How to control yourself not to be angry with your boyfriend

I think this problem can be solved through the following three aspects: first, communicate some things in the process of communication in advance; Second: learn to empathize, and consider the other party's feelings when encountering problems; Third:

Learn to respect each other, make big things small, and avoid unnecessary quarrels.

First of all, your boyfriend and you are both intimate and independent. Everyone has different likes and dislikes, in the process of dating, you should communicate more, share your preferences more, if you communicate more, you will understand what you like and what you dislike, so that you can deepen your understanding and intimacy, but also avoid criticizing each other's hobbies. You can communicate in advance to avoid the other party touching the places you don't like in the future, which will cause misunderstandings and troubles.

Secondly, if he insults the painter you like, you first understand whether he is deliberate, if it is unintentional, just remind him appropriately, there is no need to get angry because of this and affect the relationship between you. But if he knows that you like it very much, and still does it, I think you can communicate about it, but don't quarrel or get angry, because it is easy to make the problem worse, and he will think that the painter is more important than him in your eyes, and it is easy to misunderstand.

Finally, think about it, even if he's your boyfriend, you're not going to be very alike. There are things that you have in common, which is an aspect that you think is appropriate, but there will also be some things that you can only experience and feel, and things that you think are good, he may not approve, so try to accept this reality, just like you and your best friend, there must be something that resonates between you, so you will go to a local city together, watch a show that you are willing to watch together, or like the same star.

In short, there will be some people around you, in their opinion, those things you like are very ordinary and even annoying in their eyes, so it seems that your boyfriend doesn't like the painter you like, it is also forgivable, you can communicate with him well, you can share the painter with others, but ask him to respect what you like, respect is mutual, because if he doesn't point out your hobbies, you will also learn to accept his hobbies.

Once something happens.

Take a deep breath first.

Wait until your mood calms down.

Talk to your boyfriend.

Don't control it, let's take a beating and relieve my anger first