Hello, please tell me how to deal with interpersonal relationships.

I am purely self-recommended, and I often encounter a lot of troubles, but not long ago I saw a paragraph from a magazine that is very enlightening, I hope you can get rid of your troubles, don't care too much about other people's opinions, in this society, people who install watches are the most open.

I don't remember all this passage, but in general: interpersonal relationships are indeed a university question, you don't want to improve everything, let it be, you have to have a degree in your own heart, after mastering this standard, you yourself will not feel tired.

One meter feeds a thousand people. Everyone eats the same thing but is a different person.

There are three types of people in interpersonal communication: 1. People who treat you well. 2. People who misinterpret you. 3. Inconsequential people.

For the first type of people, if you have the grace of knowing you, you can be a teacher and a friend.

The second type of person is the most troublesome, for this kind of person, you just know who he is, you don't have to fight with it, and you don't have to worry about yourself. Don't expect everyone to like you and treat you well, but remember that one more friend is not too many, and one more enemy is too many.

And for the third group of people, you have no stake, so you should treat each other well, which means that you have the opportunity to become the first type of people.

Ho ho, I just want to help you, I hope you can be happy, no matter what the occasion and time I think the most important thing is to keep your mouth shut.

You have to learn to smile and learn to relax your heart.

Be your truest self, but you must be the one who can bring happiness to others, and you will feel happy. People with humor will always be more popular, but that doesn't mean they won't be popular if they don't have humor. You can learn some small crafts that you are very good at and others can't usually do, for example, you can cook a few very special side dishes or something, so when you have free time, you can show a small hand to them (her), and your popularity will soar!

Buy a copy of Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature and read it, it will definitely help you.

The brother above said it very well, I agree with him!

How to manage your relationships

Many people are struggling with their inability to talk to people well, many people are frustrated with their messy relationships, and those with excellent communication skills and interpersonal relationships make us have to be truly amazed. Why are these people so successful socially? This is something that everyone in the workplace who aspires to achieve excellence wants to know, and it is especially important for those who are just starting out or about to enter the workplace.

The Social Style Handbook states that these people are successful because they have a common trick of making the person they talk to feel comfortable.

The trust and confidence that comes with comfort is what deepens superficial relationships. Without trust, clients and co-workers won't tell you the information and work with you, and they won't accept your advice and do what you expect them to do.

2. Uncomfortable consequences.

Without comfort, your relationships will fail, and the performance of all the work that requires the involvement of others will be staggering.

3. The benefits of making others feel comfortable.

Make a conscious effort to connect your presentation skills to your audience's social style and communicate in a way that is easy for them to understand, so you can get great results. (Famous Quotes In any customer situation, making sure the customer is in their comfort zone will give you long-term relationships that can turn them into repeat customers.) Focusing on the comfort of others can generate trust, confidence, collaboration, and results in one-on-one relationships.

4. Necessary conditions for comfort.

Creating the comfort of others requires different requirements in different contexts. For some, you will have to adjust the way you influence to make it feel comfortable, while for others, you will have to adjust your expression. You can expect all of you to voluntarily make adjustments to make the other person feel more comfortable, but the reality is that most of the time it's you who do the work.

And, it's up to you to recognize your success with social style techniques.

The effectiveness of using social style techniques depends on your willingness to adjust yourself to make others comfortable, and in the process, you don't care about your own comfort. In life, you can have a huge impact on your relationships, even if you're dealing with someone who doesn't know anything about social styles.

The maintenance of various social relationships is not as important as you think, and it is not as necessary as you think. Of course, this is not something that anyone can grasp at the beginning, and it is always necessary to summarize and analyze it little by little according to their own experience. Get along and make friends with a person, don't ask him to bring him any help to himself, but to grow together; I don't ask him to bring any benefits to himself, but he wants to have spiritual resonance; I don't ask him to give me any guidance, but I want to give you encouragement when you're down.

However, in some relationships, deep friendship is equivalent to burying a thunder in one's life, paying a lot and sacrificing a lot, but as a result, you blow yourself to pieces, which is the consequence of not polishing your eyes, and it is also the price of your choice. His parents have great kindness to him, he doesn't remember, he is not grateful, so what does it have to do with you? is full of extreme indifference to his life partner, and if he doesn't think about the relationship between husband and wife, he has no humanity with you, and when there is no benefit, everything can be done.

I don't even remember the kindness of my parents, and I don't even care about my partner's affection, even if you are good to him, you won't be able to feed the stool in the end.

There is a real thing around him, Fa Xiao has always treated his friend as his own brother, and he trusts him very much, but once he bumped into his friend's attitude towards his parents, in one sentence, how can a child treat his parents like that? But Fa Xiao still didn't think much about it, and it wasn't until he was cheated by a friend that he understood.

This is a matter of character, no matter how good your relationship is, it is difficult to change his character, and in turn it will only hurt you with your trust. 2. People who like to speak ill of people behind their backs.

He can speak ill of another person in front of you, and then he can also speak ill of you in front of others, and that's almost certain. So such people are basically the kind of people who hide knives in their smiles, cross rivers and tear down bridges in case of trouble, because they don't have their own principles.

A person without principles, you think about how terrible it should be, to do everything, when it is good for you, it will be good, but when it is not good for you, it will also be bad.

likes to point out and talk about others behind his back, not necessarily according to the facts, but also includes adding oil and vinegar, making something out of nothing, and deliberately throwing dirty water on people he doesn't like.

For such a person, you must not offend him, even if you get too close, it will be a disaster for you. 3. I can't see the good of others.

Always look at the people around you, who is better than yourself, and who is not as good as yourself, for those who are better than yourself, will also become unrecognizable because of jealousy, then such a friend, it is impossible to bring you real help, when you see you are good, when you are about to make a career, you will fall into the well and judge roughly.

So such a person will always interpret his ugly face to the fullest, you are not doing well, laughing at you, you are doing well, and you are jealous of you.

Personally, I feel that interpersonal relationships are complicated, so I need to take them seriously.

Obey the law and be able to do a good job in the relationship between the leadership and the law enforcement departments.

Respect others, respect teachers, and be able to do a good job in the relationship between teachers, classmates, colleagues, and friends.

Respecting the old and loving the young can do a good job in the relationship between the elders and the juniors.

Interpersonal relationships are none other than the above-mentioned categories.

The relationship between people is actually very delicate, in a word. An emoticon can make you gain and lose a friend!!

Dealing with relationships. 1: Try to talk to others and let them know that they are paying attention to them. (But not too much, or others will hate you).

2: Do what you and others share in your passion. (Find a common hobby to play with).

3: Don't be stingy, but don't be too angry. (Money can be spent like this, friendship can be gained.) Money won't be okay, it's up to you to do it)

4: Try not to directly collide with friends, if you feel that you have lost face, you can say: Now you are angry, I won't say it. Wait until the gas is gone. Let's talk about that kind of thing)

..There are many ways to do it. See how you master it. The landlord should be cautious in dealing with things himself!!

Thank you landlord for your support!!

Care. What others do to you.

How do you do to others.

There is only trust and lies between people.

It's up to you which one you choose.

Not all you can play with are called friends.

Brother, what do others say about you behind your back.

Do you know that. Ever thought about it?