We broke up. I was helpless and lonely

Updated on psychology 2024-05-08
54 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I hope you can cheer up soon and find your true love again!

    How can a big husband have no wife!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Oops, buddy, the woman is gone.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There is a kind of love called letting go.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hahaha......Dude, what are you doing so sentimentally, since the former lover has now found his belonging, then you don't need to be sentimental at all.

    Since you know that you are going where you shouldn't be, it means that you know that what you are doing is right or not, and you already know this. [But it is you who are willing to fall and do not have the courage to face the mistakes of the past].

    Don't say things like "then" and "if", because the past will only pass and never come back, and saying such things is just a comfort to yourself.

    There is no reason or what ifs in this world, and men just swallow the bitter fruit of this cruel world without blinking an eye.

    Cry if you want to, don't care how ugly it is.

    If you're lonely, laugh and keep going. Above.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I can't change it back.

    If you can't change others.

    Then change yourself!

    If people are not happy.

    Being drunk is also a matter of course.

    The more the heart hurts, the more you should slowly let it hurt one cup at a time.

    After the pain, the person will feel tired.

    When you feel tired, it's easy to get drunk.

    When you wake up drunk, you will naturally feel comfortable.

    This is the way to kill your sorrows through alcohol.

    But if you're in a hurry.

    Just want to get drunk quickly, and forget your feelings quickly.

    I'm afraid it won't hurt enough.

    When you wake up, everything just goes on and on.

    It's not just the wine that's wasted, it's time and thought.

    Only after getting drunk can you start anew.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    What is the place not to go? If you're doing the right thing, she'll be waiting for you no matter how long it takes. Memories, the past, are things that everyone misses. I have a clear heart, I am not ashamed of others, and I have done it. You get the idea.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Give up, you will find your own happiness! Good luck.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Emotional things don't matter how many years they have, seven years, seventeen years, twenty-seven years, the key is the feeling of two people together, there is no feeling, it's time for love to end, and it's time to break up, but don't forget the past, your past is a good memory, it's your wealth, a friend told me that women have to go through the pain of breaking up if they want to mature, and men have to go through career setbacks if they want to mature. After you communicate, I believe you will go on, how is not a matter of misunderstanding, but to say that there is nothing in common, breaking up may be the best choice, don't take the breakup too seriously, but don't be too casual to break up, love should be cautious, you calm down, talk to her, note: only let go, you can grasp more and better things. Weigh it well, and hopefully you can get the best result.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Let me tell you a story!

    A colleague of our factory, he and his girlfriend have been in love for 7 years, but they have broken up and been separated for 2 years, but they had a good talk at a class reunion, and they went to go through the remarriage procedures soon after.

    They love each other deeply and will not give up on each other easily.

    Look for an opportunity to salvage the relationship!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    7 years must not be divided into points, there are problems to be solved slowly 7 years of relationship breakup will be very painful and empty, two people together is already a habit, usually not felt, but really left, no one will be able to stand it, just like you wash your face every day for 7 years, suddenly one day does not wash, what will it be like 7 years of feelings are not no longer felt but have become a part of each other's lives.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    As long as there are feelings, there is nothing that cannot be solved.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What about seven years? If you don't feel it, you don't feel it anymore, and it's not the reason for time at all

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It seems that there is really no long-term relationship.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You are so, how to say it, it must be separated, she is so ruthless to leave, you are still reluctant.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Does a breakup have to be painful?! You can choose a better solution!! If you don't want to be a boyfriend or girlfriend, you can be a boyfriend and a girlfriend!! 7 years of relationship, is that it?? Isn't it good to leave a good memory?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you encounter a problem, you have to solve him, and escape is not a way!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I also feel that if I persist for so long, I will try to solve the problem as much as possible, in fact, I have been the same with my boyfriend recently, and I feel very tired.

    I've talked about breaking up many times, but I haven't broken up every time, I think it's too hard to let go, and I think we're all trying to do better, right now.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Some things are boring anymore. So why stay together all the time? Maybe it's good for you and for her. It's normal to not forget 7 years of relationship. But it's only a matter of time. Rather than everyone suffering. It's better to say it and disperse.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Emotional things, just think about it yourself, no one can help you, the key is not how you look at it!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    7 years, still don't know a person? Can't see through her? If yes, then you are mentally retarded. Is there anything else you can't get across? It's not okay to have a good chat???

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Do you love her or are you used to being with her, you have to tell clearly.

    You don't have to make me the answer, I just want you to tell the difference.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Focus on work or study, or find another one

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    7 years of relationship, there is a problem to solve the problem, don't break up really, it's painful.

    Because if you are a person who does not pay attention to feelings, you can't last 7 years in a relationship, since I think you will have a hard time remembering the past after breaking up.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    How can 7 years of love be easily forgotten? At most, it's just a dilution of feelings, and the man's career is current, so work hard.

    Knowing your situation well, we're pretty much the same.

    But nothing in this world is the perfect two worlds.

    If you lose something, you gain it, if you can't let it go, you can fight for it, if you can think about it, don't keep it too much, the relationship is really a headache!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Parted? My girlfriend and I have been dating online for more than a year, and we haven't even met in person, and we haven't given up!

    Where does the word breakup begin?

    Since they are holding hands, they will continue to hold them until the end of their lives.

    My opinion is not to break up, parents dislike?

    his mother's! I found a girlfriend back then, we loved each other very much, and my parents disliked that they were from the countryside, so we broke up.

    I regretted this for two years, and I was depressed for two whole years, and I didn't have the confidence to do anything anyway, and even if I did, it was perfunctory.

    If you're in love, don't break up!

    No! Not to mention!

    No! No! No! Why should you divide it!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think that can only prove that you are not really in love, if you really love each other very much, no matter what others say I just like him, I just love him, I decided to be with him for a lifetime, it is not easy to find a person who is good to you, it is even more difficult to find a person you really love, I think you still cherish it! People must know how to cherish, really, don't wait until you lose to know that you really lost him, what you lost is not returned, I think many people have heard the phrase know how to cherish the person in front of you, but how many people have really done it? I hope you're one of those people who really understand.

    But all we can give you is a piece of advice, and the final decision is up to you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Don't break up! I'm the same as you, don't give up, okay?

    I only regretted giving up.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you are still a student, you should focus on your studies! If you don't succeed in your studies, even if you are together in the future, will you feel happy?

    If he has you in his heart, you should study harder, and at the same time complete your studies, it is also a testimony to his feelings for you.

    The parents' worries are also right, after all, they are still in school, it is too early, if you and he are both successful in school, I believe that each other's parents will not object, so if you have a really good relationship, then encourage each other, help each other, and complete your studies is the top priority!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Find someone you love, it's better to find someone who loves you! Think about it!

    Good luck.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Parents are worried about your future, aren't they? For the sake of yourself and his future, study hard, go to him after finishing your studies, and let him think the same way. Love is after the age of twenty, and only then will it be finalized, learn first, and then fall in love, but neither of you can forget each other.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Personally, I don't think it's necessary to score. Is it a high school student? You can make an agreement, be admitted to the same university, and fall in love in college, isn't it better?

    If you also find a city for work, won't all problems be solved? It's too early for you to fall in love, be good friends, it's not too late to fall in love in college, the two of you will discuss it carefully, and it will be resolved.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Since it's so painful, don't break up! Because it's not easy to meet people who love each other, it's also fate! I think what else you can do is to convince your parents that you are happy to be truly happy, and that one day they will understand you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    There are thousands of children in the world, and if it is not good, it will be changed.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you love, you will insist, if you don't love, you will divide What lines do I dislike about Twilight If you are not together, how much can you give each other?

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you loved him, you wouldn't be so hesitant now!

    What did he think? Does he know you want to break up with him?

    I still don't think there's anything good going on with illusory love!

    Illusory is illusory after all!See you once in a long time to avoid something happening

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Do whatever you want without regrets!

    Make your own decisions, and it's not your parents who live with him for the rest of their lives!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Don't break up, if you love someone, you have to give everything for him Although it is a little hard, but there is also a kind of happiness in the suffering!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    No one else can help you! Make up your own mind!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    You are still young, no one can say for sure what will happen in the future, and you will naturally fade after the college entrance examination is over, and you will naturally fade away, I wish you to find a better one.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    There is no standard answer to the question of feelings.

    It can be seen that your girlfriend will think of you when she is most helpless.

    But it's not love.

    Or that you have more feelings for that man than for you.

    If it's a breakup, are you willing to do it?

    You gave up a lot for her.

    Including the love that you may be able to be very beautiful.

    You know that her heart is not with you, so if you stick to it, there is still a reason for love, it is your own business. You love her, it's your own love.

    But, you are in love, love in love, without either party, what's the point of you being a good boy, not worthy of this.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It's obviously not you who she loves you, she can't catch up with that man, so she looks for you as a springboard. I hope to tease that man by joining you and let him know that he didn't choose her, which was a wrong choice!!

    You're a supporting character from start to finish, and she treats you like a fool!! Such a girl is good at peace early, why do you think too much!!

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    This woman doesn't think of you as a boyfriend at all.

    Don't get carried away by love.

    That woman is playing with you.

    For this kind of woman, you dump her.

    Otherwise. She'll still dump you in the future.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    You don't want to be with her anymore, break up, the one who will be hurt like this will definitely be you. Besides, she doesn't have any feelings for you at all, and I guess she just uses you to anger that man.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    If you still like her, you're stupid, so obvious, don't you understand?

    Hey, think about it yourself, since she doesn't like you, you can share it with her, and this kind of woman is not worth getting her sincerity at all, she has a boyfriend, and she likes other boys, and asks him why?

    Such a woman is enough...

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    You're really bored. With someone whose heart is not there for me, you love her, but what's the use? Have you given the answer yourself? Still ask? Divide!

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    It should be appropriate to pick out the words for him. Don't be too skeptical. Tell him what you don't know. If that's really the case. You should ignore him. Because he is not worthy of your love.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Eating from the pot and looking at the bowl. Play the field. Do you dare to ask for a woman who steps on two boats? If you don't dump her, just wait to be dumped by her.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    I guess it's because I'm angry with the man that I'm getting along with you, or maybe the guy slandering your girlfriend, it's better to make it clear to your face.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    She's with you just to satisfy the loneliness of the moment, and it won't work for a long time.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    You should, ask your girlfriend if this is true? Ask her what she thinks? If it's true. Leave her immediately.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    If there is no room for retention, then break up and leave more space for each other, even if they are reluctant to be together now, there may be psychological obstacles in the future. As a man, you have to be able to lift it, you can let go, and you give up the knowledge of a person who doesn't love you.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    She's thinking about other men when she's with you, and I think men can't accept it....Find the right time for her to make things clear and deal with it....

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    You're just like that girl.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Love, who falls in love with whom, is who owes whom.

    What he said was just an excuse not to continue. Do you really want him to say something more hurtful to you, so that he can let go of this attachment, look away, fall in love, just to find the right person and be happy.

    Since it's always hurting.,Let's see if it's what you want.。。

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