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There will be people who want it Because of the current social trend, urban girls are generally pampered Not to mention doing housework I don't even know how to care about others I think I am the pearl of the family Outsiders have to let her This year, instead of finding a beautiful vase at home It is better to find someone who can live a life in general So don't discriminate because it is rural So don't be inferior in the countryside But the premise is that you can communicate normally with each other and each other's parents, if you can't understand the dialect, it's troublesome.
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You can ask for it, and if it's not good, return it.
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Don't, as the saying goes, the good soil buns are not made when they bloom.
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Whatever, my boyfriend is still a part-time worker from the countryside
And I can be right in the city
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It's not always possible to find a girl who can endure hardship.
If you like to go with the flow.
It is recommended that you look for it.
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How can the people on the third floor say that, don't overturn a boatload of people with one shot. Girls in the countryside are very nice. I'll ask for it. Do you love her.
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What happened to the rural girl? Aren't rural girls human?
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A long, long time ago, you were also a rural person, and people should not forget their roots.
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What's wrong with the countryside! Look what you think about this!~
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It's all the same, and it's okay to fit.
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What era is it? Don't be so vulgar in your vision, your girls in the city are not necessarily good, and the rural ones are not necessarily bad, the vision is better, the appearance is not important, just have connotation, and anyone will want it if there is connotation!
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Specific problems are analyzed on a case-by-case basis.
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The response is so enthusiastic, don't look down on yourself, there's nothing you can't do, who's worse than whom.
Strengthen your self-cultivation The city is much better, but the starting point is a little higher.
Try to catch up with them.
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Doesn't matter. It's up to you to decide what to ask for it. When it comes to love, other people's words can only be used as advice.
I'm tired.
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Relatives in the countryside are not easy to deal with.
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If you really love her, why should you mind where the other person comes from?
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Yes, isn't it rural! True love doesn't care about that.
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Is it love that cares about identity?
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Absolutely. The rural ones are better. There is no vanity of urban girls at all.
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As long as it is what I like, no matter what my status, status, or family conditions are, I will want it.
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See if the man has the strength If the south thinks he can afford to give her happiness, of course they want to be together.
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Yes, but very little.
With the development of society, many rural people now go to the city because they go to university, and many people stay in the city after graduation, and want to take root and settle down in the city through their own efforts, which is a very long and difficult road. Therefore, after finishing school, many rural boys still return to their hometowns, find a job, buy a house at home or in the county, marry a wife and have children, and live a very happy life. But many people still want to stay in the city, for a few men with strong ability, they can also buy a house and a car if they stay, but they will undoubtedly become a house slave for life; And for some rural girls, maybe it can be much faster, if you find a city object, everything will be owned naturally, but the imagination is very beautiful, the reality is very cruel, generally speaking, people in the city will rarely find a rural girl to fall in love, and for such a thing as marriage, it is even rarer.
Why are people in the cities reluctant to marry people in the countryside? The primary reason is that "the door is not right, the door is wrong". Since ancient times, the conditions of "the right family" have been known and handed down, and they are still applicable in modern marriage, although the current "door to the door" is generally about the spiritual level, but the economic foundation determines the superstructure, if the economic conditions of the family are not good, then the children who grow up in such an environment will not be very rich in spiritual level.
And marriage is not a matter of two people, it is related to two families, even if men and women want to be together, they still need to face the test of their parents, this hurdle cannot be passed, and it is difficult to get married.
Moreover, the cultivation of rural people is lower than that of urban people. As mentioned above, "the economic base determines the superstructure", people living in cities receive education and living in a different environment than rural people from an early age. It is true that rural people will also study well and be admitted to prestigious schools through their own efforts, but only in terms of learning, in terms of seeing the world and speaking, compared with children in the city, they will still be much inferior.
Because of the difference in living environment and education, there will be a big difference from an early age, when children in rural areas are still playing with mud, when they are ashamed to see people, the children of rich families in the city already know more than one language, civilized and polite language is open-mouthed, and they are comfortable in dealing with people and things, this is the difference, which cannot be denied.
Finally, rural people have more relatives and complicated family relationships. For rural people, great importance is attached to the relationship between relatives, because there are many differences between urban and rural people in terms of living environment, ideological differences, and living habits. Although when the two people first got together, because the relationship was better, they could accept these, but this is a lifelong thing, and the lack of a book always has to be considered clearly.
These are all objective existences, and there is no messy relationship with looking down on and disliking, and there is a gap between people, which is a social law.
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In the final analysis, this does not divide women into rural and urban.
This has to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis.
There are also rural people who are still very frugal, very simple, and very housekeeping.
But there are also rural people who go to the city and are confused.
On the contrary, there are also urban women who will run the house.
You have to look at the process of your current relationship with that person.
Just look at the details.
Let's talk about KFC, I think she still wants to go in her heart, but you can't just say that she's extravagant and wasteful.
We'll have to see more about it later.
You say she's naïve, but it's more complicated than some women, and I think it's better to choose the naïve one, who doesn't wear makeup, doesn't buy clothes, and goes home after work, isn't this the type of good wife and mother, why do you think it's a shortcoming.
Treat people in general, so how do you think a woman should get along with others, be calm in everything, and learn to think about others? Don't you think this kind of girl is too complicated?
You can't be happy with a woman who is too smart.
None of the points you mentioned are shortcomings in my opinion.
Maybe it's a small advantage in today's society.
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We are not discriminating against rural people, and I can tell you clearly, if you are not from the countryside, don't marry a rural daughter-in-law.
1 Even if you have different values, even if you are the same, marriage is not a matter of the two of you, but of two families, and you can't talk about it, believe me.
2 Marriage belongs to the two of you, so if you say that, is life more interesting to marry a like-minded friend-type wife, what do you have to be like-minded with her?
3 The most important point is that the consciousness of the rural daughter-in-law will tell you what it means to stand between the mother and the wife in the future.
My mother is from the countryside, and my brother is also from the countryside now looking for a daughter-in-law.
My mother and my grandmother, my mother and my brother and daughter-in-law, these three generations of chaos, I don't like to go back to my parents' house now, it's messy, it seems to me that it's all trivial, it's really tangled. And my brother and daughter-in-law are college students who have gone out of the countryside. This really has nothing to do with the diploma, people's temperament is stereotyped in the first ten years of birth, if you don't believe it, try it at home, now my mother and I are talking about my grandmother's fault, and talking about the problems between her and her daughter-in-law, and my younger siblings doing those things that should not be done by college students, it really makes me speechless, quality, it really has nothing to do with how much culture.
Landlord, trust me.
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First of all, you have to look at the character, you have to at least find a person who is at least kind and kind, and comes for your people, and secondly, see if you really have feelings for her, try to date for a period of time to see if the two sides are compatible in all aspects Moreover, if you have in-depth plans or marriage, consult your parents, objectively, don't be carried away by feelings, and don't be too stupid.
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Now that you've thought about it so much, do you feel the need to continue to develop, if you're going to be nice to someone, then you can't worry so much before you start, and if it's like this now, then you're really together, and there's more to do, and it's even worse if you have some contradictions at that time.
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It varies from person to person Don't slap them all to death My feeling Whether it's urban or rural, there are excellent people If you are reluctant to marry a rural girl, don't chase it at all, you will ruin people First of all, you have to figure out if you like him or just want to find a babysitter From what you can see from your KFC This girl is very introverted and wants to be alone with you.
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Brother, don't be angry, I don't think you're very lucky, the kind of girl you met above is not just in the countryside. I think if you think that's the case, if you still have any considerations, it's okay to divide it directly.
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It's up to the person.
However, in many cases, the quality of girls in the countryside is not as good as that of girls in the city.
But the essence of the bottom of my heart I believe is that the girls in the city can't compare.
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I can understand your feelings, if you think that girl will really like you, she will change for you, now most women, only men are sincere to her, she will also lie down for you!
At least that's what I think.
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Love him and don't care about anything else, although it is very unrealistic, but it is very real, your own thoughts are the most important, the ones you get from the Internet, as long as you love him, even if you really have, you will know whether it is worth it or not.
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You've got so many thoughts before you chase her.
You've got so many thoughts before you catch her.
Even if you're together, it won't be long.
Even if you get married together, you won't be much happy.
It's unspeakably unpleasant to be with someone like you.
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Don't talk nonsense, just look down on rural girls, rural people are very simple, not as realistic as urban people, so powerful, if you are an urban person, have a house, a car, and a job, do you still bother your girlfriend? Consider your own internal causes.
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Hehe, if you like it, you can do it.
Love can always cross something else.
If you still hate him, then you should be a bear
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Do you want to look at yourself Why do you care so much if you like a person As a man, do you need a woman to be rich
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This depends on the person, there is no such absolute thing, let's analyze the specific situation on a case-by-case basis!
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Now that you've found the answers, why ask.
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Extremely contemptuous of the landlord and your posts. Nothing else to say.
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And clothes you can't afford to wear? I don't believe it.
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Thinking too much about it, it would be a dead end to think about it like this.
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Legal analysis: 1. Encourage childbirth: At present, the state is dealing with the problem of singleness, and the point is to encourage childbirth first, especially when there are boys born, girls will also be born, and this can directly greatly reduce the proportion of men and women, and also reduce this proportion as much as possible, so that the actual factor of singleness will become smaller instantly.
2. Launch the program: Of course, some people will also suggest the introduction of some good conditions related to marriage and childbirth, and start from the baby, so that a child can form this concept of marriage from an early age, and let them realize that marriage is a happy life, so that they are willing to grow up and be more willing to get married, and in this way, they can also take the initiative to get rid of the single state.
3. Encouraging policies: Now I have to say that if this situation continues, there will even be bad situations, for example, a family planning can be introduced, and the state will also launch some relevant preferential policies for marriage, and it will also make everyone feel that marriage and childbirth is a good thing, so as to promote everyone's desire to get married, so the country can come up with some better policies to make young people now break off the idea of not wanting to get married.
Legal basis]:
Population and Family Planning Law of the People's Republic of China
Article 23 The State shall give incentives to couples who practice family planning in accordance with regulations.
Article 24 The State shall establish and improve social security systems such as basic old-age insurance, basic medical insurance, maternity insurance, and social welfare, and promote family planning. The State encourages insurance companies to organize insurance programs that are conducive to family planning. Localities with conditions can implement various forms of old-age security measures in rural areas according to the principle of first-class guidance and farmers' voluntariness.
Article 25 Husbands and wives who give birth to children in accordance with the provisions of laws and regulations may receive incentives or other benefits for extended maternity leave.
Article 26: During pregnancy, childbirth, and breastfeeding, women shall enjoy special labor protection and may receive assistance and compensation in accordance with the relevant provisions of the State. Citizens who undergo family planning surgery are entitled to leave as prescribed by the state; Local people are blind and envious of the people** can be rewarded.
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