How are people who studied hard in high school doing now?

It felt dramatic. When I was in high school. Crush on a top student in the class.

The crush is not because he studies well, but because he sings a song. It's very distracting, and it has come into my heart. But later, because a scheming in the dormitory couldn't get used to me, she squeezed me in various ways, and my personality was relatively soft.

The more this happens, the more this woman squeezes me. Maybe it's because I'm too close to the male god, and she feels like I'm not a good girl or something. But whether I'm a good girl or not has something to do with her.

It made me depressed like this, and it was really painful to be depressed during that time. Every morning when I wake up, my chest hurts, and then that scheming girl still sleeps next to me, which is really uncomfortable. She was on my left, and I still have occasional pains in my left chest.

Later I moved out and cried all day due to depression. The male god saw it and wrote an essay full of thousands of words on several sheets of A4 paper. Tell me.

I didn't say I wanted to marry you or anything, because I hooked up with him before, and he confessed to me first. But I'm depressed and I'm not interested in what I used to like. He thought it was because of him, so he told me all sorts of things.

But it still didn't work, I only felt guilty about others, and then I went home and my parents enlightened me. It was finally healed, but it left sequelae. Chest pain is frequent.

It is because of these two people that I still believe in them. But what I used to be is no longer what I am now. Every time he had a class reunion, he would bow his head and not dare to look at me.

Actually, I would say, it doesn't have to be this way. I've long since put it down. Now we are all sent to the magic capital to work hard, and he takes his girlfriend with him.

I've talked a few times on and off, and I haven't had a complete relationship. That's it.

In 2010, he graduated from Sichuan Construction Institute, has been doing construction, started 2500 to 4000, 6000 after job-hopping, 15 years of examination for a building, 16 years of job-hopping years to consider a municipal government, planning to change jobs to find a 12000-15000. There is too much job mobility, and I want to work hard to develop in a good company, and I don't want to change jobs too much.

Said Ha myself, graduated from June 12 to December 12, Chengdu ran sales, about 3000, joined the army from December 12 to December 14, retired from the army for more than half a year at home in 14 years, began to work as a temporary worker in a bureau-level department in August 14 more than 2000, and was admitted to a county and township institution in Chengdu in September 18, more than 3000 a month. This is me, and everyone is annoyed when they see it.

When I was in junior high school, I studied on my own at night in winter, and my three female classmates didn't go to the dormitory after class, so they had to study all night! The next day, the classmates went to school and found the three of them lying on their desks, with a fever of more than 38 degrees, and the teacher took them to the hospital, where they kept burning and were hospitalized! The male classmates in the same class, go to the Internet café to play games every day after school, and they don't do their homework much, and they are the first in the whole grade in exams!

If you don't do your homework, the teacher doesn't care! So, everyone's intelligence is different!

There are many junior college students around me who get good jobs and opportunities because of the introduction and appreciation of teachers. Human beings have infinite possibilities, and nothing can be static. If it is said that junior college students are destined to lag behind undergraduates, this kind of thinking is too far behind.

A mentor once said that the gap between people is very small before work. Therefore, if junior college students can catch the tail of going to college at the end, the future will not necessarily be bad.

Now his work may not be as good as ours, and he may not be as good as ours, but at that time, he was the best version of himself in his heart. He gets up at five o'clock every day to memorize books, is still doing exercises at eleven or twelve o'clock at night, and sometimes reads in the toilet in the middle of the night, refusing to waste a little time, feeling that he has spent all his time studying.

14 years of college graduation on the construction site internship cost 1800, the site after 1 year of salary 3500, in 2016 into the construction unit company to continue to do the cost of wages 5500, at present is still so much, of course, do not matter is the cost of things, data, construction, cost of everything to do, salary is salary, every year after the comprehensive income is still about 10,000, barely to maintain life!

I graduated from a junior college in 2008, graduated and went to work for eight hundred and one month, resigned after a few months, changed companies to continue to do sales, and the salary soon exceeded 5,000, it should be 2010, when the salary was the highest, you could get 12,000, which lasted for more than a year, I was unemployed, and I began to fool around for more than a year, the work was not fixed, and the income was two thousand, and then the family found a relationship and sent it to a state-owned unit, two thousand seven and eight months, and the average of all bonuses and benefits for the whole year was less than four thousand, Because most of them stayed up at night, they resigned after three years, went on a trip that said go, came back and started to do business, and earned about 300,000 yuan in two and a half years, and then closed because of the shop, and then there was no way to do things, and now I can't find a suitable job, I don't have extra money to do business, and I don't know where to go next.

Hungry and thirsty, sleepless, for the college entrance examination, for the postgraduate entrance examination, three more lights and five more chickens, learned a lot of things, but is still an ordinary person, the same work, with a salary of no more or less, everyone in this world is an ordinary person, studying hard may not have a good way out, fooling around all day is not necessarily a bad life, everyone has their own way of living, knowing that the purpose of their life is much better than studying hard!

When you were in high school, did you ever encounter a situation where you studied hard every day, but your grades only dropped but did not rise, or even counted down? Based on the above observations, I have summarized five reasons:

1. Blindly take notes.

I made some brain notes in class, and I wished I was a voice recorder and wrote down everything the teacher said. There are even students who copy textbooks without using their brains, ignoring the teacher's analysis, thinking about problems, etc., which is not useful for learning. Not taking notes in class or picking out important points to take notes has little impact on learning.

When taking notes, you must learn to record the difficult content that the teacher says, and the content should be all the essence and not the dross. In addition, it should also be noted that when listening to a lecture, when there is a conflict with the content of the notes, listen first.

2. Blindly solve problems.

Many students have a wrong understanding of doing questions, thinking that they can't do questions because they do less and do more, and they will naturally know what type of questions they see. In this way, there is a question sea tactic, what questions are done. Many students do aimlessly do the questions, the most basic knowledge is still vague, after doing a lot of questions, not only do not improve the ability to solve the problem, but consolidate a certain incorrect understanding, go further and further down the wrong road.

Middle school students should pay attention to distinguishing between simple questions when doing questions, and should do questions and ability improvement questions. Start with the basics first, and then work your way up to the difficulty. Learning a choice of topics will do you more with less.

3. There is no focus on learning.

The difficulty of each subject is different, and the time allocation should also be different, with more time for weak subjects and knowledge points, and less time for strong subjects, and focus on learning. The college entrance examination is a comprehensive exam, and you look at the total score, so for the subjects that are dragging your feet, you should not pull your feet as soon as possible. Weaknesses are not a strong point, but the minimum criterion is that you can't lower your university grade because of it.

4. Write the homework after the homework.

There are many courses and homework in high school, and in the first year of high school, almost every teacher will assign homework. Faced with a large number of assignments, students are distraught and have to write late into the night. Therefore, some students are simply lazy, write answers or copy answers, and write homework for the sake of completing homework, and the homework effect is naturally not good.

Teachers do not assign homework for students, but hope that students can fill in the gaps and fill in the gaps in their knowledge.

5.Light the brain but not the hands

Some students are dismissive of short-answer questions, or they are familiar with them, thinking that they can simply pass them off. Using your brain to do the questions without using your hands will also hinder the improvement of your grades. Some questions look familiar and simple, but they are not as familiar as imagined, only by writing out the steps to solve the problem, calculating the answer, and having no problem with the answer can it be truly understood and understood.

As you move from junior high school to high school, you will have more subjects and more pressure to study. If students still use the same learning methods as in junior high school, it will naturally be thankless. Poor grades do not prove that the student is not working hard in his studies, but the effort is not rewarding, which means that he has not mastered the right method.

The study of high school requires knowledge thinking and knowledge summary. And in the learning process, in addition to listening carefully in class and taking notes, we must learn to check and fill in the gaps, and solve what we don't understand in time, otherwise a chain reaction will be formed if a knowledge point is not understood. When you master a unique set of learning methods, your academic performance will naturally improve steadily.

1. Take notes throughout the whole process and ignore the explanation of knowledge points

There are many students in the classroom nowadays who are immersed in taking notes, for fear of missing the knowledge points. The content on the courseware ppt can basically be copied down after a class, but the results are often unsatisfactory when it comes to the exam. If you don't get anything from your efforts, everyone will feel that you shouldn't be.

Yes, this part of the students has worked hard, but the direction and method are wrong.

In fact, the amount of knowledge that needs to be learned in high school is huge, and it naturally includes key and non-key points. If you work on non-key points, you will naturally lose results. Therefore, it is still necessary to focus on listening to lectures, understand the key points and non-key points, pick the key points and copy them, and focus on the key points.

Over time, the results may be reflected in the next exam.

2. There are many questions to do, but there is a lack of wrong question sets

In addition to completing on-campus assignments on time, some students also arrange other off-campus tutoring assignments on their own. It may be that they did several times as many questions as others, but their test scores did not improve significantly. After a long time, even the confidence to brush the questions is gone.

The normal question sea tactics should be effective, but they missed a step and did not complete it, and did not seriously summarize and reflect after completing the question. If you make a mistake this time, you will still make a mistake in the same place next time, and it is useless not to find your own shortcomings and make targeted corrections. Therefore, you need to make a collection of mistakes by yourself, summarize the past mistakes, and naturally the mistakes will gradually decrease.

3. Imitate others to learn, without their own characteristics

There are some students who do not have good grades, they do not have their own learning methods, and the learning methods they use are all the same as those of the top students. But they don't know that it's not necessarily right for them. Over time, the pace of learning cannot keep up or even regress.

In fact, what you need to do is not to match your own learning methods, but to understand yourself clearly. After understanding clearly, you can develop a set of learning methods that are suitable for you, and the methods of Xueba can also be used as a reference, but you can't blindly apply them. Only by doing so can we improve the efficiency of learning.

This phenomenon is all too normal. High school students study very hard, which is essentially the time to pay, but high school knowledge requires in-depth understanding, and then it will touch the analogy, learn the method, and face various changed topics, and need to find the corresponding knowledge points to apply. So hard work doesn't mean you will get good results.

1. The learning content has changed too much.

High school is a period of knowledge improvement, and the purpose of nine-year compulsory education is to improve the quality of the whole people, so the knowledge content is basic and easy to absorb. In high school, the purpose of screening out people who are suitable for academic research is to further their studies, so the knowledge is relatively professional, which is not a simple effort to achieve good results.

2. The way of thinking of men and women is different in their ability to understand the profession.

It is difficult for most girls to understand that table tennis balls float on the water by buoyancy, how to use the calculation method of friction, and most boys have not understood how to find the sense of English, understanding can be cultivated, but not for a while.

3. The learning method is different.

In fact, if the knowledge of compulsory education is memorized by rote, the results will not be too ugly. Most of the knowledge in high school requires problem-solving ideas and methods, which is a subtle ability, rather than being achieved by surprise problems.

After all, the time in high school is very tight, and there is a lot of knowledge that needs to be mastered, and the backlog of knowledge will cause great difficulties to the later learning, and it will be difficult to keep up later.

Not all hard work will pay off. It may be that you have a poor foundation in junior high school and can't catch up with the speed of high school, so you have to work hard to pass. If your junior high school foundation is not very good, you will have to study hard.

There are also other possibilities, your learning method is wrong, so your efficiency will be much lower, to find a set of your own learning methods, listen carefully in class, think more, ask more, do not understand, humbly ask the teacher for advice, review the knowledge you have learned every night, preview the knowledge to be learned tomorrow, recall the knowledge reviewed before going to bed, such a learning method, I believe that soon, your grades will improve.