What should I do with a few roommates who I like and hate?

Whoever is around will have a few roommates who people like and hate. In fact, everyone's attitude towards others is love and hate, after all, no one is perfect. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, you may like him very much, but there is another point about him that you can't look down on, which is a very normal thing!

For the roommates who make you love and hate these things, of course you accept them well. I must forgive them for the bad things they have done, and don't be too angry with them. Because even the best of his personality will have times when he does things that make you unhappy.

Not only do they have this problem, but you also have this problem. Everyone has shortcomings, and we can't say that we can change the shortcomings of others and make them more perfect. I can only say that I have changed my attitude, and then I can be more tolerant and considerate of these mistakes of theirs.

Treat your roommates well no matter what, because they are your closest friends in your study life. Each dormitory is a small group, and we live in this small group and spend the longest time together. We go to school and eat together, eat and sleep together, they are the people you know best, and you are the people they know best, so you are a family.

Each other's temperament is also the most familiar.

When faced with things that make you seem disgusting and annoying, be sure to go. Slowly let go, even if sometimes you may be angry and feel that you have no way to forgive them, but as time goes by, you will slowly forget these things, forget those unpleasantness, and think of those beautiful and warmest memories.

They all say that roommates are magical creatures, and that's not wrong at all. Because of the long-term expectation with roommates, it is easy to cultivate feelings between each other every day, but at the same time, it is easy to have contradictions, so it leads to "love and hate" for roommates, both like and hate.

I think that in the face of this situation, I should remind myself to discover more of the strengths of my roommates and try to ignore the shortcomings of my roommates. "No one is perfect", each of us is not a perfect person, and it is normal to have some small shortcomings. At this time, we should try to tolerate him and think about it, because we must also have some shortcomings that others are not used to.

Of course, if you really can't stand the other person's shortcomings, you can talk to him about it. After all, not everyone is self-aware, and he may not be aware that he is bothering you for some reason. However, you must pay attention to the tone of your voice when you talk to him, so as not to hurt the harmony.

There is also a situation where everyone is actually right, but because everyone comes from different places and has their own living habits, there are disagreements on some issues or practices, and if this is the case, we should tolerate and understand each other, and it is not wise to hate others just because of this.

Rely on your parents at home, rely on your friends when you go out", when we were at school, our roommates were our most important friends, and it was also a rare fate for everyone to go to school together and become roommates, so we still have to cherish this relationship.

I think it's a kind of fate for you, whether you hate it or like it. In the face of them, you just need to be calm and keep a heart of your own, remember, suffering is a blessing, don't just look at some small things in front of you, there will be rewards in the future. If possible, you should also try to promote their relationship with each other, you can live together, this is all fate, there will never be such an opportunity in the future, unless there is a particularly annoying roommate who repeats the teaching (basically rare), and the other roommates will eventually become good brothers, good buddies.

When you grow up and get married, and your roommate travels thousands of miles to attend your wedding, you will be very emotional, really.

Be close when you like it, keep your distance when you don't like it. Just look at the face with joy and anger, and give them the color.

If you can still like it, it's not too much, at most, there are some disagreements, just seek common ground while reserving differences.