I hate him, and I guess he hates me too

You're the same kind of person I am. Relatively passive. Not good at communicating with strangers, but more active with friends.

If you are a colleague, you will have a comparative psychology, personal ability, the appreciation of your boss, popularity, and so on. The company is an arena where not everyone can be friends, but everyone can be enemies.

Does his ignorance of you "affect your work?" If the answer is "no", you can ignore this person and just treat it as a passerby. As colleagues, you don't have too much contact in private, and it doesn't matter if your relationship is good or not.

Does his ignorance of you "affect your work?" If the answer is "yes", you can just say hello or something when you meet and try not to get into conflict. As a colleague, there is no reason for him to help you solve problems within the scope of his functions, after all, the company does not pay him for nothing.

Some people are like that, so they are good teachers.

When others ask for advice, they must show their superiority.

There is no way. It's really unpleasant for you to meet this kind of person.

However, he doesn't actually hate you.

It's just that his personality and temper are like that.

Why do you want her to be nice to you? Isn't he the same for everyone else?

If you want to have a good relationship, then you have to take the initiative to improve, as you said, let others take the initiative to talk to you, a bit unrealistic.

There are times when he needs help.

It's good if you take the initiative to help.

In the work environment, this kind of thing is also there, and there may be too many people asking him, so he feels disgusted, but if he is still willing to help, it means that this person is not bad.

How can you tell if someone really likes you or just happens to choose you?

1. He can't help it.

If he is very young, then it is inevitable to say the wrong thing and do the wrong thing with good intentions; If he is mature, there is always a cautious temptation in his seemingly perfect care.

The more confident and powerful the attack, the less you care about how you feel as a receiver, and naturally the less you like you.

So licking the dog is always humble, and the scumbag is always witty.

2. He will have low self-esteem.

When he pursues you, he seems to be brave and proactive, but it does not conflict with low self-esteem.

His inferiority complex is manifested in the fact that he is always asking for your opinion, always looking at your face, and always pleasing you to make you happy.

Even though it is a good act for you, he has no bottom in his heart. Buying you a gift is afraid that you don't like it, taking you to eat is afraid that you won't be able to eat, he always wants to fit your taste perfectly, and if you don't do it, you will feel like a failure.

3. Easy to be thankless.

People who like you really want to do something for you, and this kind of "doing something" is more inclined to them to think you need it than you put forward your own needs.

For example, when it's cold, they want to take off their clothes and lend them to you, even though you keep saying no. When it's time to eat, they must pull you to eat, even though you are not hungry.

They won't give you the benefits they do appropriately, and they won't give you anything extraneous; Instead, they'll give you your own best effort, even if you don't need to.

Whether it's or not, you have to stay away from him, instead of bothering him with you, don't feel interesting to you just because others release a little kindness to you, staying away from him is only good for you, there is no harm, he is getting married, what are you struggling with, you have to live your own life, I believe there must be someone who loves you just because fate has not arrived, he will appear.

It's not that I'm thinking too much, it's not that he hates you anymore, you shouldn't start at all, it's not good for you and him, after all, she's the one who is about to get married.

I don't think the male colleague hates you, it's just normal communication. He's getting married, and you're just a regular colleague, so it's recommended that you don't think too much about it. As a general friend, it is OK to get along with normal communication and work topics.

It's not that he hates you, it's just that someone is your colleague, and he's about to get married, so there's no result for you to have a crush on him, maybe you are suitable to be friends, just live your own life, don't even be friends in the end, and don't have any obsessions in your heart.

I don't think he hates you either, because he's getting married, so he just treats you as an ordinary colleague, and doesn't want to make you misunderstand him and cause unnecessary trouble, so he avoids you like this.

Actually, I think you're thinking too much, the other party doesn't mean to hate you, maybe the other party's mood is not particularly good, you should still understand the other party.

。。He's getting married. What else to say. In the future, remember that sometimes it is enough to explain it, and don't be ambiguous.

I think it's because you think too much, he doesn't hate you, and of course he doesn't have the kind of imaginary liking that the two of you are just ordinary friends.

School has started, and I'm ready to get into the learning mode.

Because I'm a 6th grader, I have a lot of study notes and knowledge, and sometimes I may not be able to get up to date. I was in English when I was in fifth grade, so the teacher didn't change me this semester.

I'm also just starting to bring, and there are classmates in the class, of course I'm nervous, so the voice is a little seepable, I can't move, the teacher has been asking me to be louder, and I've been exerting my strength, but it's still too quiet, and then I'm often criticized by the teacher. That's why some people hate me......

The head of our group, to be honest, was a hate for not checking homework, and he hated me.

At one point, if I hadn't found out in time, I might have been criticized again.

At the end of class that day, I went to look at the list of memorization texts (Chinese), and then I saw that mine was empty, everyone else had ticked the box, and I was the only one who was empty, and I was thinking: Am I not able to memorize, why didn't I tick it? My front desk (a good classmate in the original class) said the same thing:

That's right, you obviously recited it to me, and we told him that he did it on purpose! ”

We were going to go to the teacher, but we didn't expect to be in class, so let's let him go first.

Then after the last class, the teacher said to send a receipt, and he Le, still writing there, I felt as if I was not the head of the language group, I asked him to send it, he also rolled his eyes for me, and then impatiently went to the podium, my classmates at the back table (also the classmates of the original class) asked me to explain a question to her, when he sent it to me, and hit me, I was very confused, he thought I didn't know he sent it?

And then today, the Chinese teacher also found out that I didn't tick the box in my recitation, so he asked me why I didn't tick it. If I can't memorize, I took this opportunity to say to the teacher: "I can memorize it, but the group leader won't tick me!"

The teacher asked him why, and then do you know what happened to him? He was like this: "Uh..."I forgot to tick it.

Isn't it, just forget me, and no one else will forget? I'm, it's clearly intentional.

This kind of shouting clan is really annoying, and I didn't do anything to give it to him to make him hate me so much.