Is it so hard to be a good person, how hard is it to be a good person?

I'm already in college, but I can't say how well I handle my classmates. I'll tell you what I learned in middle school: I'm also a bold girl, sometimes I scold those girls to my face or make irresponsible remarks, because of this, I often feel very lost, because I often get talked about behind the backs of those people, slowly, I also learned to adjust my emotions, I don't have to be stiff if I don't like them, people say we listen, or just don't hear it, I often treat those people as if they don't exist, and we must avoid head-on conflicts.

I think it's important to adjust your emotions in junior high school and try to learn to deal with interpersonal relationships as much as possible, which is very useful in college, and also, make more close friends, talk about what is in your heart, or write a diary, you have to remember that in college, if you are not in harmony with others, others will not take care of you, even good friends, sometimes you have to guard against the following.

Hehe, actually, where are you now?

There will be many problems in the future.

Remember. Relaxed.

You said you have a very bold personality.

You shouldn't have to deal with her, hehe.

Best wishes. Live happily.

Yes. This is also a small annoyance on the way to growth.

It's hard to be human. That's right, there is a lot of helplessness in being a man.

Thinking too much is just sad about yourself.

Relax Anger is just punishing yourself for the mistakes of others.

Live a little more chic and a little more generous.

It will also make a good impression on others.

Forgive her, harmony is important after all.

Don't let the outside world disturb your mood.

Hope you are in a good mood every day.

The wind passes through the sparse bamboo, and the wind goes away and the bamboo does not leave a sound; The geese cross the cold pool, and the geese pass through the pond without taking a photo.

Don't take these things to chance.

Hey, listen to me.

You're still young, and you don't know what a worry is

Hey, some, you don't have to figure it out

I came early in my second year of high school and junior high school

It's hard to be a man, and it's even harder to be a good person.

In fact, everyone's personality is different. I can understand that you can't stand it, because I couldn't stand it too, but looking back, why bother? Everyone's life is different.

The environment in which I grew up is also different. Have you ever heard of "Don't Be Angry"? Life is like a play, because there is a fate to get together, it is not easy to help each other until you are old, should you cherish it?

Why bother to lose your temper over trivial things, and think about it in retrospect? I am not angry when others are angry, and there is no one to replace me when I am angry. If I am angry, who will be happy?

Besides, it's nerve-wracking and laborious. Forget about it later. I'm sorry, but it makes sense!

Now they are advocating world peace, and harmony is also important, so why do it? You say, don't you?

It is not difficult to be a good person, but it is really difficult to be a good person for a lifetime.

It's hard to be a good person, because a good person is too kind.

It is said that good people have a safe life, and they all say that good people have good lives, but in this hot and cold world, good people will never be given a good result.

It's really hard to be a good person, a good person has done good things all his life, and suddenly one day he only did one wrong thing, and the person next to him began to point fingers, which is not right, what is wrong, and began to use a wrong thing to measure all the good of a good person.

It is difficult to be a good person, because a good person is too kind, and he is a mortal heart, but he is always used by those who have bad intentions, and use good morality to win the value of a good person, and to squeeze out the kindness of a good person.

There is always a part of people who like to bully honest people.

Be a good person, be honest, do your duty, and be like this square, square, upright, but there is always a part of people who like to bully honest people.

A person without a conscience always makes irresponsible remarks about good people, and a person without morals always likes to play honest people with his own cleverness.

Don't such people feel pathetic? Don't such people feel condemned in their hearts? Of course, perhaps such a person will be self-righteous and have no one in his sights.

In the life of a good person, when you are not good, you will not be treated, and others will dislike you.

In the life of a good person, when you are not good, you will not be treated, and others will dislike you, but good people always don't take it to heart and treat you happily.

If you talk too much, or have a little more experience of suffering, and have a little more heart, others will say that you are too tactful and not good.

A good person is not very talkative, and maybe what he says will hurt people, but that is not his intention. We all know that people who don't like to talk will not be treated well, after all, sycophants are too hypocritical.

Maybe this is the gap, maybe this is the model of a good person.

Being a good person becomes a fault.

You will find that bad people do bad things all their lives, and suddenly one day they do a good deed, that is to make the prodigal son turn back and put down the butcher's knife and become a new person.

If you have done a bad thing in your life, you can choose to forgive because of a good thing; Good people have done good things in their lives, and if they do a bad thing, they will force each other hard, and you can only say that people's hearts are sinister.

In life, the road of good people is always cornered, the duty of kindness is forced to breathe, and the real person is always regarded as a pig to be slaughtered.

When good people become a fault and bad people become a pursuit, then it is a sin to get out of the mud and not be stained.

In your daily life, you will feel that it is difficult to be a good person if you help others but are taken for granted, you are asked for help unjustly, and you are kindly accused of helping others.

1. Take the initiative to help others, but take it for granted, at this time you will feel that it is difficult to be a good person.

Under normal circumstances, when you take the initiative to help others, you should get kind gratitude from the other party......But sometimes, when you take the initiative to help others, you will take it for granted, and even think that it is wrong for you not to help him......This kind of situation will surprise you inexplicably, and then it will create a feeling that it is difficult for a good person to do it.

2. Being excessively demanded when helping others will make you feel that it is difficult to be a good person.

Generally speaking, when a person has received help from others and his or her own difficulties have been solved, he or she will express his gratitude to the other person and will no longer accept the other person's ...... of helpHowever, some people ask for too much when they accept the help of others, and turn the help of others into their own improper profits, which will make people feel that it is difficult for good people to do it.

3. I was originally kind and kind to help others, but I was accused for no reason, and I felt that it was difficult to be a good person.

Sometimes, when we are kind enough to help others, we get no gratitude, but unwarranted accusations ......The other party ignores his help, but pesters and blames him for what he dislikes. ......This situation can be very chilling and lead to the idea that it is difficult for good people to do it.

The above situations are not uncommon in interpersonal communication, so when we want to help others, we must first think about how to protect ourselves, so that we can be a really good person.