Let s talk about whether there will be more and more people who don t get married and don t have chi

In the future, if you don't get married, you won't have children, there must be more and more, not only that, but there will be more and more divorces, because people will worship money more and more, let alone the future, look at the present, what are the standards for finding objects, I have been to many countries, only the values and marriage views of the Chinese are the most distorted, it can also be said to be disgusting.

With the development of the times, there will be more and more people who are unwilling to get married and have children, and society will become more and more tolerant of this phenomenon. After all, people will affect people, and there will be more and more Dink families in the future.

Although there are still many people who urge marriage and birth, I think this kind of phenomenon will become less and less than in the past. There will be more and more people who choose not to get married and Dink, and there will be more and more people who understand, tolerate and even support their choice.

Yes, human attention will inevitably shift from simple reproduction to focusing on one's own life experience and feelings, and the popularity of Dink proves this change. In the future, there may be more newer emotional relationships, and the model of emotional relationships will gradually improve and become more suitable for human emotional needs.

Many young men and women have no way to deal with the relationship between love and marriage, and the overwhelming negative information about marriage has led to the prevalence of this kind of thinking of not getting married and not having children, which has now become a habit and trend, and will be continuously amplified in the future.

This is the inevitability of social development, with the improvement of the quality of the population, there is no feudal society of thought, what to raise children to prevent old age, inheritance, Western developed countries, including Hong Kong, Taiwan, Japan and South Korea, the population is decreasing, raising children is just a way of life, raising children to pay the price is too high, the harvest is too small, people always have to look at the relationship between pay and return.

Not marrying and having children is just a temporary trend of social thought, but our education, the lack of love and marriage system learning, so that many people in marriage can not control the negative emotions in their character, as long as this core problem is solved, everything will be solved, and it will not affect the future.

Of course, because I saw a lot of negative information about getting married and having children, and even when I was in love, I felt that it was too difficult to get along, I had no confidence in the future, and I was full of fear of marriage.

It's not easy to give birth, and it's even harder to raise! Go to the hospital to see, now that the child is developing early and the bone age is advanced, the cost of growth hormone ** is several thousand more! It's still difficult, because there are too many sick children!

The environment is not good, the diet is unhealthy, and retail can be found everywhere. I don't know what I have to pay until I am born, and it is definitely not alarmist.

It is normal to adapt to the law of social development, pursue a perfect life, and not marry or have children! It's not the original deep-rooted era, inoculation and generationalization!

The current marriage law clearly states that the beneficiary is a man, and what a woman pays is not recognized by society, and an unequal marriage treaty will only restrain women and become more and more unwilling to enter marriage! This is the trend of social development!

There will be more and more in the future!

I don't know in the future, but my husband said that he would buy a house for his two daughters, and he didn't want to get married and live by himself in the future.

It's not that I don't get married, if Li Yifeng proposes to me, rich, handsome and rich, why don't I want to, the problem is that my own looks are not good, the conditions are not enough, and I can't get what I want, why should I get married, and I reluctantly seek my own death.

All right! Choose for yourself, love for yourself! It's also good to reduce the population for the society!

It's not that I don't want to get married, I don't want to have children, but I see through it. Now more and more people are getting divorced...

Marriage is not the same as doubling happiness, and regretting marriage is even more regretting having children. Don't tell me about the beauty of this world, and I don't have a share.

I regret having children. It's a pity that there is no regret medicine.

Definitely, men are not good and poor, and girls can't look down on them.

Because "I care about you" more and more.

There is time and money who does not want to have more children and more raising

Hello, I don't think it will become mainstream, but there may be this trend.

The trend of thought of not marrying and having children is only popular among a small number of people in the pseudo-middle class (people who live quite nourishing but do not actually hold any means of production in their hands belong to the pseudo-middle class, not to mention how many suites you have, study the land state ownership system, as long as it is still a housing certificate in your hands, as long as you don't have any real estate or industry anywhere, you are a great proletariat).

This group of people will grow in size, but it will be difficult to form a mainstream belief in the foreseeable short-term future.

Many people talk about the declining birthrate, which means that the child population is less than the population over 65 years old, and this has indeed appeared, and the birth rate has been declining year after year, is it because the per capita middle class is emancipated? Obviously not, because the only children of family planning have reached the marriageable age, and the base of the generation itself is small, and the fertility rate is predictable.

Let's talk about some examples from my side

I have seen a 15-year-old rural brother in Guizhou who already has a son and a daughter under his knees, not twins, the eldest is two years old, and the younger one has just been born, he belongs to the bottom of the 1.4 billion people.

My ancestral hometown is a mountain village in Sichuan, which can not be regarded as a mountain village, why imitate it, in fact, there are dozens of families living on a slope of a big mountain, because half of the village is surnamed X, so that place is called Banpo X. At present, among the dozens of families in my hometown, people who are about 20 years old have already given birth to one or two dolls at home and then go to work in other places, accounting for eighty percent, and the remaining two percent are successful in their studies outside and settled down.

Hope mine is helpful to you.

In fact, everyone longs to live a normal life, with love, warmth and happiness. But all this is easy to achieve on the basis of no pressure and economic prosperity, and now there are too many people who are unemployed and have taken a pay cut.

Why don't you get married and don't have children, more and more people, I personally think that there are more people who don't get married and don't have children, mainly in the young part. They have jobs, they have salaries, they can survive, so they don't want to find some burden, thank you.

Hello! Nowadays, there are more and more people who do not have children, and they are influenced by the Western hip-hop culture Lu Qi!

The country called for the birth of a baby for the country, but not many people responded positively. Not even a child. This is not a good sign.

The future may be a lonely one!

Not getting married and not having children will not become a trend, let alone become mainstream. Definitely not, to become the mainstream, at least the same age accounted for more than 60%, this is impossible, due to social progress, women are more independent, the pursuit of personal development, housing price pressure, survival pressure and other reasons, there may be more people choose not to get married, not to have children, some active choice, some passive acceptance, but, at least in the foreseeable future, it is impossible to become the mainstream, the reason why this has become a problem is the amplification effect of self-** and social communication attention to the state answer, in fact, the silent majority.

Life is an empty ship, relying on two things for its ballast, one is marriage, the other is children, no marriage and no children of the empty ship, is bound to be overturned by the wind and waves, buried at the bottom of the sea.

If you have a marriage and children, work together to hold down the empty cabin, and your life is a ship of happiness that can sail to the other side of happiness.

I realize: Marriage is a book, and children are beautiful poems.

When it comes to personal happiness, marriage and children are more important than careers.

Personally, I think that those who don't get married and don't have children don't understand what the beauty of the world is, and there are psychological shadows and obstacles, and their lives are meaningless.

Marriage and children are the most discussed topics in today's society, if you don't get married and don't have children, your life will not be fun, then this person will not be happy and happy!

In China, non-marriage and infertility have always been non-mainstream, and it is difficult to say that it is difficult to say that it is not married and infertile.

However, the concept of not marrying and having children will become the mainstream of auspicious matching.

Young people in first- and second-tier cities are roughly labeled as the following, and a careful analysis will find that each of them does not seem to have the need to get married and have children:

Either the economic pressure is high, and they can't even gain a foothold in the first and second-tier cities, and such people basically can't have children; Either the economy is acceptable, but such people often do not want to get married and have children, because it is likely to seriously affect their current living standards;

Either the economy is not a problem, but they are very concerned about their spiritual needs, and such people do not care about worldly things;

Either they are financially strong, but such people are afraid of economic disputes caused by marriage.

In life, we tend to look forward to many things, but there may be some risks and *** to try this thing, and when this risk and *** are big enough, we would rather not try new things, and shrink into our own small but warm little world.

This is the case with love and marriage.

Now there are actually two very mainstream values, one is to marry high and marry high, which reflects that we are not willing to suffer. In reality, you often encounter such an example: a girl of 150 likes a boy above 175, which means that a boy under 175 is not considered; But you ask 175 boys and they like girls over 160; And you ask girls over 160 who like 180 boys.

But 180 boys are a very small minority after all. So you will find that in the field of marriage and love, the Matthew effect is extremely obvious, regardless of men and women, everyone is actually only interested in those few people, if you can't find a few high-quality people, you would rather not find it.

Second, the vigilance is very heavy, and everyone's mutual trust is very low. Some people are worried about the other party's domestic violence, some people are worried that the other party has a bad temper, some people are worried that the other party's financial resources are not good, some people are worried about the other party's excessive beauty, some people are worried about meeting a bad mother-in-law, some people are worried about the sky-high bride price, and some people are worried about the property after marriage. And now the first- and second-tier cities are stranger mode, you know little about each other, this kind of information asymmetry of the blind box model greatly affects everyone's yearning for marriage.

Therefore, people who get married are often either classmates, have an emotional foundation and have a certain understanding, or they have a reliable intermediary to match in a small range, which also leads to a very weak marketization of blind dates.

Therefore, the overall environment of first- and second-tier cities determines that everyone has a low marriage rate and a high divorce rate. If you are involved with children again, a series of bad things such as bringing children and cram schools will follow one after another, and for young people in the new era who care about their personal feelings, they will retreat.

To find out the reasons for not marrying and having children, look at the unemployment rate. How can men and women who do not have a job get married and raise children?