Feeling inferior to the meeting with bad words? 200

First of all, I want to say that if you are in the academic world, if you are not very good at speaking, then, only take the results out, if you say, if you can't get the results, if you can't speak, it is indeed a relatively large mole for you, a fatal point, now that you know your shortcomings, then you should work hard to improve your ability in this area, of course, it is not that you need to go, perfunctory, submit the film, you are more needed, the results of the score, and it is an explanation.

The best way is to prepare early, write it down if it really doesn't work, memorize it, you can't rely on on-the-spot play, just practice slowly, and pay attention to learning from other people's experience.

Don't feel inferior, bold practice will become smoother and smoother, talk more, talk more times, you won't be afraid, you will be handy.

It should be reminded that you should prepare before the meeting, write an outline of what you want to say on paper, and if you have time, you can rehearse it a little, so that you will not panic at that time.

One thing to emphasize is that you can't back down, you have to be brave enough to break out, and you will get better and better.

Well, if you are an introvert, you will feel inferior if you are not good at words in a meeting, and if you are not an introvert, then you will not feel inferior, but feel normal.

First of all, you need to first clarify your own logic, write it down, and then revise it over and over again, find the key point, at this time start to try to get off the script, you can use the function of ppt timing, and then record your own voice, listen to yourself incoherently, at the beginning of the first ask yourself to be long enough, speak coherently, the key points are expressed clearly, and then continue to revise later, this can be trained, and the test is effective.

If you feel inferior, you need to change yourself, first you have to enrich your vocabulary, you can look at literature, and then you can chat with people a lot, so that you will not be bad at words.

It shows that you are lacking in some aspects! You need to strengthen the development of your lack of capacity in this area.

In fact, there are two kinds of bad words. One is that the speech is always unfocused, and the language organization and expression skills are poor. The other is that he knows everything in his heart, but he is afraid to express it, and he is afraid of inferiority.

If you belong to the first category, it may be more difficult to change, because after all, the way a person has spoken for more than 20 or 30 years, it is not realistic to say that it will change. But if it belongs to the second type, it can be changed relatively easily, first of all, you can express and speak in your bedroom, in a place where you feel safe, or find a mirror to say in the mirror, and practice a lot to change the problem of being afraid of expressing and being ashamed to express.

Actually, we're both the same, and I'm also very depressedSometimes I feel inferior and lonely, so why not try to think about what I was happy with before? Talk to your best friends or family members and try it.

You have to have faith, you have to believe in yourself, everyone has their own shortcomings and strengths. Smile and smile a lot.

In daily life, people often have this misconception: introverts are actually not good at words and have low self-esteem, in fact, this view is wrong. The inside line does not mean bad words, nor is it a reason why you should have low self-esteem.

Introversion also has its own advantages.

In fact, introversion and extroversion are not necessarily absolute. Before college, I was a very introverted person, and after college I changed the environment, and I thought about it at that time. The idea is that people don't know if I'm an introvert or an extrovert.

I was fed up with being an introvert, so I was going to be an extrovert in college, so after college, I tried to make myself an extrovert.

Introverts tend to have low self-esteem, so they are often accompanied by a lack of verbal awareness. If you want to break this cycle, you must be brave enough to exercise your speaking skills and improve your communication skills, which can also help your self-confidence and get rid of the trouble of inferiority.

1. Turn your home from the countryside into your advantage. In fact, I think you are too worried, do rural people have low self-esteem? Check up the three generations, whose family is not rural.

Now our unit recruits, we all want to use students from the countryside, what you call introverted inferiority and not good words, in fact, it is also simple, real, not afraid of hardship, take into account the feelings of others, these advantages are not possessed by many urban children. Moreover, you also went to college in the city for four years, and you basically integrated into the city. If you make good use of the advantages of being a rural child, it will add points to your workplace.

2. Show your true self during the interview. Different personalities have different personality benefits, if you choose a sales job, of course, it is better to be articulate, if you choose the technology industry, the taciturn person is more credible. Therefore, when you are interviewing, you don't need to deliberately do a lot of preparation work in advance, and show your bad words as eloquent talk, which will create a false impression to the internship unit, which is not conducive to future development, and the one that suits your personality is the best.

If you have strong work ability, good performance, and excellent performance in all aspects, the leaders of your unit will only praise you and will never discriminate against you because you are from a rural area. Moreover, if you do the same as urban children, the leader will value your potential more, because we have a low starting point, so we have more room to grow.

Fourth, you can make up for yourself through later learning. Many rural children envy urban children who know more and know more. When I first went to work, I saw a city girl dancing a folk dance at the annual meeting of the unit, I thought it was so beautiful, I also wanted to increase my personal charm, and went to sign up for a piano class.

In fact, there are pros and cons to being born in rural areas and urban backgrounds, so don't always position yourself as a rural person, rest on your laurels, and regard your personality traits as character defects. I wish you all the best in passing the internship unit.

People need to be confident no matter what the situation.

Self-confidence can work wonders.

Everything will be fine.

First of all, let's look at the point, there are billions of people in the world, what type of people there are, don't care too much about your shortcomings or advantages, just do it casually.

Maybe it's because I've been studying for a long time and feels a little "nerdy", but when I enter the society and adjust slowly, I will change, I don't need to deliberately change myself, just do more things and play more.

I have the same problem as you.

But I know it's because I have too little contact and communication with people, and if I don't go out, the more afraid I am of communicating and talking to people, and I am even more afraid of meeting people!

If you are afraid of saying the wrong thing, talk to your good friends and family members first.

When discussing problems with friends, just say what you think in your heart, don't hold back.

When getting along with others, people with low self-esteem are very eager to be affirmed by others, but they are afraid of making a fool of themselves, afraid of embarrassment, and even sometimes sensitive to blame their own problems for the unhappiness of others. Generally speaking, people with low self-esteem have too much self-esteem, but they are extremely lacking in self-confidence, and when talking to others, they are often very silent and unapproachable in order to protect their fragile self-esteem.

Introverted personality is also not good at talking, but he doesn't mean that this person can't speak, maybe this person is also a very talkative person in front of everyone, and you can feel the joy of communication when you are with him, but that is the side they show in front of the public. There are many people with a bright appearance who are the obscure ones in ordinary life, and that is their character, the more real side.

It is a more introverted, inferior mentality, introvert is the character, in the process of your growth, according to the things you experienced, the family education and school education are related. If we analyze whether there are psychological problems from the perspective of introversion alone, then we need to analyze the specific problems on a case-by-case basis. For example, because your parents were strict when you were a child, you formed the idea that you don't like to talk and are afraid of being scolded.

It is undeniable that many loners have stubborn personalities and extraordinary abilities. Many things that others can't do, he can easily solve. Life is long, with joys and sorrows.

When you're annoyed, go for a walk. When you're lonely, listen to songs. After a long time, you will be relieved of this loneliness, there is nothing wrong with it!

Don't torture yourself and torture yourself because of this! There are two sides to the personality, there is no absolute, according to people's living habits, just feel happy, don't care too much about their feelings.

Maybe it's because they're not familiar with each other. We meet different people every day, these people have acquaintances, there are not very familiar or directly unknown people, sometimes for some reason, may talk to unfamiliar people, but talking to people they are not familiar with, is often the most likely to fall into an embarrassing situation, because they are not familiar with each other, they must pay attention to what they say, they are afraid of offending others by saying the wrong thing, they are afraid that others will not be clear if they say less, they are afraid that others will not be clear when they say too much, and they are afraid that others will be disgusted if they say too much. Of course, people who don't like to talk to people they don't know well don't like to talk, but they are not familiar with each other, which will make it awkward and restrained for two people to communicate.

In our lives, there are many people who are not good at verbal expression, and when faced with complex relationships between people, they can see all the routines clearly, and they can also understand the deeper meaning of others. But this is limited to the heart, if they are asked to express it in the corresponding language, they don't know how to say it. Generally speaking, this type of people suffer very much in relationships, because they can't express their feelings to others, and sometimes they want to say a thousand words, but they can't say a word for more than ten minutes.

Just like me, when there are more people, you are silent, because I don't know what to say, and of course people don't care about you, because you are not good at words, maybe it has something to do with your personality.

I used to be like this, I had low self-esteem, but it was also the beginning of a vicious circle, introverted, and relatively withdrawn, not good at talking, and not strong in expression. When you meet people who don't like to say hello, after a long time, others won't talk to you, because others think that you are not good to talk to, and they are afraid that you will ignore people when they greet you, which is very embarrassing and has no face. The essence of human beings is that they are social animals, and when they are alone, they will show a state of loneliness, because this sense of "loneliness" comes from the true feelings of the deep human heart, so each individual has a strong dependence on the "group".

Because you are alone, if you don't join the group, you won't have the opportunity to learn, and if you don't learn, you won't be able to keep up with the pace of the times. You were withdrawn from the beginning, but now you're even more lonely, you don't know anything.

Put into words what you think in your heart. Don't be shy, there is always an incomplete side to people. Communicative skills are developed every day.

An extrovert is also nervous about giving a speech for the first time. If you try it often, you can improve. I was afraid that I would say the wrong thing and offend them, so I didn't say it.

In fact, sometimes, we might as well take the initiative to find more topics, or participate in more activities, which will be very effective for communication.

It's connected to the same disease.

Get in touch with the outside world, don't be afraid of making mistakes at the beginning, don't be afraid of other people's jokes, and don't think about how your communication level is inferior to others. As long as you want to change, as long as you are willing to take the first step, you are half the battle.