How can I get to know myself? Am I really a pessimistic person?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-28
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I used to be like this, and I was a bit of an introvert. In fact, smoking is not good for a woman, so for you to maintain your own beauty, please stop smoking. Don't keep a diary when you're in a bad mood, because what you're writing at that time is your troubles.

    Try to write down your mood when you are happy, if you don't have this habit, then simply write down the reasons for your happiness in a small book next to you when you are happy, and slowly discover the happiness in life. Also, the most important thing is to be confident, don't doubt your own abilities or anything else, believe that you actually have a lot of advantages. Set yourself a goal and work towards that goal, and then you will become a very fulfilled and happy person.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I suggest you check out Zhou Li's book, "Chinese Women in Manhattan."

    Writing Life Experiences and Inspirational Stories has been reprinted 13 times.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I'm a bit of a problem like you.

    I went because I was in a bad mood.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There's no goal, there's no motivation, which means you're not on the edge yet, and when you can't handle that kind of pressure, you change.

    In fact, no matter what you do, you are serving the people, no matter what industry you do, it is the same, and if you don't get the support of the people, you can't do it, and you can't get the market.

    Everyone has the disadvantage of more or less macro stupidity.

    I'm just like you, but I'm always trying to change myself.

    When you find your own self-esteem, you're not going to be doing things, you're carrying the expectations of the people, you're serving the public.

    No one survives in isolation.

    Connecting with the people and things around you makes you feel like you're really alive.

    As for unrealistic ideas, that's a good thing, I'm afraid that mature people look down on these people who don't have the motivation to buy with illusions.

    It's not okay to fantasize about it.

    It's a slide in gear.

    Dry Dry immediately.

    It's good to have a direction and a strategy to do it.

    It's good to keep adjusting the handset hehe.

    Hope it helps.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This can be done slowly.

    After getting along for a long time, you will understand.

    There is no other way.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hang out often to play together, which can not only understand more but also get closer to feelings.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It is your blessing to choose a woman who likes you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    。。。Did both women meet last week? That day was really the peach blossom catastrophe of your life.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    She has her circle, you should tolerate her and believe in her, girls will be more open to their boyfriends and willing to show their truest side. But it's different for people who pursue themselves or friends of the opposite sex, and they will have reservations and show their more perfect side. Because she cares about you, that's why she does that to you.

    Take me as an example, I don't like to be comforted, because I can't say it, if it's a friend, I will be very gentle and comforted, but I can't be a lover, I don't know how to say it, what to say

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Dude, aren't you? Such a woman who doesn't care about you can also make you a girlfriend? You see how tired you are with her?

    Have you ever been happy? She didn't care about you and Ben, let it go, otherwise you will be even more miserable! Brother advises you, where is there no grass at the end of the world!

    You don't understand love yet, and women who really love you and are good to you are not like this! It's really not, this love is yours alone after all.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It is impossible to believe in someone if you love it, and believing 100% just means that you don't love her. Find a balance ...

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Her past is her privacy, and you should respect her personal privacy. As the saying goes, love is to love her all.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You can try to ask her best girl friend what she really thinks.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hehe, maybe the side he shows you is the real side

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It is recommended that you watch.

    50 experience packs, you don't suffer if you fall in love and get married.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Nowadays, people live under too much pressure, marriage, house, car, money, and worry about these things all day long, so there will be a lot of emotions, and I myself am like this, I always feel too tired.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't even know myself. Oh really. Be.

    If you fantasize, everyone will have it, if you are a girl, you will directly say it: I like you If you agree, you will be together, and if you disagree, you will say: It's a pity and then become friends, others don't understand you, just understand yourself, you can't let everyone understand you, so try to change yourself.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Don't care what others do, just be yourself, there will always be people who appreciate you. The most important thing for people is to be themselves. Chasing girls, the most important thing is sincerity and perseverance. Good luck!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You're still young, but if you really like it, just be brave enough to say and do it, and you won't regret it if you work hard.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You should study hard to make yourself more powerful, more confident and better, and everything will be fine.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Youth is confused, do more psychological tests, and then know what the potential you are. Then, get the right medicine!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Youth is the most valuable capital in life, even if you fail, don't be afraid, because you are still young, bravely step out of the first part, do what you like, believe in yourself that you can do it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You're only 17 years old, it's time to study hard, why do you think so much? You'll meet a lot of girls in the future! It's better to wait for you to find your true love when you mature!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The risks are not small, mainly anti-money laundering risks. Specifically:

    1.The mobile phone number is his, then the change in the amount on your card will be sent to his mobile phone in the form of SMS notification.

    2.He took a copy of his ID card, basically can't do any other banking business, because the credit card you said must be handled by himself, the bank requires to do "three relatives", of course, if he has acquaintances in the bank, and he is complicit, as long as you keep a copy of your ID card, and at the same time put money on the bank card as a salary income certificate, you can apply for a credit card, but it is unlikely!

    3.The most likely risk is to use your bank card to do fraud and the like, such as using text messages to defraud others, remitting the proceeds of fraud to your bank card, and then withdrawing it from the ATM, and the public security organ collecting evidence, of course, your information, looking for you first, this is the biggest risk.

    Compensation method: Bring your ID card, go to the construction and postal service to report the loss of your card, and reissue it, of course, there is a fee, about 20 per card. Then the card in his hand is invalid, and it is useless.

    Don't mess with these things, you'll get shot while lying down.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You can definitely apply for a credit card, and the name is all yours, and others are using your name, and you can spend in advance. It's okay if it's a reliable person, if it's not reliable, if you don't pay back your credit card, the bank will look for you at that time! In the end, you didn't spend your money and got into debt, the most important thing is that it will have a great impact on your future creditworthiness, loan to buy a house, mortgage or something!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Review yourself first, if you haven't done anything wrong. Then they are too much, except forbearance, that can only stay away.

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