I was extremely unconfident and uncomfortable walking alone

To tell the truth, I was also ridiculed when I was a child, I was also very touched by your words, I think in fact, the change comes from little by little, from now on, **lively, you go over to join in the fun, every day in the mirror, silently hinting at your own changes, maybe you can't change anything now. It's okay, time can wash away your pain, time can dilute your bad memories, I'm 24 years old, I'm fine now, believe me, as you get older, you will find how insignificant you care about now. Hope to help you.

First of all, please believe in yourself, let yourself be brave, and try to change yourself, and do what you don't want to do, don't want to do, and are afraid to do (of course, it's a good thing, a meaningful thing). Isn't there such a famous saying? Do what you're afraid of, and your fear will naturally disappear.

In fact, you crave the understanding of others, but you suffer from the fact that you can't open your mind to others, mainly because your own suspicions are too heavy, and you feel that you can't achieve anything you want. People are mutual, and you want others to understand you, but do you think you understand others? You must know that the effort is rewarded, and don't just want to get other help unilaterally.

If you are not in an unhappy mood but don't say anything, you will get sick, and if you are depressed, you should learn to confide in others. First of all, you can confide in your friends, which requires you to learn to make friends first. If you always guard against the "abuse" of others and do not make friends, there will be no happiness to talk about.

If you don't have friends, not only will you have no one to help you when you encounter difficulties, but you will also not be able to find someone to spit out quickly. Those who can give the suffering in their hearts to their confidants and can be comforted and even plotted, their hearts will naturally be as clear as if a door has been opened. In addition, we can confide in our loved ones, learn to confide in them the grievances and unhappiness in our hearts, and often make our mood immediately turn from yin to sunny.

You must first have faith and don't care about others. What can others do about you, why do you want to be self-bei, so much worse than you, people can live a rich and colorful life, what are you afraid of, what do you want to say out loud, what can you do if you laugh, you yourself will not be anything less, don't think about other people's opinions, what they think is theirs, they don't like it, someone else will like it, be confident.

First of all, I want to say that no one is perfect, you may be worse than others, but I am sure that you definitely have something better than others, even if it is your kindness...

How to overcome low self-esteem.

Do more of what you're good at. For example, if you can draw, draw more, and then show it to others, and when others praise you, you will be very proud, and you will have less low self-esteem.

Think less about your weaknesses and more about your strengths. We must know that no one is perfect, and everyone will have their own ways and places to reflect their value. When God closes a door, He also opens a window for you.

When you have low self-esteem, you can talk to your parents about your feelings. With the comfort and persuasion of others, you will feel much better.

It's mainly up to you to regulate your mind. Find your strengths, don't mind your weaknesses and find ways to improve yourself, don't be too demanding of yourself. If you work hard to achieve your goals, you will naturally not feel inferior.

I think you have a certain level of mental disorder. The inferiority complex formed since childhood has not weakened with age, but has become more and more intense, causing you to close yourself off and suppress yourself. Do you think everyone looks at you strangely?

Do you feel like people are talking about you behind your back? In fact, this is a mental illness, it is recommended to communicate with a psychiatrist, cooperate with **, and slowly get better, you still have a long way to go, don't give up on yourself.

In fact, sometimes it is better to go with the flow when it comes to personality problems.

I have a character that others don't have, and it's also very precious.

If you want to speak in front of a lot of people.

Be confident. To say more, thick-skinned is the number one.

The second is that you are good enough.

Take your time. It's still small

I believe that what you say is the opposite of reality.

Make some friends or fall in love to help you grow.

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According to the point of view of "Sensitive Psychology", you belong to a person with a more prominent way of thinking sensitively, the most basic characteristic is sensitivity, because you are sensitive, you are timid, because you are sensitive, you lack a sense of security, because you are sensitive, you have a strong sense of existence, you are especially good at face, you always care about what others say about you, and your words and deeds hope to be correct, which can attract everyone's attention.

Similarly, because of sensitivity, because of the above reasons, in public, even if there are only two people present, they are very nervous, because of a lack of security, you are always afraid of being hurt by others, or always want to control others, always want to control everything, so that you will feel at ease, once you can't control it, you will be anxious, everything is pessimistic and negative, and there are more negative views, which often cause the disapproval and unhappiness of your companions. On the contrary, as long as you are not in the crowd, as long as you have the opportunity, you must relax yourself, and you must indulge yourself, including when you are on the road, you can walk in a twisted way, and only care about your own happiness.

How to get rid of this trouble? How can I feel more comfortable in public? The antidote is to learn not to take yourself too seriously in public, tell yourself that you are an ordinary person, do your own thing, do the things in front of you, and respect the people in front of you.

The people on the street are nothing more than a crowd in my eyes, and I am just a crowd in the eyes of others. The feeling of "I see how charming Qingshan is, and I expect Qingshan to look at me like this" is just written under Xin Qiji's pen. You are in the green hills, but you are a crawling ant on the rocks; The green mountains are just the scenery that you look up when you stop on the way, nothing more.

What if you don't get in, will you be good in high school? Unless you're a college must!

I'm a good example, I got into a good high school, and I don't want to go to it! Why, just because it's too hard, I don't have freedom, I study hard, and I feel unproductive. This knowledge is just my personal opinion, if I offend some students who like college, I am really embarrassed.

I am about to graduate from a secondary school, and my grades are among the best in my class, and I read business English. Sounds good, right? I like it very much, my grades are better than in junior high school, just because there is no pressure, and my grades are my real level.

I was afraid that others would look down on me, so I worked hard to get good grades, my family was proud of me, and my friends were envious of me.

So, don't think that high school is the only way out. If you don't mind what others think, you work harder and make achievements, which others envy and regret.

I hope you're happy soon. Go out with your friends more and talk to them more so that you don't have this mentality.

Bring your English book or course book every morning!

Go to the mountains and shout and read aloud!

Just take your time!

I didn't even graduate from elementary school, and I was very confident.

Whatever! If you don't take the test, go to a fun place to have a good time, and say it loudly in a crowded place, isn't it someone who said? The body is not afraid of the shadow slanting, and besides, who hasn't done anything wrong!

This is normal.

If you think about it, people are not saints....Who is without fault? It's a little bit of a drawback....Small problems, you have to be objective, don't be afraid of it.

I don't want to say it in generalities....You have to be confident, don't feel inferior....Something like that.

Now what you're going to do is....Formally, it、Don't be afraid of this question....

Specifically, it is....Give myself a hint: people don't hurt me, they just laugh, they don't mean to hurt me, I can protect myself, I'm a sophomore in high school, I'm about to grow up...I'm going to change.

That's it....Cheer yourself up and change your mindset because you care too much about what they think of you....So making a fool of yourself again and again makes you more and more depressed and inferior....

Right, I care too much...Isn't it time for a change?

It's hard work, and it takes time...Change the way you think about the people and environment around you, slowly....It's going to be a lot better....

I wish you a speedy and happy future....