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Maybe you're too showy. Being too enthusiastic when others need help, and becoming unapproachable when others don't need help, will make people feel too secretive and even difficult to get along with, and of course, people will stay away. Because your behavior is too elusive.
And if you want to be promoted, you must not only have a good performance at work, but also have a good relationship with your colleagues, because many things are not enough for one person, you need to be united, and as the head, you should have a certain cohesion and coordination ability! Hehe......Am I too sharp, forgive me.
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Maybe you don't have a personal experience with the problem of sticking to the owner, but I do.
It's not that I don't like to communicate with others, or I don't like to be a savior, but the whole environment is wrong.
That is to say, when everyone takes the purpose of being alone, when everyone has nothing to think of except for working and getting a salary, when you are in a foreign company, you often encounter such a dilemma, and the person with the most experience is often the most humane one.
In fact, it is very simple, when others are constantly running for performance and salary, he will not stop to talk to you about those topics that he thinks are boring, just like a very hungry person who is looking for food, and does not care about any life philosophy and ambition at all. In reality, we will often be forced to run by the pressure of no money, at this time, who will stop to talk about the loneliness in our hearts? Even though everyone always feels lonely in the dead of night.
So people and the environment, is always a difficult problem to deal with, if everyone around you is better than you, everyone doesn't want to pay attention to you, if you are better than everyone, everyone will also ignore you, so in order to let everyone ignore you, many times you have to not stand out, you have to care about children and educate your wife, spend on housing loans, cars, which are in the ...... of popularityThese things, even, a lot of boring behind-the-scenes discussions, whispers, wine and meat exchanges.
So in the end, people are lonely most of the time, and this loneliness comes from the depths of the heart, and this situation is unavoidable. Applaud yourself, after all, the stage is extremely lonely without applause, but the show has to go on.
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1. You don't like to communicate with others, you just want to play the role of a savior, do things that others can't do to show yourself, and be psychologically above others, how do you make friends? You've never really put yourself on an equal footing with others, and who would like you?
2. Maybe you're really smart, but you're too proud. The promotion of the position is not only determined by the work performance, but even the initial interpersonal relationship you can't do well, who dares to use you? Your current situation will make the leader feel that you are more suitable to be a technical expert than a leader or organizer.
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In your company, you are the most capable errand, this is not what I said, it is the idea of all the people in your company, there is something to find you, nothing to stay away, I suggest that you communicate with everyone more, and also come up with a problem for everyone to help you solve, and then justifiably invite them to eat, exchange feelings, just treat yourself as a new one, let go of your so-called smart, you must know that smart is mistaken by smart, you are a living example. The chances of survival in this world are very small, especially if you have been in a certain industry for a long time. I believe that the actual will be successful, and the fusion will rise.
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You're absolutely right to do things with purpose.
As the saying goes: If people do not do it for themselves, heaven and earth will perish".
This sentence doesn't sound good, but it also says a thing:
People must live for themselves first, and only when they are rich can they have the ability to support their families and help more people I like others to come to me when they are in trouble, but don't bother me usually"Your words indicate that your current situation will make the leader feel that you are more suitable to be a technical expert than a leader or organizer. If you want to be a leader, you can't just go when others need help, you have to be with everyone all the time to make people feel that you are good.
When they think you are their confidant, they will talk to you about their private affairs, and if you find it annoying, they will think that you are not good.
Work hard and you'll be a good leader!
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Don't want to be too serious, try to do what you want to do, don't listen to others, do what you should do, and look at your mood if you don't do it, so that people will feel your importance.
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Everyone has to get used to each other! That's perfect!
You have to get close to other people's lives and get to know them, so that they will feel that they have a common language with you!
Don't be too restrictive!
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Sometimes taking plays a bigger role in relationships than giving.
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You don't have to deliberately pursue anything, use your sincerity to move others.
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If you want others to treat you as a friend, you must first treat others as friends.
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In today's society, many people choose to be alone due to their personality, preferences, low self-esteem, personality and other reasons, it seems that many things are carried by one person, and a lot of time is spent alone, but in fact, only they know whether they are happy or not.
People are individuals in social groups, how can they live alone in a completely isolated society? You will definitely have an intersection with the people around you. As the saying goes, a good man with three gangs, the days when it is more difficult than Peng to help are really uncomfortable.
No matter how much a person has three heads and six arms, he can't be proficient in everything, and only by communicating with each other can we achieve mutual benefit and win-win results.
I hope everyone can find their own happiness.
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Human beings are social higher animals, of course, evolution to the present, has changed a lot, it is not excluded that some people like single, or pure life, most people like a lively life!
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It's not that I like it, it's that I'm used to it. No one likes a person, everyone wants to have a significant other, but it takes time to get used to it.
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When the forest is big, everyone has it, sometimes it's not like it or don't like it, it's habit.
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It has a lot to do with character
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I don't like it, but I can't help it.
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Not like, some are habits.
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Easy going, polite, generous, confident.
Respect others from the bottom of your heart.
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It is said that it is difficult to be a man, and doing these things makes others like you.
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Hello friends, the invisible troubles are brought about by life and society, as if you see anything, you think of anything, you will have troubles, and the solution to this is to enrich yourself happily every day, and every day you have to have continuous things to complete yourself, so that you can first solve the troubles in your life, and the troubles in society should often participate in meaningful activities, make yourself feel not very lonely, let the society accept you, and help everyone around you to live like this You should also set your dreams and goals from time to time, establish your own career and studies, find more interesting things and objects, regulate your sensitive nerves and your brain, and also have enough rest time, often do some exercises with reason for your brain, change your view of the world, and treat your outlook on life, society, and world view here I wish you happiness every day, happiness every day, and ask for adoption.
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Be well-behaved, mouth dessert, clever. These should be more pleasing. But in reality, it is not enough to have these, but also to be able to observe faces, be able to slap horses, see people and talk about people, and talk nonsense when you see ghosts.
People are already very tired in their lives, and if they are not people with this character, they will be even more tired if they want to be likable. Just be yourself.
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Extroverted type, or it may be the type that lacks normal social interaction and has nowhere to vent.
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Is it to write things or to write feelings, if you are cautious about things, it may be a habit or forgetfulness, and the feeling is a type with a relatively high degree of affection.
And there's a difference between a diary and an essay, which shows a person's persistence and patience.
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what every woman likes; This kind of life is not the same, I like it, and the ordinary days are dull.
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A happy, carefree, and free life.
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I like a free, romantic, and painful life
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Very simple question, you need to live a happy life, you have to ask yourself, can you give him happiness...
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I know a woman whose greatest wish is to get married and have children.
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What do you mean by lifestyle?
Life with parents, life with lovers, life as husband and wife, or life as husband and wife with children.
Actually, I'm also a woman, and I've had such doubts before!
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A simple and complex way of life.
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Fairytale romance.
Fantastic chance encounter.
I feel like an electric shock.
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It varies from person to person, and every woman wants to live differently.
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This question cannot be generalized, after all, individual pursuits are different!
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A person has a person's style, no one is perfect, but don't be too proud, a little achievement, some ability is your specialty, but you must know how to respect others, others can respect you, even if you are awesome, you are also a person, you also have a leader above, maybe you are very eloquent, if your colleagues are alienated from you or hostile to you, I am afraid that your career will be difficult to succeed or be promoted, so you still have to be humble, you must know when to advance and when to retreat, and you must know how to deal with relationships.