Cowardly courage, the difference between cowardice and bravery

Self-confidence is not something that others can give, let alone the person you love. Only you can truly make yourself confident.

Enough to move yourself with a lifetime of emotion, and the person you love is not necessarily as touched as you.

Love is giving, but giving does not mean that you can get love back. Love is not taking, even if your love is scarred and grief-stricken. The other party may just smile indifferently.

Sometimes love is your own business, and the person who feels your love may not understand you.

People who have you in their hearts will not say to you"Whoever leaves can live"Such words (unless they are noisy).

Anyone can get out of the whirlpool of love, although those who are already in it don't believe it. But there will always be a day to get rid of the pain and trouble, because the road continues under our feet

The sorrow of love embellishes the gloom of life, and when you are asleep and you miss her silently, her dreams must be warm, because someone is watching

Those who are guarded are happy, and those who are guarded are equally happy.

The explanation of courage is not to be afraid of danger and difficulties, and to have courage. And the explanation of cowardice is weakness, not being strong. From the literal interpretation, we can understand the literal meaning of bravery and cowardice. However, it is a bit complicated to express their outward behavior in real life.

Walking on the crowded street, sitting on a crowded bus, or leisurely wandering around the mall, we inadvertently found a three-handed, and then we could bravely stand up and grab her. Bravery at this time will be praised and praised. However, when we have a little friction and misunderstanding with others, our bravery needs to be put away.

But in the eyes of some people, the bravery that is put away at this moment is cowardice. Do you think it's cowardly to take a bird? I'll give you an example and you'll understand.

One night, a beautiful girl and her beloved boyfriend are dating at the market, and when they walk to the door of a restaurant, they meet a few people who have just had a full meal and don't seem very friendly, and they inadvertently collide. The attentive boyfriend hurriedly protected his beloved girlfriend and dodged it, saying that it was too late and that it was fast, but he still bumped into it, and the boy hurriedly apologized to those people, but those people were not ordinary kind people, they did not give up in the anesthesia of alcohol, and said some words to the girl that could not be heard. The boy was not optimistic about the situation at this time, so he hurriedly apologized and pulled the girl away.

But for some reason, the girl at this time suddenly shook off the boy's hand, and said to the boy angrily, "Look at why you are so cowardly now, and it's not our fault, why do you apologize, and they are still humiliating me, why don't you dare to say anything." How can you be such a cowardly person, then how can I expect you to take care of me when I am with you! The girl finished what she said in one breath.

These words are nothing in the eyes of ordinary people, but in the heart of this boy who likes her, it is different. The boy felt very faceless, he was not able to protect his beloved, in the catalysis of this thought, the boy rose up and quarreled with those few people, how could the quarrel between men simply move their mouths, it was self-evident that they did it, but when they did it, no one paid attention, one of those drunk people had a knife. The boy was stabbed and fell to the ground at that moment.

At this time, everyone was dumbfounded, and those few people who were not kind people woke up in an instant, saw that they were in trouble, and quickly fled the scene as soon as possible. In **, only the brave boy who fell in a pool of blood and a girl who was in heart-rending pain were left. What kind of mood will the girl be at this time!

At this time, the bravery in her eyes ruined a powerful life, and even destroyed a happy family.

This bravery, not the other's bravery, this cowardice and not the other's cowardice!

Why cowardice.

Some people are cowardly, and most are unwilling to be cowardly.

Cowardice is only a means for them to maintain harmonious interpersonal relationships, because they do not know how to adopt other methods to maintain interpersonal relationships, so they can only be cowardly. Illustrate that some people have few means to deal with interpersonal relationships, lack of experience, or habits when they were young.

Cowardice is a way to quench thirst and is not advocated.

We know why we are cowardly, and understanding it correctly is also a way to alleviate it, so that the heart will feel a little better.

What to do if cowardly:

1. Solve your own problems by yourself, and others can't help you.

Recognize your ultimate goal, whether you want to suppress yourself in the end for harmony (no conflict), or express yourself by strengthening yourself, you should choose clearly, if harmony is the ultimate goal, then you will endure repression and cowardice. If you want to be strong, you choose to express yourself. The average person is not interested in not being able to avoid conflict.

Second, if you choose a good target that is not cowardly, you must be prepared for it.

1) Correctly express your needs.

Express your true thoughts, don't hold it in your stomach.

2) Deal with things and not people, deal with them rationally, and have nothing to do with feelings and intimate relationships.

When expressing, you must talk about things, think about things rationally, say anything, don't connect with feelings, and make things clear.

3. Don't get emotional.

I am very cowardly, and then I use my feelings to deal with things, isn't it that I can't get along with myself.

Fourth, when dealing with things, it depends on who the other party is.

If the other party is a civilized person, we will talk about things, and if the other party is a barbarian, we should not maintain interpersonal relations with him, have less contact, and flee from the main thing. The other party is not a person, we go immediately and do not entangle with it.

I think the biggest difference between cowardice and bravery is whether or not you dare to take the consequences of your actions, and bravery is a human virtue that everyone wants to get but not all of them can get. Cowardice is the mirror of bravery, it makes bravery seem greater, and it is laughed at and ridiculed by the tide. Courage is a blazing fire, which can temper iron shoulders, steel arms, unbending backbones and unyielding character.

Having a strong body is not the same as being brave, and being weak does not mean being cowardly. The sturdy physique may be just a phantom projected by the slide projector, and what is left behind after cutting off the power may be only a small page of film. And the weak wind may just be its appearance, and a small mole cricket can also destroy the 10,000-mile causeway?

Cowards like to find a smooth path, and in the limited growth rings, they are always choosing comfort and ease; The brave like to climb one peak after another, to challenge one limit after another. In the face of the brave, all difficulties will be solved; In the face of cowards, even a small difficulty will build an impregnable fortress. Difficulties and dangers are tests of bravery, and the answers will test the great and the small, the holy and the dirty.

The brave sometimes face many unexpected difficulties and dangers, and success always favors the brave. The life of a coward may be long, but his life is only like a meteor in the sky, lonely and silent; The life of a brave man may be short, but like a thunder in spring, he will surely shake the whole earth and erect an immortal monument in the hearts of people.