My friends say that my current boyfriend is not suitable for me, what should I do?

Whether it's suitable or not, only you know, but you must listen to the words of your friends, one says you don't care, if you say so, you really have to take it to heart, listen to their true words, and think about it yourself.

I think you should sit down and think seriously about whether he is really suitable for you, whether he cares about you very much, whether he cares about you and takes care of you.

I think it's better to ask yourself what kind of attitude you have towards your boyfriend, after all, you are the person you interact with your boyfriend every day, and other people don't know what kind of person your boyfriend is.

You can ask your friends what is inappropriate between you, and at the same time try to improve the communication with your boyfriend, and at the same time feel happy yourself.

Don't worry too much, whether your boyfriend is suitable or not, you know best, love is a personal matter, you have to grasp it yourself, and you don't have to care about what others say.

As long as you feel that your boyfriend is suitable for you, don't care too much about other people's opinions, otherwise you will live in contradictions.

You should trust your friends' instincts, because if most people say that he is not good, it means that the current boyfriend must be really not good, so it will be like this, break up.

Follow your inner thoughts, falling in love is your own business, but you also have to consider the thoughts of your friends, maybe you are an insider, and you are limited in your view.

Then you feel it yourself, what others see is definitely not the same as what you see yourself, after all, you have been with your boyfriend for a longer time, and you should know your boyfriend better than they do.

Then you need to consider the opinions of your friends, because the authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear, and then carefully decide the relationship between you.

If every friend says so, you have to watch and think about it, after all, the authorities are obsessed with bystanders.

It is becoming more and more unsuitable with your boyfriend, two people have been together for a long time, there will be a lot of contradictions, as long as your contradictions are resolved, your feelings are the same, if there is anything bad about him, you can point it out to him, I hope he can change.

Don't give up and break up lightly, what is the reason for the inappropriateness, if you think clearly that the two people are really inappropriate, then don't procrastinate, tell him, this is also a kind of responsibility, don't let others feel that you don't love him, disgust him, but don't say anything.

You can talk about each other's thoughts first, there is no one who is born right, and if the run-in is suitable, it is of course best to be together all the time. But if two people can't change into what they think of each other, and they really can't get along, then separate as soon as possible and don't delay each other.

If it's not suitable, say it early, don't delay each other's feelings and time.

Then you have to talk to him thoroughly, and if it really doesn't work, then the end of the conversation between you and him is also the time for you to break up with him.

If it feels more and more inappropriate, the best way to do it is to talk about it and see if we can talk about how we can change each other. If you really can't change it, then break up.

This can be seen in several aspects:1Is it that if you have been in love for a long time, you are like a husband and wife in all aspects, and it is not so fresh, so you will feel inappropriate; 2.

It's just been in love for a year, and it's not the same as when I first went on a blind date or contact, and I feel that it's less and less like my ideal boyfriend; 3.It's your boyfriend's personality or three views that make you feel unqualified. If it's the first one, I think as long as your boyfriend is sincere to you, even if it's not what you think because of the current external economic conditions and appearance conditions, you should get used to it, because finding a partner who loves you is more important than anything else.

The premise is to go to get married). In the second case, it is recommended to separate for a period of time as a cooling-off period, during which it is just time for both parties to calm down and think, and maybe they will have a different experience when they meet again. In the third case, long pain is better than short pain, and it should be separated as soon as possible to avoid long dreams at night.

If it's not suitable, get together early and disperse early.

1. How can we get back when a man says we are not suitable?

1. Don't keep him, let him go.

Everything you do after the breakup is superfluous in his eyes, thinking that he has already made up his mind to break up, and your stalking is completely useless to him, but he will be more disgusted with you after seeing your stalking, and he will be more sure that his breakup is the right choice, because these actions you have done are too childish. If you let him go, this is actually the first step to recovery, don't let him feel more disgusted, keep your value, and be a little more free to be able to face your next redemption with a good attitude.

2. Get along as ordinary friends.

When you have built your mindset, you have to get along with him like a normal friend. Don't reveal a sense of need other than ordinary friends, you can chat normally, but not much. Create a way for you all to be more comfortable with each other.

This way of getting along will ease your already sharp relationship, and the negative emotions of both of you will gradually decrease. When an ordinary friend is around him, you can try to find out her state, and if her mood drops, you can move on to the next step.

Second, how to redeem the inappropriate.

1. Carry out secondary suction.

When a man breaks up with you, it basically means that he doesn't love you anymore, and to put it bluntly, your value has no attraction in his eyes. In fact, it is not difficult to attract him a second time, as long as you are willing to change yourself and strive to improve your value, since you were able to attract him at the beginning, then after the breakup, try to build yourself again, make yourself full of charm, then you can still attract the other person again.

2. Learn to show yourself to him.

After the change, you have to try to show it to him, you can use the circle of friends to post some photos of your change, but don't take it too seriously, and post some updates inadvertently for him to see. When he sees it, he will inevitably have doubts in his heart, after the breakup, you are better off than him, then he will begin to rationalize backwards, maybe he also has problems in the relationship, maybe he also has mistakes, when he begins to reflect on himself, he will start to re-engage in your feelings.

The three views are inconsistent, and the appropriate one is changed. Find the right person to be with.

Sometimes I learn to let go, after all, the other party also brought it up after consideration.

This is the same as buying shoes, only you know whether the new shoes fit or not, how can others know?

They're not you, so how do they know that you and your significant other aren't suitable?

So, the point is that you don't feel right with the other person, you feel right, that's right, don't listen to others, be influenced by others, you don't feel right, then separate.

However, if the people around you say that your other half has a bad character and is unreliable, then you need to pay attention.

Because the typical characteristics of scumbags and scumbags are that they coax the object well, so that the object feels that they are particularly good, and they are a love wizard who is unique in ten thousand, but they are too lazy to cover up with other people, which will lead to a phenomenon that only you think they are good, and others feel that they are unreliable.

So, you need to have a deeper understanding of why the people around you think you are not suitable, is it because he pretends to be a rock and thinks that your object is unreliable? Or is it something else?

That's the key factor in your decision.

The people around me said that it was not suitable, but it seemed that it was really inappropriate. There are big differences in age, culture, habits and customs, or hobbies.

Of course, neither swimming nor this is an obstacle to love. May a lover eventually become married, if you think so too.

Others say it's not suitable, but what do you think yourself?

First, when others say that you are not suitable, do you say that you are not suitable?

If the reason for what others say makes sense, then you may not be a good fit.

Second, do you really think that when people say that you are not suitable?

You usually get along with your boyfriend, but the world should know better than outsiders.

Thirdly, you should not care too much about what other people think, only you know whether it is suitable or not.

It is possible that someone is deliberately trying to break you up, regardless of what others think.

If they are your relatives and elders, then you should reflect on it, after all, they have traveled more roads than you; Or you can find a private time to talk to them and hear their views and founding praises.