It s time for high school. I m a bit introverted, how to adapt to the surrounding environment and be

I used to be a very introverted student as well, went through high school and college, and now it has changed a lot!

First of all, don't feel any psychological pressure, introversion is not a defect of people, just a character trait, many people belong to this type, in the usual study and life, pay attention to some changes, make more friends, communicate with others, in the dormitory, between classes, take the initiative to greet classmates, participate in some group activities, such as basketball, there must be communication in the process of activities, enhance team spirit, more and more people will accept themselves! Consciously exercise your own speaking and communication, and if you have the opportunity to participate in some clubs in the future, it will be of great help to you, come on!

First of all! You have to study hard. Learning is the main purpose of going to school. Ask more questions from the teacher and exercise yourself slowly. Don't worry too much about gains and losses when communicating with classmates, friends are together, and you want to do whatever you want. Get along well.

Communicate with others and don't close yourself. If you communicate with people a lot, you will know the same interests and hobbies, and you will have good friends.

Seize the opportunity and express yourself well. It's OK slowly. While being kind to others, stop some of the people you are maliciously using.

The best thing to do is to find the most active classmate in the class to be a friend.

Play with cheerful children.

Actively participate in class activities.

Dare to show yourself.

It's okay to talk to your classmates or discuss your studies.

Go with the flow, there are also introverts in high school who are good for being friends.

Just go with the flow, don't twist it.

Go with the flow, don't flatter, and don't say no.

Live happily and accept physiological changes.

Although I have just graduated and am reluctant to be separated from my current classmates and friends, it is impossible to forget the dark days when I first entered high school. But in retrospect, it wasn't a big deal. Because that's just a process.

When you reach the age of high school, people's various personalities will gradually become prominent, at this time, it is not as easy to make friends as when you were a child, you have to treat different people in different ways, so at that time, you said that you are not very good at communicating with others, it is not an introverted performance, but you need to think seriously about how to communicate with others for a while, so that you become cautious. This is normal. In addition to being calm, the second thing to do now is to make friends cautiously.

One is to be tactful, and the other is to retain one's own personality, so that you will be attractive to others. Getting along with classmates is not difficult to say, and it is not easy to say that it is not simple. There are a lot of things to do, the first is to understand and understand, one is to understand the feelings of others, and the other is to understand his personality and the criteria for doing things, to be able to do these two points shows that you are very good, but the most important thing is to communicate with your heart, only with your heart and true pay will be recognized by others, remember, don't be hypocritical, that is what others hate the most, and believe that you hate the most.

For those classmates who joke too much, when you can't stand it, give a tactful reminder, just ignore him if it doesn't work, out of sight and out of mind, remember, don't quarrel. One is to try not to annoy him, and the other is to maintain your image in the minds of others. Don't always think about the bad of others, think more about the good of others, so that at least you can find a sense of balance in your own heart, and it will be smoother to communicate with others.

Also, being optimistic and cheerful is indispensable, and initiative is the driving force for making friends.

Believe that you will find a unique way to make friends on your own. (Because I'm an example myself).

Don't be afraid of loneliness, people are always lonely from the mother to the end of life. What you are really afraid of is loneliness, and loneliness represents your emptiness. Learn to experience life and discover many wonderful and joyful things that you have not noticed.

Ignore the jokes.

Find a like-minded "friend" to relieve loneliness and one is enough.

If you want to be popular, you can only improve your ability to bear it

The most important thing is to have self-confidence, and then talk to people more, and you will naturally be cheerful.

Be optimistic and cheerful, and take the initiative to deal with the people around you.

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Alas, I went to high school on September 1st. hah

I also just started high school.

Alas, try to adapt

I can't bear the joke, so I try to make friends with them, and after I become good friends, I won't be so excessive

Always fantasizing will do you no good. To be realistic, I'm also afraid of being lonely, so take the initiative to communicate with others, with a sincere heart

You won't be alone, as for independence, you must cultivate, no one can let you rely on it for a lifetime.

Finally, I hope you are happy.

What about being introverted? The confusion of adolescent sophomores can be solved in this way.

You can try to chat with them, so that they can slowly get used to it, and they will follow them when they go to play, just do it.

You can talk to them a lot, and then you'll be infected by their atmosphere, and you'll start to liven up.

What else do you change when you are in high school, your personality says that you will change, do your best, and the more you force others, the more you think you are contrived.