It s tiring to be alive, really tiring. 10

How can people who have not yet come out of society say that they are tired, in school is the most carefree day, in fact, you don't think they hate you, maybe they want you to change your opinion, why can't you go out with them once, the main thing is that you are too protective of yourself, your heart is not open, people can't come in, people, you will have social interaction when you live, you have to communicate with people, what you lack now is to close yourself because of self-confidence, why should you be inferior, in fact, it is mainly your own psychological reasons, people, The biggest enemy is not others, but yourself, the next time they call you, try to go once, maybe, after playing once, your heart will be open, try to know, if you don't try, you will never be able to get out.

Actually, you value your friendship with them too much. It doesn't matter if your friend isn't around, as long as he's still your friend, he'll always be your friend, even if he's not around you, when you need them or something. They're bound to show up. That's what friends are

Friends also need some space of their own, not all the time with you. They also have their own friends. You can try to hang out with them when they go out, maybe your heart will resist this all of a sudden, but you can try, there is always a first time in everything.

Or tell them that you are afraid of losing them, that you want them to be there for you, and apologize to them that you shouldn't have lost your temper. In fact, they may not be angry with you at all, but you are in a bad mood, and they are afraid that you will continue to lose your temper, so they will avoid you. You're just more sensitive now because you care about them too much.

It's okay, smile, it will pass. Friends will understand you. As long as you control your emotions.

Friend, I sympathize with you. Because I had a similar experience to you. There are 7 people in our dormitory, they are all in the same place, they have been together for a year and a half, and they have only been with me for a year.

There are some things that they discussed that I didn't know before, and I was miserable, but what can we do? Open your heart, take the initiative to talk to them, don't make friends if you don't think it's worth making friends, try not to turn your face with friends, after all, you still have a long time to get along with in the future. There are some things, let's take a look down.

Don't take it too seriously.

You are a person who lives in a suit, always hope that people all over the world will revolve around you, treat you as the only offering, no one owes you, friends are divided and combined, and they are suitable for each other to sit as friends, but if they are not suitable to be friends, why do you have to do it, you will always be suspicious of those who want to be friends with you, you will not be very honest with them, only if you open your heart to others will get the corresponding return, in front of friendship you do not pay is nothing to gain, and the friendship that is not earned will not last long.

You're under too much pressure in your heart! There's no need to be like this, why do you want to do so much? Let's open a little bit yourself.

It is true that we may not have been specifically exercised in communication, so there will inevitably be some problems, but you have to believe that most people are still kind, and no one deliberately targets you, but you also have to go out and get along with friends, empathize more, don't always be self-centered, everyone is the same. Also, focus more on studies or hobbies, don't think about these things when you have nothing to do, and communicate more with friends can also enhance your relationship.

It is recommended that you go to see a psychiatrist, there should be a psychological counseling room in the school, it is useless to say this, after all, it still depends on the opinion of a specialist.

Actually, I wondered, you said a lot that they are with other people, not with you, you feel uncomfortable, so why do they invite you to play, why don't you go? What are you worried about?

The road of life is full of vicissitudes! Along the way, everyone has had pain and tears. Fate directs different helplessness to everyone.

Everyone once complained, depressed, and struggled with the pale reality. Sometimes I always think that leaving is the only way to get rid of it, but I have no choice but to worry about it in my heart, so I lose the reason to leave and continue to ...... in embarrassmentThe continuation of life will always make us find that there are countless people who are also entangled! This earth will not stop turning because of the lack of anyone, and no one will stay on the other side of the darkness of the earth forever.

Life ......will be tired, because there is an unbearable experience; Life ......will be tired, because there is an unshirkable responsibility; Life ......You will be tired, because no matter how tired you are, you will continue to do so. There is too much helplessness, so tired ......Tired of ......I wanted to stop......But no, really can't. Tiredness is the same experience for everyone, so learn to tell yourself to be strong and go on.

Learn to bear alone, to give, not to pray for whose to look back. Some roads are destined to be walked alone. Everyone's life is like a play, and the person in the play and the outsider are always just the opposition between him and this, and no one can enter anyone's play.

Always expecting other people's understanding will only disappoint you again and again, put on a strong mask, with this disguised strength, persevere, even if not for yourself, find an excuse to continue, so that you are no longer so confused and hesitant. No one understands, so I humiliate myself to understand them. Without anyone's support, I firmly believe that only I will set foot on the other side of success.

Stop thinking of leaving as the only relief. There is always a sad beauty in silent existence. Keep the tears in your eyes.

The future is always .........I have only gone through 19 years of life, but fate has made me have an embarrassing experience, I was like you, thinking that leaving is a liberation for yourself, but also for the fulfillment of others, but then it is just that I am too selfish, I can give up my happiness and future, but I can't give up the care of being trusted, so even if I am embarrassed, I have to continue to live. We are all the same, abandoned by happiness and left out in the cold, but even so we hold on willfully ......Don't let the platform of life leave only helpless regrets. Let's ......Go on!!!

The more others say about us, the more we should do it for them, let them see what we are capable of, come on, I am smaller than small, but I am not under less pressure than you! Let's encourage each other, 454198105

The best liberation is to live your own life. Don't let yourself be so tired. Smile more.