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Salvation, too exaggerated. Only you can save yourself. If you are not aware of your own problems, it is useless to be anxious about others.
If you are aware of your problems but don't want to change your current situation, everything is in vain. As long as you understand yourself and are willing to change, you can save yourself.
If you are talking about someone else, it is recommended that you take him to a psychiatrist.
If you are talking about yourself, it means that you are aware of your own troubles and are willing to make corresponding changes to change your situation, which is very good and commendable, and shows that you still have hope for life, and it may be that something big has happened that makes you feel a sense of misanthropy.
If you are in a bad state now, first of all, don't blame yourself, do sports in the morning and evening, run, play ball, and regularize your daily life.
Again, spring is coming, go out for a walk, go to the riverside, go to the park, feel the sunshine and vitality of spring, try to contact with others, try to feel everything in nature, the sound of wind, rain, flowers, flowers, sunrise, sunset.
Do something that interests you and share your happiness and unhappiness with those close to you.
Don't indulge in your own gray state of mind, don't enjoy this despair alone, drown yourself.
In fact, life has many facets, and it is not perfect, maybe you happen to see its ugly side, but it still has many beautiful sides to be discovered.
Try to use your eyes, ears, nose, tongue, hands and heart to feel concretely, and less to think abstractly about your brain, the world is in front of you, we live around us, and the world in our brain is wrong.
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Yes Give him hope again!
Take him to counseling.
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Of course there is a way! What is the method of despair? If it is a short-term despair with a specific reason, then find someone to communicate more, if there are other interests, you can transfer your energy to interests, and wait for the desperate things to pass.
The key is self-regulation. If you are desperate for no reason for a long time or are easily pessimistic and depressed, or even have suicidal thoughts, it is a manifestation of depression, see a doctor. If the doctor doesn't see well, I recommend trusting Jesus, I used to be severely depressed, desperate for life, and thought about jumping off a building to solve the problem.
Later, I went to a psychiatrist for a test, and the doctor said that I had a high score of "paranoia", and I asked her what to do. She said that this can't be changed, it's innate. I wanted to flatten her.
Later, Jesus healed. When Jesus was on earth, he healed many people of sickness and gave people hope. He still heals the sick.
Depression is a stubborn disease, but it was the least disease with Jesus. Later, I didn't even take the medicine, I didn't have a ** for 5 years, and now I am desperate and I am not happy, because I feel that there are still many things to do in life, and life can only grow when I encounter problems. The experience of depression has made me more considerate than the average person.
Experiencing despair is not a bad thing. Every crisis represents an opportunity to face and solve, or you can choose to continue to drill the corner.
Of course, there are different types of despair, I was desperate at the time, but I still wanted to solve the problem of despair. If you want to solve it, there is always a way.
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Find him someone more desperate.
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Summary. It is not easy to save a desperate person, and it is already rare to give support and companionship, and you need to be very patient and encourage the other person to come out.
It is not easy to save a desperate person, and it is already rare to give support and companionship, and you need to be very patient and encourage the other person to come out.
If it's a difficult situation, you need to get professional help.
After a cerebral hemorrhage, I lost confidence in life, but I recovered well, but my mood was low for a while.
It's normal to feel depressed after a serious illness, depending on how long the situation lasts.
I didn't eat well, I didn't cooperate, and I had been doing it for more than 20 days.
He needs to be patiently encouraged by his family and friends, describing to him that his future life is good, and helping him build confidence.
It was hospitalized for more than 20 days, and I was awake a few days ago, and that's it.
First of all, the emotions of the family should be well controlled, so as to give the patient a positive and optimistic influence. Then you can chat with you and watch the relaxing episodes to distract yourself.
Consult the doctor for professional experience, they have taken over a lot of patients, and they must know that there will be cases of non-cooperation, and ask which orange oak will be more appropriate to deal with the same situation.
The family must have positive emotions and give energy to the patient.
Thank you [Bixin].
You're welcome, I hope it helps.
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Maybe I said that he was desperate for life, and he didn't agree with it, after all, he didn't say the word despair from beginning to end, but his various behaviors made me feel a little desperate for him.
This friend has an average education, a very good character, but the idea is very simple, belongs to the type that is easy to be deceived, the first to work as a bellman in the hotel, and later resigned, he has done some things one after another, rented a storefront, sold things, ran Didi, but none of them he persevered, none of them made him make money, he never thought or reflected in the process, and in the process to change and progress, he naively had a heart to be a boss, But his naïve boss is the kind who opens the shop and hires people to do the work, and he doesn't worry about anything.
Later, he really didn't know what to do in China, so he went to Thailand, where he made a little money by exchanging foreign currency, and his life could go on, he liked the climate in Thailand very much, and the consumption was also very low.
I had to go back to China again, and I returned to China for a few months, sleeping and playing games every day, and my body was getting worse and worse, I didn't exercise, I got fatter and fatter, I was wheezing when I walked, and I didn't plan to look for a job, and Didi didn't want to open it anymore, and I was used to the money I earned in Thailand, and I didn't want to do it for those who worked hard to make money.
If people don't work all the time, don't think, and the response is getting more and more sluggish, I don't see the kind of want to change in him, the epidemic has affected many people, and many people will also want to do a side hustle, he doesn't have this idea, he is in his thirties, he wants to wait for the epidemic to end and then return to Thailand, I said then what are you going to do in Thailand? Yes pension.
I was a little disappointed in him, but also felt very sad, I have known him for many years, and every time I see him again, I feel in my heart: still nothing has changed......once said that he wanted to change his attitude towards life, but he ended up in vain.
It may also be that he is stupid in the process of growing up, the pampering of his family, the lack of education, and other reasons, which have created this lazy, no ambition, no sense of responsibility for life and family, and not brave now, of course, I am just judging my own values, although I shouldn't, but I still hope that he can be a little more positive, more closed to think and grow, I hope he can be ruthless to himself, to be a man who stands up to the sky.
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If you try to think about the people who love you that you are reluctant to do, fight for each other, and make progress step by step, you will feel that life is very rich, and there are so many things to work on yourself. Hope to adopt.
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Life is full of noise and turmoil, but I can't find a little meaning, but life is beautiful, think about some happy things, some important people, love, friendship, family affection, they are all very close to you, people have a destiny, but people's destiny is in their own hands, when we encounter difficulties on the road of life, always remember that the greatest word in this world is self-confidence, life is in the hands of people, because people are the main body of life, I hope my answer can make you happy, because I have also been troubled, I want to help more people
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If you can, you can travel to other cities. If you don't have the conditions, go on an outing in a place with better air. The purpose is to change the environment and change the mood.
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If the external factors cause people to despair of life and feel unwell for no reason, it may be suffering from psychosomatic diseases. See your doctor before it's too late!
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First of all, you have to be calm, there is something more unlucky than yourself, not in debt, what can't you get by. If it were me, I would do more of what I thought was right, and life would really be more than what was right in front of me.
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Forget about it and start anew.
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Find a small corner and secretly shed all the unpleasant tears! Don't let others see it, so you will appear incompetent in the eyes of others! We don't live for ourselves, because everyone lives to prove their abilities to others, so we have to live in someone else's world with a smile!
And the tears can only be gently wiped away at the moment of turning back!
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Let yourself fall. Find a spiritual sustenance to keep yourself alive.
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Life is not only about what is in front of you, but also about poetry and distance.
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First, help him adjust his mentality and talk to him. If you lose hope in life, you need someone to care about and comfort you at this time, and he can tell you the depression in his heart, and you have to help him sort it out or make suggestions. In short, you have to work hard to convince him that life is still colorful, full of hope, and that there is no endless road, and that the difficulties that cannot be solved by this method can be solved by another method, as long as there is hope in your heart, life will never give up on you.
Second, let him read some positive books or books that can relax, so that he can find that life is full of hope. Books can teach us a lot, read an autobiographical book, experience the difficulties in the author's life, and he will find that the difficulties in his life are simply not worth mentioning, so that he will have the courage to solve or accept the result that has made him lose hope.
Third, accompany him to the wilderness to relax, and if he resists this, try to pull him out for a walk, and don't leave him alone. A person who has lost hope in life is prone to crankiness when he is alone, which can make the situation worse, so at this time you should take him outside to get in touch with something new to him so that his attention will be diverted. At the same time, when he comes into contact with new things, he will find that life is still fun, and hope for life will follow.
Fourth, you can accompany him to vent, and the lack of hope for life is mostly something that makes him extremely sad. You can accompany him to shout songs, to the mountains or to open spaces and shout out. After the unhappiness in his heart is vented, he will become rational, and he may begin to treat life well.
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In life, each of us has something that we think is very important, some people think that money is important, some people think that the two of us are important, and some people think that their persistent research is the most important, in fact, for everyone, life is the most important.
For this kind of person, there are many solutions, you can go out for a walk, you can travel, go out to play for a few days, go home when you are tired, in fact, the world is full of love, he just didn't find it, you can also communicate with others more, open your heart, maybe, you say and talk, your heart knot will be opened, friends can sometimes solve a lot of your problems, you have to believe in your friends.
If you don't abandon life, life won't abandon you, face life optimistically, when you face life with a smile, life will also face you with a smile! In fact, we live very happily, we are now living in an era of peace, unlike the previous War of Resistance Against Japan, nor like the Iraq War a few years ago, people are living in dire straits, the world of war is the most cruel, you live in an era of peace, what is there to be no hope, you should feel lucky, smile at life, life will return you with a smile.
Of course, the premise is that you don't commit suicide, think more about the beauty of life, don't get old and think about those troubles, live well, live to struggle, there will be everything!
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I would show him a picture of Heidi's story, and I would be inspired to see those who were disabled and determined but still kept trying.
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If you want to save a person who has no hope in life, you can find a suitable time to communicate with her well, tell her something meaningful in life, enlighten her a lot, and naturally she will have hope for life.
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Tell him that life is very good, why is it so gloomy, you still have your parents, do what you want, don't do things that you will regret for the rest of your life, come on, a good life is created by yourself.
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Words must hit their hearts, they just want to be understood, think from their point of view, and tell them that no matter what the outcome is, we will support them.
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You can take him out to see the world more, talk to him, and let him know that society is beautiful.
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If there is no hope, then give him responsibility and let him live for responsibility.
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