I m afraid of being asked about my failed past, so I m afraid of dating, what to do

In fact, many people have an inferiority complex to a greater or lesser extent. In fact, there are two sides to low self-esteem, the good side is often not enough to publicize, so that you can always maintain the value of self-knowledge, and the bad side is too much to close yourself in the pain of self-blame. Who hasn't failed?!

Don't look at failure with a magnifying glass, if you go too far, you will freak yourself out and think that everything is ruined at this node. It has nothing to do with horoscopes. What is relevant is your sensitive association, which is a negative psychological suggestion.

Life is actually a process of constantly getting out of failure, and interacting with people is not a beauty that takes away people, so you don't have to apologize or blame for your losses. If you ask about the past and answer frankly, don't put a noose on your own weak neck. It's okay, it's also inadvertently for others to touch the past that you don't want to look back on, and being too sensitive can only put yourself under pressure, and then life will be boring!

I wish the clouds to open and the fog to disperse, and my heart is as bright as the moon 1

Scorpios don't have low self-esteem at all

environmental reasons.

Don't know what you've been through before.

But you also know very well that failure is in the past, not the present, which means that you are successful now, or you are doing something again, and the past is just a bumpy part of life.

It's not possible for everyone to have a smooth life.

Don't worry too much about yourself. Pay more attention to the people around you who are caring about you.

Keep your eyes peeled. Make more like-minded friends.

Don't rely on Heaven to make decisions for you.

Destiny is in one's own hands.

Don't expect anyone to help you. You yourself are your own God

Escape can only live an illusory life, do you want to spend it like this? You have to know that everyone only has a lifetime of time

Think about how little time you once valued. Think about how much time you have left and how you can use it. Save time (don't repeat it) Time won't wait for you

Don't just know how to run away from setbacks, dare to face them, and understand that you can only stay the same if you don't face them. Of course, it is impossible to change right away, listen to what you think, pray to God more and get used to it slowly

Having said all that, do you understand?

Just ask,,What's that?,Are you afraid of what others say if you do something wrong?。。 It's good to let yourself learn a little more lessons, so that you can avoid making mistakes in the future...

You don't have to associate with others for this kind of thing,。。

Eh, I'm also a Scorpio -

It looks like you're a very introverted person.

No one fails.

The world is fair.

No one has experienced failure, and there is success only when there is failure.

The world also has joys, sorrows, and sorrows.

How can a caterpillar become a beautiful butterfly without going through all the ups and downs?

Afraid of getting hurt?

Don't be afraid of what will happen if you get hurt.

It's a big deal to know that doing so will hurt.

If you've been hurt, you'll learn a lesson, and you'll know what you can't do.

Don't be very distrustful of the other person, because you can't teach your friends.

If he or she really isn't the one to trust.

It's a big deal, you know that this kind of person can't be trusted, and you can't teach friends with this kind of person.

I think you're actually running away, you're afraid of socializing, so you're looking for a reason for yourself, and the reason is: you have a failed past, and you even say that you have something to do with a Scorpio. In fact, it has nothing to do with any of this, the main thing is to learn how to interact with people.

I have a friend, she used to not like to interact with people, and then she signed up for some interest courses, met some friends, slowly expanded her social circle, and later joined the Volunteer Federation, I think she is now very fulfilling, and interacting with people is much more relaxed, in fact, interacting with people is very casual, you are always very friendly, very active, and there will be more friends around you. If you try to please others on a regular basis, it will often be counterproductive.

I don't think it has much to do with the horoscope, from a scientific point of view, it has something to do with the family environment and background, but it doesn't matter, look away, in fact, no one will care much about other people's past, don't deliberately care too much about their past, the premise of accepting others is to accept yourself, don't be too demanding of yourself, be casual, and communicate with people more.

As you can tell from your narrative, you have had a lot of setbacks in the past, and these setbacks have left deep traces in your mind. However, each of us has experienced what has happened, so why don't others have a situation like yours? This is related to your personality flaws and growth experience, incorrect cognition, so you have to improve your personality and improve your cognition to really solve the problem.

Oh. You know that talking people aren't going to make you feel that way. And then the only thing we are afraid of is fear itself. Relax, it's fine. ”

Does it have anything to do with horoscopes?

This is a sign of lack of self-confidence, and it is also due to a lack of life experience. Pay too much attention to what others think of you, and demand perfection in front of others, knowing that there is no such thing as perfection. When you've prepared a lot, you may end up finding that things work out all at once, so don't stress about it.

I think you're very timid, you're withdrawn, you don't have self-confidence, you're in your third year of high school, you should learn to be friendly with people, don't think too much, don't think too much, don't think about it all the time, others will leave you, I've also been scared, the person you think is important, he may also think that you're important, so he won't get rid of you, you should think about more happy things, make your personality cheerful, I sincerely hope that my words can open your heart.

Others are very important to you, and if you always hold on to him, it will affect other people's social circles, maybe others have a good date? Friends can't always pay equally, you have helped others, it is impossible to always remember this matter, wait until the next time you mention it, let others help you, right? It doesn't matter if you pay reciprocity, as long as you feel that you are worthy of others and feel at ease.

If the relationship between friends is strong enough, even if you change seats or dormitories, it will not be affected. Gatherings and chats when you have free time can enhance friendships. It's just that, as year after year passes, people change, relationships fade, and good friends may leave.

You can keep in touch with them, but sooner or later you'll start your circle of friends again, and so do they. You might as well walk slowly by yourself sometimes, thinking as you go: Is it just because you are afraid of loneliness that they are so important?

When you have a new circle of friends, you may forget about them, are they still important people?

In fact, there are many, many people like you, so you don't have to be too inferior, first learn to accept yourself and love yourself, so that you have the capital to love others.

In life, if we hold on to the mentality that we accept what cannot be changed and can be changed, we will have a lot less troubles. Nothing lasts forever, and if you don't give because you're afraid of losing, you won't even have the opportunity to have, so it's a good choice to cherish it when you have it.

If you want to change the status quo and learn to be confident, you can first find some inspirational or psychology books. Once you have found emotional comfort, you will think of doing something positive to increase your positive energy ...

Have you summarized the reasons for previous failures. What about the lessons? Since they have all failed a lot, why should they be afraid of one more time? What if it succeeds?

Didn't try, what could be the result, me