My dream! Now it s happening. I don t think it s a realization!

I'll open it! First of all: your thoughts are normal, and they are what most normal people should have.

People are always improving, and their goals are constantly changing. Man's goal (what he wants to have) must be higher than his reality (what he has), and this is also the meaning of man's life.

Example: When you were a child, you saw a partner with a new school bag, and you wanted to have one too. Once you have it, you'll have other higher goals.

In other words: what a person has will not be the best, but what he dreams is the best.

Because time is constantly changing, and you are also growing, it is normal that at every different stage of life, your mindset and thoughts will be somewhat different.

You should calm down and think about what you want.

What is the most important thing in your life?

How do you live and work so that you don't regret it in the future?

Once you think it through, you won't have any doubts.

It's human nature to do one line and hate one line, you try to experience happiness from work, not work for work, so maybe you will be better. Or adjust yourself appropriately.

The dream of being a network administrator is in the past tense, that is, some characteristics of the profession of network management may attract you, but when you do network management, those professional characteristics are not attractive to you, so you see a lot of bad things about the network management profession, so you want to change careers now, it is human nature to see different ideas, not to mention just from some more naïve ideas, brother, make a practical career plan for yourself! ◎_

Just because you don't know that you can do a higher-level career than a network administrator in the process of learning, your ability allows you to change careers, not to be a network administrator.

This means that you will reach a higher state of recognition.

。。Because you haven't found your true instinctive direction.

That's because you haven't gotten used to that.

When I was a child, I had a lot of dreams, just as Eason Chan sang, "The smallest me, I have big dreams" has been trying to go in the direction of having dreams, but I haven't deliberately asked myself to achieve anything. I don't remember the sentence I saw from ** "I was born as a human being, I'm sorry" I don't know what kind of collapse the person who said this sentence went through before saying this sentence in life. Later, in order to dig out this sentence, I watched a movie "The Life of the Disgusted Matsuko" Of course, to this day, I have not experienced such a broken life, nor have I realized the big dream when I was a child, but occasionally I have a special sense of contentment.

It's like a particularly ordinary time to get off work, get off work ten minutes early, and there is a favorite ** in the car, and I feel a sense of happiness inexplicably! Maybe that's what it's called contentment, yes, admit that I'm an easily satisfied person!

The movie tells the sad life of Matsuko, and that sentence is a sentence written on the board of the rental house when Matsuko died. The first time I watched a movie, I just felt that Matsuko was very unlucky, when I was a child, my father favored my sister Kumi, and later experienced various marital misfortunes, domestic violence, and finally died alone. It's just that I can't understand that Songzi wrote that sentence who she is most sorry for who is the person who demolished the bridge, and then took a cursory look at it a few times, and found that the person who Songzi is most sorry for in her life is herself!

She grimaced all her life to see her father's smile, and took everyone she met seriously, including every love she thought she had ever met. In the end, the only person she didn't love well was herself, and there was a line in the movie that said, "Dreams are free, but there are very few people who realize their dreams and live a happy life." Therefore, the vast majority of people who are not so lucky either sigh sadly, or indulge in sadness, or end their lives hastily, or laugh and prevaricate the past, or turn their mistakes into crimes, no matter which path they take, the future is bleak.

Therefore, I personally think that there must be a dream of a spine, but there is no need to deliberately realize every dream, and it is meaningful to let yourself live a happy life! Be a person with dreams and contentment, and let yourself live a happier life!

I remember reading a little story when I was a child, the protagonist of the story is two monks, the little monk can't see, the little monk is very distressed about this matter, so the old monk taught the little monk to pull the erhu, and told him that as long as you keep pulling, one day you will see the bright sun, the blue sky. Later, the old monk died, and the little monk became an old monk, he still didn't see the blue sky, but every day he had the dream of being able to see the blue sky, and spent it in longing, and lived a very happy life! If a person doesn't have a life to aspire to, nothing to look forward to, how boring would it be?

Be a person with a dream! No matter how far away you are from your dream, as long as you persevere, the process must be happy!

I would like to use this article to encourage the suo lock that still has dreams. Morning.

The most wonderful thing in life is not the moment when you realize your dreams, but the process of sticking to your dreams.

Han. When we are young, we always forget to eat and sleep in order to study, and there is such a person who trembles, he said to me, "When you are working on a difficult problem and you have not done it, you will be irritable, but when you work hard and know the correct answer, you will be happy, but this joy can only be understood after hard work." ”

Hayao Miyazaki said———I can accept failure, but I must not accept myself who has not struggled."

He didn't get into a good university during the college entrance examination, and later, his mother made a special trip to rent a house around his school to accompany him to repeat his studies, and he cried, he said, "Thank you, Mom!" In the year when his mother accompanied him to repeat his studies and let him sell the ears, he studied hard, and finally his hard work paid off, and he was admitted to a good university.

He had made up his mind that he would succeed and be admitted to his ideal university. Now he has succeeded and has been admitted to graduate school at that university. As long as people have dreams, after hard work, this will come true

When I was a kid, everyone had their own dreams. Some people want to be doctors or engineers, while others want to be scientists or scientists. But as we get older, the pressures of reality and the difficulties of life often make people give up on their dreams and look for a more realistic career and lifestyle.

So, have the dreams that most people planted when they were young have come true?

Actually, this question is not easy. Because everyone's dreams are unique, and people adjust and modify their dreams according to their personal circumstances at different stages. But on the whole, most people's childhood dreams may not have fully become reality, but they have not been completely shattered.

Let's take a look at why.

1.Environmental impacts.

A person's environment plays an important role in his growth and development. Family, social, economic background, and other factors can all have an impact on a person's dreams. Many children's dreams when they are young are influenced by their surroundings, such as being educated by their parents or teachers, and seeing the performance of exemplary people in society.

However, as we age, the influence of the environment on a person gradually diminishes, and the individual's intrinsic motivation and willingness becomes more important. So some people may give up their childhood dreams and pursue a more secure career or a more realistic lifestyle.

2.Factors of personal ability and interest.

Another factor that influences the realization of dreams is personal abilities and interests. Some people may dream of becoming a ** family when they are young, but later find that they do not have the talent and ability to **. Others may find themselves more interested in other fields, such as literature, science, and so on.

In this case, these people may give up their original dreams and look for other development opportunities. While their original dream didn't come true, they could still succeed in other ways.

3.Life experience and maturity.

Life experiences can also have an impact on one's dreams. In the process of growing up, people will encounter all kinds of difficulties and challenges, and these experiences will make people more mature and rational. Some people will think that the original dream is not realistic, and they need to face life more pragmatically.

While he may not give up on his dreams entirely, they will also be more realistic about their abilities and opportunities. This may make the original dream need some adjustments and changes.

In short, the dream that most people planted when they were children may not have been fully realized, but they have not completely disappeared either. The road to achieving our dreams is full of twists and turns, but we should still maintain a positive attitude and keep working hard to move towards our goals. Even if dreams and reality deviate, we can still achieve our own success in other areas.

Not realized. For individuals, the childhood dream was to be a pilot, and of course this dream did not come true for various reasons. When we were children, every time we stood on a high place and looked at the starry sky, we always accidentally lay on the window and fantasize:

If only I were the stars. In this way, not only will I be uninhibited, but I will also be able to illuminate the beauty of the world, and I will be able to become a great person. So every time I encounter the subject of fantasy essay from the beginning of school, I always don't hesitate how I should write syntax if I am a star, and my essay always makes the teacher enjoy me as a classmate in class as a model essay, naively I think this feels good.

After slowly growing up and understanding things, I realized that those dreams were originally felt with my heart, and I also needed to spend time to synchronize with the cloud and work hard. Otherwise, work is just a fantasy and has always been indispensable. On my way back to my house, I met an old man who was selling cloth shoes, and I was in a state of exhaustion, so I started to rest.

The old man was very experienced, and he looked at my heart and talked to me about me. Because of the uneasiness in my heart, I told the old man everything that was in my heart. In that moment, I realized what I had done.

The moment the old man said such a thing, I woke up suddenly, and I still remember it vividly, and I think I will always remember. "You should be glad that you are still alive and healthy, fantasy is really beautiful, nothing is simple in life. No matter what blow you take, show your strongest side in the mirror.

There's always a reward for what you give, and then I let a lot of people hear about this method of narration, which is called naïve fantasy, and the purpose of the story is not to prove how great I am, but to know what people with the same narrative method as me would do, and the meaning of things should be done that way. In fact, no matter how far away our dreams are when we are little friends, each of us will be the brightest star in the night sky when we grow up. It's just that it's very messy and a lot of friends can't find the final fixed point, so the lighting has been very weak and requires external force.

If you have the courage to believe, the quiet night sky wants to leave room for you forever.

Today's young people are very happy, entering the society with dreams, and working hard to realize their dreams.

Looking back, Benbo's dream as a child was to be admitted to a medical school when he grew up, and after graduation, he could become a doctor who treated diseases and saved lives. The reason is that due to illness in childhood, I took a long leave of absence to treat my illness in junior high school. After a semester in high school and then taking a leave of absence, personal health problems are not only painful for the individual, but also a drag on the family.

But it backfired, and in 1977, when the college entrance examination was resumed, the old personal illness ** lost a chance to take the college entrance examination in vain. At that time, the physical pain of the individual was far worse than the psychological condition, and it can be said that everything was lost, and the future of the individual was very slim. As early as five years ago, it was a personal physical reason that Fan Ming's eldest brother recruited workers in his unit, and it was possible for him to jump out of the farm, that is, his personal body was not angry, and the hope that could be met but not sought was in vain.

How many times can a person encounter a chance to change his destiny in his life? One miss, another loss, the psychological impact is collapse, the individual is lying on the sickbed, tossing and turning does feel that the individual is a waste, what is the point of living?

When a person's life sinks to the bottom, a ray of sunshine illuminates the desire to survive, and after an emergency, a short period of time, when the spring of 1978 came, he packed up and went to school to prepare for the college entrance examination and picked up the long-lost textbook.

After more than three months of catching up and reviewing homework, I walked into the examination room on the morning of July 20 of that year, and after three days of intense exams, when the results were announced, it was okay. Finally, before Sun Shan, he had the opportunity to participate in the political examination and physical examination.

The vast majority of the students recruited by colleges and universities and medical colleges only recruit science candidates, and this doctoral degree is a liberal arts knowledge, and as long as they can be admitted, as long as they can go to school, as long as they can change their personal destiny, they will initially achieve their personal goals.

Looking back, my childhood dream was to be a doctor, but in the end, my dream was shattered and not realized, and I still regret it more or less.