Mr. Chen: I broke up with my live in boyfriend, should I have a child who has just reached the age o

Things are easy to handle, and you shouldn't ask for them if you are sensible, and a mother with a child can imagine the difficulty of finding a partner. It is unlikely that a young man who is basically unmarried, or a second marriage, or a bachelor whose conditions are really poor, ugly, short, poor, etc. Therefore, you must not ask for a rational point, and if you do, you are destined to have a bad road in life.

But for the sake of children, for love, if you are a mother with noble thoughts, in your eyes, you can throw anything for your children, then you naturally want children.

Hello! Thank you for your trust in me.

The full moon you are talking about has already been born, in this case, you are still in a cohabitation relationship, not a marriage relationship? It is not uncommon for unmarried women to get pregnant and then break up, most of them are left by the mother, because after all, the child was born by you. And this man, since he can give up on you, this child can be let go.

Now, you've broken up. This premise will not change. You broke up, this child who witnessed your love, do you want to keep him?

If you want to keep it, then you understand what the birth of a child will bring you. Can you meet his growth, his needs, and can you smoothly ensure his growth and health? Have you given enough thought about this future life?

If, your answer is yes, and you want to do this for him, then I admire you, every single mother, is a great mother!

If you don't want to keep it, that's fine. The previous cohabitation situation had already decided that this child should not come. His birth was a tragedy. It's a matter between you. Do you understand?

If this breakup is irretrievable, well, you decide whether you want this child or not. No one can make this decision for you, and no one is qualified to make this decision for you. As long as you think about it, your decision is the best.

Bless you and hope it helps.

Give the child to the parent who can support it.

This is the best arrangement for the child.

If you don't get married, you shouldn't have a child, I don't think you should have it, and if you have this child, it will be troublesome for you to look for it in the future.

The children are all born, and it depends on how you discuss them. Remember to cherish life!!

You have to think for yourself, do you love him? Can you leave the child for his sake? Maybe in the future, he will think clearly that he will change to be a good father and love you and your children well, or it may become worse or even domestic violence.

You can only rely on yourself to judge, whether it will be better to live without him, even if your choice is wrong, no one can complain in the future, it is not too late to change your mind at any time, you are still underage, there is still a long way to go in the future, and you can only rely on yourself to go on, no one can help you all the way to accompany you, so please think about it yourself, if you love him, don't mind the words of passers-by and try to move him well, if only for the child you yourself are the best mother can give to the child, As a father of a child, you must also be the best.

What about the Chinese New Year, how can you make such a thing? You're too young for him to take on this responsibility, so if you can, it's best to meet at home to discuss the matter. Even if you do something out of the ordinary, your family will not abandon you.

In life, it is inevitable to make mistakes, live this once in your life, what mistakes cannot be forgiven.

Someone like that, even if you like him, he doesn't like you. Not to mention the man who abandons you. If that's the case, you'd better leave him.

Communicate with him, communicate calmly! Ask why he has changed, ask why.

Leave and leave, this kind of man is not worth it, it's a big deal to find another one.

According to persuasion, not persuasion, but your situation is obviously your cousin is not right first, how can he still pretend to be a dead person in his heart, people should live in reality, let it pass in the past, should be good to the current wife, and should also make the current wife feel happy, if you are still remembering the past, then you should not get married, so if I am the words to persuade divorce, wait for when your cousin wants to understand what life is, and let him get married after being born and living, Otherwise, this is irresponsible to other women, it is easier to persuade the woman in terms of your problem, because the name is good, there are many duplicate names, not to mention not a person, there is a woman's sustenance in the past, it is also a good thing that a man will be very good to the child, but there is still a dead man living in the man's heart, so it is not fair to the woman, so let's talk about it separately.

Since it has reached this point, it is like a broken mirror that is difficult to round, and it is difficult to recover the water, it is better to divorce, otherwise the two will have a knot in the future.

I advise your aunt not to prevent them from divorcing. I can't stand it if you want me, your cousin has been living in the shadow of his ex-girlfriend, and it's okay.

Your cousin is also funny, everyone has a baby with you, you give such a name, you want to give birth to a boy, this girl takes the name of her ex-boyfriend, what do you think, I must persuade your cousin, I miss you so much, don't marry someone else, and now this whole thing is really disgusting.

In fact, it is easier for you to persuade your cousin, because after all, this is the name of his ex-girlfriend as his daughter-in-law, and the name of his child is also because of the knot in his heart.

Think of your cousin like this, persuade him to leave, it's too unfair to women.

No matter how bad a man is, it's good, but he must not hit someone, especially women, with the first time, there will be many, many times next, do you think you can bear it? If he has a gentle personality, he won't hit people.

Break up, this kind of man is not worth it, and do you like him now, or are you used to the relationship between you for two years?

Sometimes it's confusing, you have to judge clearly, and then be decisive, it's a hurt to yourself if you drag it out!

You know him well! A woman's greatest achievement is not to see if she can change to a man!

Why don't you give him one last chance! Give yourself a chance too!

He changed it without me! Don't look at yourself!

Think clearly for yourself, and don't divide it.

Find a piece of paper and write clearly what you gain and what you lose if you don't.

What else do you want?

Divide it. What else to say about this kind of person.

It doesn't matter if you don't have a city, you don't have the ability, you can't speak or do things.

Let me ask you, if you get married and have children in the future, will you only fight cats???

What is there to be nostalgic for with this kind of person.

Just divide it, just get away from his sight.

So that he can't find you.

Then the bits and pieces of the house can be diswanted. Just bring what you can take with you.

Don't tell him anything, whatever he wants. Divided.

Let's break up! This kind of man is not suitable for a lifetime, he is a self-righteous hypocrite, and he is not married yet! After you get married, he'll hit you more often.

The man who beats a woman is not a man, and he hates this kind of man the most. And he is so much older than you, he should take care of you, but he beats you every day. Hurry up and divide it...

Hehe, don't think about it, you're only 24 years old, you're still young, you're looking for one, there's still a long time ahead!

If you think you can't be ruthless, just wait until you are ruthless, and you have to have confidence in finding a good boyfriend in the future. This is a major life event that needs to be chosen carefully!!

I am very similar to you, I am 32 years old this year, he is also 20 years older than me, and he is also with two children, we are very accommodating, but my colleagues, friends and classmates around me have envious eyes on me, mainly because I have a rich economy, I gave birth to a girl, just full moon.

The woman slept with the man, and now she doesn't want anyone else. When you need a man, you can go on it again.

His child is the same age as you, let's not say that other other children can accept you?

What else is there to be reluctant to, you are too naïve, leave him, he is not suitable for you, you will not be happy if you go on any longer, it seems that you are not mature enough,

At the beginning of your life, he is almost at the end, I don't know what you think.

Then leave him quickly, or the two children will have a very bad attitude towards you in the future.

Now he says that you are not good to his child, and you will have to live in the future, and besides, you will have a generation gap.

If you follow him, the time for sadness has not yet come.

Dear, I've had such an experience too, so I'm going to break it up, I'll meet a better one.

Divide it, find a normal relationship, be a stepmother, it's not good to be,

You must be a mistress who destroys other people's families.

You two are definitely not a good fit,

If you don't marry him, you'll regret it.

How old are you, 20 years older than you.

You shouldn't be looking for someone like that.

Everyone has everyone's worries.

- -Don't be too centered on him If you can't let go of it, you can treat him like he does to you But don't pay too much attention to him Don't mention reconciliation Love sometimes needs to play a little trick If you chase too hard, the farther he will escape Let it go, get in touch with new things or people More things like reconciliation is best to let the man speak first Believe me If he is really nostalgic for you, he will come back and take the initiative to reconcile with you.

After we broke up, I couldn't find her QQ on the Internet, I couldn't see her, but she often came to see me, and she never replied when I messaged her!

obviously pretended not to care, but in his heart he cared about death, he should have some other reason

I think that maybe something happened to him from time to time, you can take a good look at it, do a good job and don't ask him, he won't say it if he asks, if he wants to say it, he will say it a long time ago.

- -Tell him: The world is so hot, you should go and see it.

Not completely put down, that's it.

He can't rest assured of you, he said on his lips, but he doesn't necessarily think like this in his heart.

He feels that he is not worthy of you, and if you don't dislike him, you will accept him.