Why do I have to listen to my parents for everything? 20

Whether or not to obey our parents actually depends on what issues to make decisions After all, we are still young, and we are really not mature enough to think about it, and parents will think about it in the long run, but at this age, there are a few people who really understand that many things have been going on for a long time, and they feel that they should really listen to their parents at that time, and they regret it. Specific analysis of specific problems, for example, what you said This problem is very realistic, and you can talk to them about it Honestly, what you study in college is really related to your future career You think you don't like this major But your parents must learn that they will find you a job in the future, and you have to analyze for yourself whether you like the job they have found for you, and how you will move forward in the future.

Many parents are like this, trying to make their unfulfilled dreams come true to their children, but most of them will fail. So you can talk to your parents about developing your hobbies, and it's best to find a stable job first, and then develop your hobbies, even if your hobby is not successful, you can have a stable job to keep you fed.

Sometimes our parents are good to us, so they will help us arrange everything. But they don't know what we want, they just know to give us the best, whether we want it or not. In fact, parents and children need to communicate, find time for everyone to sit down and have a good chat, tell them what you want and what you want to do, as long as you don't break the law, although they didn't give you an answer at the time, but at least they know what you think, then next time they will ask you in a consultative attitude.

No one is at fault on this issue, parents are all for our good. Parents help us arrange this, in terms of personal growth and experience, not very good, but from another point of view, maybe we can find our own fun in the results that our parents help us choose. Your experience is the same as that of a friend of mine, who also has a university, a major, a job, and even a future marriage, but she uses resistance to deal with them, and the result:

The university and major were all chosen by Ann and them (and I'm still learning pretty well). After graduating, she found a job by herself and a boyfriend by herself, and she chose to make her own decisions only in these two things. Some things are not necessarily chosen, but they are the law of death.

Parents all over the world love their children the same heart, maybe I say that parents are for your good, so you want to listen to them, you may not like this language, but when you also have a father, a mother, do not need too many words and explanations, you will definitely understand the hearts of parents. Try to convince your parents that you have grown up and have the ability to take on some things independently and to make judgments, and that their son (daughter) will not let their parents down. It's like the song "Always Go Home to See".

Parents hope that their children will not necessarily become high-ranking and prominent people, nor will they necessarily become outstanding talents in the world, the important thing is that parents hope that their children can be safe, have a stable job, and have a warm home, even if they are working hard, it is worth paying. Communicate well with your parents, I hope to help you

There is no bad, parents are for the sake of their children, maybe you will hate their arrangements now, but once you enter the society and have your own life, you will thank them, what they let you do is very practical.

First of all, you have to know that your parents love you, they want you to have a good future, and you have to believe that there are many aspects that they know more than you. But the excessive love of our parents can make us feel oppressed and unfree. You can have a good chat with your parents, talk about your heart, and say that you have grown up and need to break out of the world by yourself, and you will never grow up under the care of your parents, and I believe they will understand you.

But be sure not to lose your temper with your parents, they really love you.

You haven't been in jail on the first floor of feelings... I suggest that you put forward your opinions and personal thoughts before your parents want to arrange things for you, before that, you should show that you are growing up, not a doll, you need to respect and acknowledge, your parents arrange the route for you out of responsibility and obligation, but they don't know that what you need to arrange for you is unreasonable and unfair, good or bad depends on your own needs, if your parents arrange you are satisfied, then it is a good thing, but you will lack the understanding of the tribulation of things.

I think you should have your own opinions, you can't just listen to them, you can only take what they say as their advice to you. Always listen to them, it will hinder your future development. You will develop a submissive and unassertive person.

Maybe your parents care about you too much and want to protect you, don't care too much, adults, it's like this.

He should be our parents, and both parents are selfless to their children.

Then do as they say, even if you choose the wrong one, you can blame them, don't you?

Because you have a cowardly or weak personality, you haven't experienced anything since you were a child! There is no rich social experience and the ability to distinguish between right and wrong.