What should you do if your parents don t agree with the person you like, and you don t like the pers

As long as there is nothing wrong with the person you like.

Then grind slowly

There's just a couple next to me who are in a situation with you.

After grinding for a year, finally his mother said, you call your girlfriend to come over for dinner The future is bright.

As long as your cousin quarrels with your mother over this.

It's easy to leave a bad feeling in your mother's heart for your girlfriend

Don't doubt that your parents are not the ones who will accompany you for a lifetime, and if you like it, you will be together, but it doesn't mean that you don't need to support your parents, if the person you love is really worthy of your love, then make a decision If the person is good, the parents will not strongly oppose it, if the character is really bad, you will listen to your parents, otherwise you will be very hurt! ~

First of all, I really look at the character of the person I like!

After all, my parents have more experience than me, and if they think they have a bad character, I may listen to them!

But if I like him a lot, I have faith in his person!

I will let him have more contact with my parents, and after a long time, I will naturally accept him slowly!

Of course, I also need him to cherish me and be willing to work hard for me!

Didn't have an idea of their own. Then you are destined to be at the mercy of others. No regrets on the road, no. There is only the way to make up your own mind.

Connected by the same name? What to do I want to ask too.

Stick to my girlfriend on my mind.

I'm getting ready to go out with my girlfriend right now.

Just have fun together.

We just want food.

We want to be together...

Everyone has their own ambitions.

Use your own ideas in everything you do.

It's not good to listen to other people's everything.

What is the journey of a person in this life?

Isn't it just the emotional family.

I hope you're with your girlfriend...

I wish you all happiness!! Hee-hee......

The opinions of parents should be taken into account, but marriage is a lifelong thing, and you still have to think carefully about how to live with someone you don't love.

To put it harshly. Are you getting married because your parents are getting married?

Of course, you have to choose what you like. Now the times are still talking about being right and feudal enough.

Choose what you really like. No compromise!

Like and the other person should be worthy of your liking.

In the TV series, many sadomasochistic relationships occur due to the opposition of parents. Chinese parents are no different from foreign parents, and they all want their children to find a partner according to their vision. In life, we also have the situation of "I like the person I like, my parents don't like".

If you don't want to listen to them and don't want to break their hearts, how do we deal with too much parental interference? This requires us to first understand why parents do this?

01 I don't trust you.

Too much parental interference in their children is often due to mistrust. In their eyes, you are still the baby who has not grown up, and they do not believe that you will make the right judgment. So we first have to gain the trust of our parents.

Whenever parents nag their children, some people will say, "I know, you don't care about me, I can memorize whatever you have to say." This is counterproductive because parents will think that you don't understand at all and that you are just impatient.

They will find an opportunity to talk to you again in the future, or in another way.

So the right thing to do is to take the initiative to communicate with your parents, let them know what you think, and let them give their opinions. You can listen to their opinions or not, and this is mainly done to put them at ease.

02 Too much control.

Some parents especially want their children to be obedient, and once you start to be disobedient, they will think you are rebellious and then adopt a tougher attitude to make you obedient. You have no say at all at home, you can only be "at the mercy of others". If you want to change this, you have to be anti-customer-oriented.

For a long time, you may have been a "guest" at home, always enjoying the care of the "Lord". Then you have to be obedient. Some people enjoy their parents' food and housing, but they complain that their parents take care of everything.

We can't impose double standards on parents, so you either have to be a good baby or be truly independent.

To oppose the guest is to do more "master" obligations and enjoy less "guest" rights. If you want to have a say at home, then later you come to cook, you clean up the house, you go to do the laundry.

Once your parents enjoy your all-round care, they will become "guests" and will naturally let you be the "master". The more they rely on you, the less control they have over you because you make them feel like you've grown up. These chores also need to be done by you after you get married, so you have to learn to take care of yourself and your parents before you get married.

Practical example: I have a 28-year-old female client who wants to marry a boy who is three years younger than her. But her parents were adamantly against it, because they felt that the boy was young, immature, and in a mediocre family.

Although he is a civil servant, his salary is not high, and he is not worthy of their girl at all.

Her parents approached me first, hoping that I could use psychological techniques to persuade their daughter not to marry the boy. But a psychological counselor is not a thug, how can he take the lead for his parents? We will only consider the interests of the visitor, and this time the girl is the visitor, so I will only respect the girl's thoughts.

1. Use children as a tool to vent: Some parents just use their children as a tool for their own venting, and when they encounter problems in life or work, they will beat their children and use their children as a tool to be angry, such people are not worthy of being parents.

2. I don't care about you at all: Some children are the ornaments of their parents, and they don't care about them at all, whether it's academic, physical, or even life.

3. It will only hit you: Such parents will only hit you since childhood, no matter what you do well or not, they will only belittle you, and what children need most is praise and encouragement, otherwise the blow will only make the child inferior.

4. There is eccentricity: some families will have several children, but parents will be partial to one of them, only like their son or only like their daughter, and the other is like picking up, and the huge eccentricity will make the child have a psychological shadow.

5. The expectations for you are too high: After becoming parents, many people hope that their children will become dragons and phoenixes, and they will be able to have a future and have great hopes for their children, but often this time is counterproductive, so parents will be very disappointed in their children.

6. Annoyed when they see you: Many parents get along with their children, and they become very annoying when they don't get along with their children, they are annoyed when they see their children, and they don't like to play with their children, and they don't like to communicate with their children, and the children are a trouble for them.

7. You must listen to your parents: Many parents think that their children should listen to their own words, and they will not take into account their children's feelings and thoughts at all, even if they do not do it right, they will make their children think that they are right.

8. Never feel sorry for you: Other people's parents are very sorry for their children and don't want their children to suffer a little grievance, but some parents don't feel sorry for their children, and their hearts are very cold-blooded, just like children are not their biological flesh and blood.

9. You can abandon you at will: Some parents don't have children at all in their eyes, they regard themselves as the most important, and they will even abandon them and leave them when they don't need them, they are selfish, they only love themselves and don't love their children.

10. Don't care about your feelings: Children will have their own strange ideas when they grow up, but some parents don't care about their children's thoughts at all, and will only go their own way and ignore their children's feelings.

There must be a reason why parents don't like you.

It is true that after the child is born, the parents treat the child as if it were an outsider, and it is very sad that this situation occurs. Some of this situation occurs because the child is disobedient, makes his own decisions about anything, and will not respect his elders, and the parents of such children will definitely not like it. The other is that there are several children in the family, and the parents are partial.

I think that no matter what, parents are the dearest, and parents' attitude towards their children is largely because of their children's problems, so as a junior, we must summarize the reasons well, and do not have to give up our efforts.

Children's words and deeds will leave a deep impression on their parents, so you must study hard, improve your quality, and let your parents see that your future is promising. Both parents want their sons to become dragons. If you work hard and have hope, your parents will definitely love you.

Have you ever thought about talking to your parents and directly saying what you think, maybe your parents didn't realize that what they were doing hurt you. Sometimes parents are good for you but the way of expressing it is not quite right, not everyone understands how to be parents, you can try to communicate, if possible to do psychological counseling together to find a professional psychological counselor to try.

Relationship problems will always be a big problem in life. As the saying goes, the words of the parents' matchmaker, since ancient times, the consent of the parents has to be used to talk about marriage, and now with the development of the times, from the ancient baby relatives, fixed marriage, to the present, free love has become more extensive. But many times, parents will not be satisfied with your boyfriend or girlfriend, it may be for various reasons, because of family conditions, location, work, material, appearance, etc.

If that person is worthy of my love, then I will insist, after all, the future life is my own, and if I am with someone I don't love, life is really hopeless.

You and he love each other, you actually love this person, your worldview, outlook on life, and values are consistent, you are very happy together, you have common interests and hobbies, and you have common topics. You will work together, live together, work together, for your love, do the same work together, how much you love each other, only you know each other, suitable or not, only you know, although your parents are from their point of view to look at your feelings, from the perspective of the people who have come before, I hope you live happily and will not suffer too much, so they will stop you. But if you are willing to bear it together, no matter what happens later, bear it together and work together, everything will be fine, so be sure to stick to it.

It is not easy for two people to fall in love, the vast sea of people meet each other, know each other and then love each other, if you are sure that each other is the person you want, you must cherish it.

It doesn't matter if your parents don't agree, you have to prove to them that you love each other, that you are willing to bear it together, and that you have to convince your parents with actions. If you love, you will definitely be together and you will be happy. In the end, you will also receive the blessings of those you meet.

I wish a lover a family member.

I won't continue to insist on it, because if my parents don't agree, it means that there is a reason, and my parents are also from the past.

I won't insist because my parents have been through a lot of things, and he feels that this person may not be very suitable for me.

I will choose to continue, because my feelings are the most important, and I will choose to communicate with my parents at this time.

If the other party's parents don't like you, it will be very difficult, and it will not be possible to reach the level of loss they like in a short period of time.

Egg.

Although in modern society, we control the power of marriage, you can choose your other half, and you don't need to be approved by your parents to get married, as long as you want to, but Jingdu, no matter when, parents are likely to become a hurdle on the road for the two of you to step into the marriage hall.

Whether it is a man or a woman, our parents are the people we care about the most, and if it is not a last resort, we do not want to disobey our parents, make them unhappy, and bear the infamy of unfilial piety. In addition, when our parents oppose our marriage, we will also murmur in our hearts, thinking that maybe it is really our own considerations. What should you do if the man's parents make it clear that they don't like you?

Is it to pin hope on a man, as long as the man insists on marrying you, there is hope, and there is no need to care about the attitude of his parents? Or do you turn around and leave, and don't give him a chance to humiliate you? If a man's parents refuse to accept you as their daughter-in-law from the beginning, even if you reluctantly marry, it will be difficult to get their approval.

Therefore, if the other party's parents really can't accept you, you still don't humiliate yourself in the group draft.

Parents don't like you, will you choose to continue? In what case, how do parents choose you? If the parents who are looking for a boyfriend don't like you, congratulations, such a marriage will not last long, and it will not be happy, Green's point of view is to leave as soon as possible.