What makes me very distressed, help me What should I do if my classmates think I m a sissy

Changing your personality is difficult, but you can change some of your superficial characteristics.

Furthermore, judging whether a person is a man or not is mainly whether he has a man's sense of responsibility, of course, appearance is also indispensable, after all, the first impression of meeting is your appearance and behavior.

Try to change your demeanor, don't try to change your personality, because your demeanor changes you are still you, if your personality changes, do you think you are still you?

It is recommended that you do some things that men do, such as picking up girls more, fighting more, and having a man's momentum to come out and release your essence well.

Do you have to fight to be a man? Upstairs is not misleading! Be decisive, not mother-in-law, responsible, righteous, strong, and persevering, these are all signs of a man in my opinion!

Don't take it too seriously.

Go with the flow. It's good to have a good time.

Try to do something you don't want to do, or never think about.

Of course, you can't break the law.

To see whether a person is a real man, it is not about his appearance and whether he is a sissy, but about the strength of his will in his heart. If you say anything about you that you can be dismissive, it can be concluded that your inner will is strong enough and you are already a real man.

Me used to be too. Try to imagine how dark the world is. (And then it's fine).

If you do better in physical education in running and long jump, it's better to score better than your classmates who laugh at you, so that no one laughs at you anymore, because if someone laughs at you, it's a shame.

This may have something to do with your personality and accent and living environment, don't care what others say, try to do what a man should do, don't think about the rest, because if you change your sissy and some people will say that you have other shortcomings, no one is perfect, don't care about the outside world's evaluation of you, if you are the same as others, then you are not the real you, as long as you live with personality and principles, you will not come to the world in vain. Come on! ^^

You can say: What's the matter, you're jealous of how many girlfriends I have! You also show me one of them, you are jealous alone, why are you still envying me with others?

Do you think everyone else is as unlikable as you are? Mentality: Actually, it's not a big deal, my buddy is also very girly, we all call him Sister Hong, and he readily accepts, this is his own style, why do you have to become the same as others, those who say you, just magnify your womanhood, they can't find other reasons, so say your mother, as long as you keep a happy heart, you don't have any reason to treat those people at all, some girls are still boyish, isn't Xiaoshenyang also a mother!

It's the same, you say!

My choice, I like it. Go your own way and let others do the talking.

You don't have to get angry, don't get excited. Say to him in your usual tone ...

Mother? What is the definition? You... It can't be a sissy. Otherwise, how do you know? o(> oDon't be too motherly。。。

My choice, I like, don't care what people say.

Actually, it's nothing, I've always felt that this word is not insulting.

Play with boys as much as you can...

At this age, there will be some friction between classmates...

I don't need to say it seriously.

As for reputation... When you are in school, you have a good reputation if you study well.

In fact, let them say it's okay to go, they're just jealous that you have a woman.

The best solution is violence, that's how I came over, they won't strike without solving one!

You have to understand a truth, the price of going with the flow is being slapped to death on the beach by the back waves.

Go it alone, be yourself, live yourself, you answer too.

Let yourself go, when you dream, the self you dream of is the most real self, if you want to be yourself again, if it is difficult, accept the current self, slowly change again, and believe that you will find yourself one day. Don't look down on yourself, the current you don't mean the future you, the current you may just be a stumbling block for you to move forward, it's okay to cross the past, come on!

Be true to yourself· No matter how much others say, it's their own business· There is a saying for everyone.

Inner Know, Go your own way, let others say it, let others say it, let it go· You care too much about what others think of you, but what can this change? Good is good, bad is bad Everyone naturally has a conclusion in their hearts, in a word, be true to yourself, you will live a very relaxed and happy life Try not to think about it Maintain a good night's sleep· When you're worried, think about something happy, eat more of what you like· Listen** Relax yourself Take deep breaths when you think more Tell yourself to yourself that you're the best Trust me, you're awesome Come on

5 points also want us to look so long?

Hehe, me too. My memory is so bad that I can't remember what I ate at noon at night. It's not a disease, it's related to your previous habits.

I've been pampered since I was a child, and I don't take anything to heart, so I haven't developed the habit of remembering. However, I usually remember the big things entrusted to me by others very clearly, because I know that I have this problem, and I am afraid that I will smash it for others, so I will always repeat it silently in my heart, so that I will remember it for a long time. If I borrow money, I pay it back as soon as I have it, and I never delay. Hope to adopt.

If a classmate is very distressed and he feels that he has too many shortcomings, you can comfort her that the shortcomings are shared by anyone, and it is not terrible to have shortcomings, just correct and improve, and you can praise his advantages again.

As his classmate, your friends should give him more affirmation and praise. Don't let his family criticize him often, and slowly change their attitude towards him.

As a friend, you should help her improve her self-confidence and not be too inferior.

You can persuade her, like this kind of person may be more introverted, and then he is more inferior, you can comfort her a few words, you say that everyone has shortcomings, but you must let your strengths play to the extreme.

There is no way to do this, it proves that this person has a serious inferiority complex, so ordinary people can't help her, so she can only help herself.

In fact, there are many classmates who have low self-esteem and have such an idea, so you can tell him directly, it would be good if they were not like this.

But the main thing is the lack of self-confidence calibration, which can't help, and can only be solved by himself, can his own lack of self-confidence feel inferior?

Don't look at your own shortcomings, look at the strengths of others and supplement yourself.

People don't want to do any comparison, people are the same, they all grew up eating grains, and ability is a person's not something we can compare.

This is very simple, this is his personal personality problem, this is slowly changing, you can comfort and encourage him.

This kind of person is because he has no confidence at all, so he must build up his confidence and correct his shortcomings if he feels that he has them.

All you can do is timely encouragement, and whether you can come out and build self-confidence is up to him.

I would let him watch Chicken Soup for the Soul and watch inspirational stories.

Why do you have to talk and ask for trouble.

Familiar habits, familiar routes, familiar days, no miracle will ever happen. Changing your thinking, changing your habits, and changing a way of living will often create infinity and infinite scenery! Here, first of all, I recommend you to read some psychology books, which I personally think will be very helpful to you.

Secondly, try to change, you may not get used to it at first, but stick to it, and you will find that there will be many unexpected results. Nowadays, like many young people, we are materially rich and motivated, confused and uncertain on the road of life. With confusion and longing for the future, when we are young, we want to be windy and rainy, but we often feel empty, because these are not what we really want, and they are not what we really want.

We are all human beings, not puppets, and the repetitive rhythm of life can make us lose ourselves, numb and bored with life. This requires us to change, to try life that we have not tried before, to experience more things in our own way, to try to feel the wonder of the world. At that time, you will realize that it is yourself who surrounds you, and the world is not the sky in the well.

I hope you will try what I have said, and finally send my blessing: I hope you will find your true self.

Actually, I'm like you too. I'm not interested in any non-mainstream, Hahan or something, like a youth movie, and now I'm about to go to college, but I'm a boy, and I don't know much about girls' feelings. But I hope my words can help you, don't live for others, live for yourself, don't care what others think of you, don't blindly follow the crowd, do something to make yourself happy, in fact, some people just their vanity makes them follow the trend, those things may not be their favorite, you didn't say it, you are a frank person, so you don't have the slightest hypocrisy, you see the truest side of yourself.

When you are frustrated, calm down and think about the world, what do you want most, and after you identify it, when there is no setback, you will also understand your own direction, this is the way I am looking for.