There are some questions, what to do when you can t make a choice

Things have to be solved after all. Don't let the questions find the answers for you. Such passivity.

Believe that you can make a choice. I just think it's right. Worth.

That's it. Go your own way. Let others say go!

Trouble, thanks!

There is no time when you can't make a choice, unless you want to have both fish and bear on your own, or you won't be trapped in such a problem! Friends, there are gains and losses, and there is giving!

Love is a sad fairy tale e Anyone who has read it! We've all had regrets to a greater or lesser extent, and when we're done reading it, we'll all understand that in the world of love, fate dominates everything. When we give up someone who loves you very much, it is not painful, because we are likely to have a relationship with this person but have no part, when we give up someone you love very much, it is painful, because it is very likely that we have a relationship with this person but have no relationship, when we fall in love with someone who does not love you, it is the most painful, because it is very likely that we have no relationship with this person and have no part.

If there is fate, time and space are not distances, and if there is no fate, even if they get together, they will not be able to understand ,!!Don't worry too much about it! You don't have to force it!!

Let's just let everything go with the flow.

When we are still being swayed by life, you can stop and give yourself a space to find your true self and listen to the insights of your mentors. Each of us can, but the vast majority of us have not insisted on sticking to our direction with our hearts.

When I can't make a choice, I will choose the following two steps as a reference, you can combine the two, or you can choose any of them according to your own situation, I personally prefer the first step to talk to others and then make a rational list by myself, because in the process of chatting in the first step, you can better and more comprehensively understand the advantages and disadvantages of each choice, the following is the specific method.

The first step is to chat with someone close to you, who can also be rational with you, and the two of you can put forward their own opinions on different choices together (this step can help you list various advantages and disadvantages in the second step); This person can be willing to listen to you and help you sort it out rationally, and in the process of chatting, you may slowly say what you really want and really care about (this can help you assign value to each advantage and disadvantage in the second step).

The second step is to list several choices that you are currently facing (sometimes not making any choice is also a choice and should be added), it is best to list a **, and then each choice lists its advantages and disadvantages, and assigns these advantages and disadvantages according to your own will, rationality or sensibility, the advantages are positive, the disadvantages are assigned, and the sum of the advantages and disadvantages under each choice is found, and the maximum value is the optimal solution.

In addition, if you are still hesitant after figuring out the optimal solution, then you can choose to toss a coin, and after the coin falls, before revealing the answer, the answer you silently recite in your heart is what you want most.

1. You can make a piece of paper to write down the specific advantages and disadvantages of the options and compare them.

2. How much to ask relatives and friends for their opinions.

When you can't make a choice, move forward, don't stop, maybe at some point you will have the answer.

Coin toss will have the answer you want.

Why? If you are thrown at the answer that you are satisfied with, you choose the right one, and if you are not satisfied, then choose another one.

Then choose next time, maybe you will think this one is better than the other next time.

Many people are faced with life, and it is difficult to make a choice! I don't know how to make the best choice for myself! Often because I can't choose to enter a state of anxiety! Let your energy fall into the doldrums! Enter a vicious circle! So what should we do?

First of all, you must understand the basis of making a choice, which is beneficial to yourself and truly beneficial to yourself! What is a choice that is really beneficial to yourself!

You must clearly know your own purpose, all your choices are to become a better version of yourself, your choices must be based on the foundation of loving yourself, all your choices are to make yourself feel more comfortable, comfortable, reassuring, and abundant! Don't lose sight of the basis of your choices because of the many external benefits, because it is only when you can feel the feeling of peace and abundance that you yourself can enter a higher state of energy, and you can enter a better cycle! Don't choose things that make you very anxious but have temporary benefits, on the surface it seems to be beneficial to you, but in fact, you are exchanging your energy for temporary benefits, for you is a choice to pull down energy, only if you continue to be in the joy of peace of mind, abundant feelings, you can make your life better!

Bless you all!

"Difficulty in choosing" is a situation that many people have, and then I will analyze the possible causes and how to solve them from the strategy and psychology for the subject's reference.

"Difficulty in Choice" may be caused by the following reasons (but not limited to the following):

1. There is not enough support for strength and security in the original family, and there is a lack of systematic motivation for choice at the psychological level.

2. The protection of the original family is too good, and the lack of experience in contact with the real world and society, so it lacks the experience of choice (decision-making), so it is difficult to make a choice.

3. The parents of the original family are too strong, which hits and frustrates their children's ability and self-confidence to explore the world, so it is so.

4. Restricted by ability and attitude, insufficient preparation before making a choice, and difficult to bear the responsibility of choosing (what needs to be borne).

5. There is a certain obsessive tendency, too perfectionism, attention to detail, rigidity, stubbornness, personality and psychological state.

What to do? The recommendations are as follows:

1. Fully understand the information you need to know about the current choice, and carry out "SWORT"Or "5w2h" analysis, choose against what you can do and your own resources.

2. Continuously improve yourself in different fields and areas of high concern.

3. Have the courage to try and make mistakes, no one's choice is absolutely correct.

4. Dare to take responsibility and harvest (failure).

5. Build self-confidence in the field you are good at, and substitute this self-confidence into your choice, strategically despise the enemy, and tactically value the enemy.

6. Analyze and the relationship with the original family, and do a good job of acceptance and reconciliation, and do a good job of psychological separation from the original family.

Take this thing.

The pros and cons of do's and don'ts are all listed.

Then calmly analyze the comparison.

Give an answer.

Then follow this answer.