the United States, if the child falls behind in learning, the parents will not blame it, think it is normal, but treat it calmly, so as not to cause harm to the child.

The benevolent see the benevolent, and the wise see the wise. Everyone thinks that for some children, they have matured in their thinking, or they are becoming mature, and sometimes they know what the consequences of knowing something can be particularly bad. Or some questions of principle are always wrong.

Then we need to take effective measures. Let him know no. Of course, I also think that children should not be easily beaten, they will rebel or be numb.

Most mistakes can be steered in the right direction.

Naughty is the nature of children, normal and appropriate naughtiness can not be prohibited, and it should be estimated that children have a frank temperament. But it is also true that it is excessively naughty, even destructive, and needs to be guided and even restrained by parents. Children need to be disciplined, the son is not filial, the father's fault, this is for the good of the child.

The purpose of parents disciplining their children is to let them learn well and become a civilized person in a civilized society. Then, this not only requires parents to instill civilized ideas in their children, but also to pay attention to civilized educational methods, because educational means themselves also have an educational role. Therefore, regardless of the consequences, whether it is light or serious, if you don't get it right, you will inadvertently miss it, so that it will cause irreparable consequences and hatred for life.

Parents are the first teachers of their children, and their ideological qualities, cultural accomplishments, personality and emotions, and hobbies are passed on to their children all the time, and they continue to have an impact on their children. If the child's parents are gentle and cheerful, they can leave a good image in the child's heart. On the contrary, the child's parents are irritable, depressed, and discordant, which will also leave a bad image in the child's heart.

Therefore, parents must pay attention to the cultivation and improvement of their own quality, be a good first teacher, and raise their children well.

Hitting is to fight, but if you look at what situation, draw a bottom line for yourself, and if you cross the line, you have to beat him, this is the principle that you can't pass under the bottom line of the principle, but you can't beat him often, so it's useless to beat him in the future.

I think appropriate corporal punishment is necessary, and as parents should let their children know that the bottom line of our tolerance for him is in**! There are no rules, of course, let children know that corporal punishment is not an end but a means!

I think it depends on what type it is, sometimes we should encourage the child's active nature, and some words and behaviors should be said well, many children have a rebellious psychology since they were 2 years old, not adolescence only began to appear, I am now communicating with my four-and-a-half-year-old son, he began to have his own ideas at this age, more direct than adults, more stubborn.

As long as you get down on your stomach and feel that helplessness and fear, you understand. So what to do? With the education method of thousands of times, the child is always in the cognitive stage of the world, and if you say it once, you will understand that it is not a child, and you can control your own is not called a child, the child is naughty, in fact, it is a kind of exploration of the environment, you will be patient, first instill the problem to be taught a thousand times, and then it is not too late to do it.

1. Do not beat and scold the child in public, whether the child is at fault or not, parents should not blame and scold the child in public, if the child's behavior is excessive, parents can temporarily separate the parties and make them calm down as soon as possible, the child fights after the head and face of the scolding, not only useless to stop the child's violent behavior, but also invisibly promote and strengthen the child's reckless thinking and behavior.

2. If the child makes a mistake, the parent should not let the child blame too much, but let the child bear the consequences by himself, so that he can feel unpleasant and even painful while bearing the consequences. In this way, the child will self-reflect, consciously make up for his mistakes, and correct his mistakes.

3. Don't take it for the child, the child fights, and the parents should take care of it. If their children are indeed wrong, parents should let their children apologize to each other, and parents can accompany them, but they cannot apologize on behalf of their children, because it is not the parents who are at fault, but the children. If parents apologize for their children, the children will ask their parents to solve the problems, and they will become cowardly, and they will not and dare not face all kinds of problems encountered in life, which will inevitably affect the formation of children's good character and ability in the long run.

Children's education has always been a matter that parents pay more attention to, when children are young, they like to fight with others, if children are injured while playing, how should they deal with it at this time? What are the precautions after being injured? I think it is important to pay attention to the following points.

1.If a child is injured while playing, he must deal with it, and he can find a teacher or a parent.

For children, there will be some contradictions between them, especially for some children, fights are inevitable, a proper way to deal with it can make children grow better, after the child is injured while playing, it must be dealt with, and the child can not be left like that, if the situation is not too serious, parents can take the child to the teacher, let the teacher coordinate and deal with it, if the situation is more serious, you must find the child's parents, so that at least for the child to seek justice.

2.After your child is injured by a beating, it is important to help your child deal with the injury.

Generally, children will not be hurt much when they fight, we have to ask about the child's situation first, if two people just push each other twice, there is generally no need to deal with it. If there is a bruise on the body, it can be simply dealt with a band-aid, if the child fights with a large movement, or there is pain on the body, at this time it is necessary to find out whether there is a serious internal injury problem, if there is a more serious problem, you must first carefully check, and then go to a professional institution for diagnosis and treatment.

All in all, after the child is injured while playing, it must be treated, you can find a teacher, you can also find a parent, and the wound should also be treated after the injury, a band-aid that is not serious can be solved, and a serious one needs to go to a professional institution for careful examination and treatment.

If the wound is severe, it is important to go to the hospital for treatment in time and talk to the parent who is fighting with the child to discuss a solution.

If the situation is serious, you also need to go to the hospital for treatment, otherwise it is easy to cause wound infection and cause serious consequences.

Ask what caused it, and if the injury is serious, go to the hospital in time, and then find the other parent to resolve it peacefully.

In this matter, it is necessary to find the other parent's theory and let them know that there are some problems in their own education.

When a child is injured, the family must not be impulsive and first ask about the ins and outs of the matter.

If your child is injured, you should also clarify the problem and deal with it calmly.