What should girls be wary of when they live alone?

01 When you go to bed at night, make sure that the doors and windows are closed and that the key outside the door is pulled out

Some girls with more nervous nerves can be so careless that they don't pull out the key after opening the door, leaving the key in the door hole of the house. Don't say it's impossible, I've done it three times (though I'm not living alone, it's really dangerous). Before going to bed at night, be sure to check whether the doors and windows of the house are safe, after all, when you live alone, no one can help you in time.

02When someone knocks on the door or rings the doorbell, observe the cat's eye before opening the door

Many people have a habit of opening the door as soon as someone rings the doorbell and pokes her head out to see who it is. But this is not safe, when you open the door, if the other party is a bad person, it is difficult to force the door to close with the strength of a girl, not to mention that you will also poke your little head out of the crack. So, when you live alone, be sure to open the door only after you can see the visitor clearly through the cat's eye.

When you take out at 03, don't write the door number clearly, just write it down to the floor

This will prevent unscrupulous people from pretending to be food delivery personnel to trick you into opening the door. Now the house is generally a ladder almost, a ladder and a household is very few, when you don't have a specific room number, he should be in the public hall after sending it to the building**, at this time you can confirm whether this person is really a takeaway person, the so-called "harm to the heart of the heart, the heart of the defense of the heart is indispensable". This kind of thing has been reported on TV, so everyone must be aware (whether they live alone or not).

04When you go home at night, keep an eye out for anyone following you

When you go home at night, especially when you enter the elevator, if it's late, you should always keep an eye out for tailgating people. Start paying attention at your gatekeeper that tailgating people are generally not at the gate. When you get off the elevator, if you feel someone is following you, you run to your neighbor's house until the person is trailing away.

Or you call your friend and call your friend over.

When you live alone, first of all, don't tell others that you live alone, and then have your home address, and don't tell others, including friends and colleagues, that doors and windows must be closed when you sleep at night.

When a girl lives alone, try to lock the door when she returns home, and don't open the door when a stranger knocks. Especially when you go home, you must pay attention to safety.

When a girl lives alone, she should make sure that the door of the room is locked and do not go out casually. Don't go out shopping at night.

1. IntrovertedSome women live alone for a long time because they are introverted, like to be alone, not used to getting along with the opposite sex, and do not have the kind of mind to pay attention to the men around them, as long as they talk to the opposite sex, they will be shy, so after a long time, they will reject the opposite sex, feel that it is good to live alone, do not need to ask for the opinions of others to do anything, and there is no one around to point fingers.

2. Too pickyThe reason why women live alone for a long time is because they are too picky about the people around them, especially the opposite sex, if two people are together, the other party is not used to her lifestyle, and she is not willing to accommodate each other, it is easy to have conflicts, which is a very troublesome thing for women, so many women like to live alone and are unwilling to get along with the opposite sex.

3. Thinking too muchMost of the women who live alone for a long time think too much, for example, they are afraid of contact with the opposite sex, and the other party will think that she is very bad, which is the psychology of women's inferiority, and the inferiority complex is too much, so they naturally do not want to open their hearts and accept this kind of relationship with the opposite sex, which is caused by women thinking too much.

You can invite friends to come to the house to play more, some of them are alive. Remember to lock the door when you're alone, whether you've rested or not, and lock the door when you get home. I can't hear the door clearly when I'm doing laundry or in the bathroom, so I can't judge accurately.

Turn on the TV, there is some movement in the house, it is not so monotonous, try to go out to buy something to eat, reduce the number of times you order takeout, get along with your neighbors, you will need their help when you are not at home or this person. In this way, you will gradually become familiar with the environment you are in, and you will not be so scared.

I'm afraid this can only be overcome by myself.

If you can find someone to live with, that's the best, if not, then no one else can help you.

The girl is scared alone. Find someone to accompany you. Zhang Ling is here to accompany you. Or turn the lights on, put some **, and revel in it. Release from the heart.

This can find a female companion who shares a house with you, so that you will not be afraid alone, and you can also find your own friends to live with you.

Since a girl is afraid of living alone, then find someone of the same sex to live with her, then she should not be afraid anymore!

Turn on the lights and put **, wait to reduce the relief and see if it can have an effect, I don't know this, or find a girlfriend to live with this will be better.

It is recommended to rent or live in a well-managed community!

It's better to live alone, there is no burden, there is no sadness, and you will find that you can do a lot of things.

She is afraid of loneliness and loneliness, and she is even more afraid of her own safety, afraid that there will be no one to help her in case of sudden problems.

What should I do if a girl is afraid of living alone, what should I do if a girl is afraid of living alone.

1. People who are particularly shy.

For a long time, single women have been more likely to get along with the opposite sex, and not only because they haven't found something they like. When you take the initiative to focus your attention on men, but because you are so shy and do not communicate, you naturally and slowly reject the opposite sex.

Second, too picky.

If a woman has been single for a while, she may be too picky and feel that the men around her have shortcomings in all aspects. In fact, this idea is only based on one's own thoughts, always expecting the good, but the people around him cannot meet their own requirements and are always picky. In this way, becoming picky becomes more critical and leads to the feeling that all men are sick.

Three, always thinking too much.

Low self-esteem and conceit are the reasons for being single for a long time. Because if women with an inferiority complex often feel bad when communicating with men, they can't see themselves and self-depreciate for a long time. However, the conceited woman believes that a man should like himself and despise others when he is in a relationship, and naturally will not find a partner.

Four. Think of yourself as gay.

Often do not associate with people, and do not show which person can make you interested in him, and when it is long, there is a question: "Will I like women as much as men?" ”

Five. Indulge in fantasy.

When life is not satisfied, a woman who loves to watch soap operas will imagine herself as a heroine, a good boyfriend, and a happy life. If this continues, there will be no return to reality, otherwise the impact will be harmful.

Women have a lot of time, and women are very free to behave.

Women can make ordinary friends of the opposite sex in daily life, it can be seen that women have no scruples, even if they go home late and have more ordinary friends of the opposite sex, women do not have to worry about boyfriends or husbands will have opinions, single women will be unusually abundant on weekends or holidays, how to arrange how they want, usually stay at home, if the woman has already gotten rid of single, either invited by her boyfriend or need to accompany her husband or take care of the children, Through time and behavior, it can be basically concluded that women have been lacking men for a long time.

Second, the style of women's dressing and dressing often changes, and they often change their patterns.

There is a fact that you must unconditionally choose to admit, that is, women dress up mostly to attract men's attention, if women do not lack men, they will dress around a man's gaze for a long time, the same man's gaze will not change easily, even if the same man's gaze changes, the cycle will be extended indefinitely, but if you find that a woman's dressing style often changes, you can basically be sure that women try to cast a wide net, It is expected that this can attract more single men to turn back, and from the many men attracted, Ruyi Langjun will be carefully selected.

Third, women will go to two extremes, one is that they often talk about men, because they are talking on paper, so they will be imaginative, just empty talk, and the other is that they are not used to seeing couples or couples showing affection around, and there is a series of feelings caused by cynicism, and even strange theories such as showing affection will die quickly.

A woman's long-term lack of men is very likely to induce endocrine disorders, so her temperament is very unstable, and it is inevitable that she will go to one or two extremes, in fact, it is human nature, after all, women themselves may be duplicitous, subtle or reserved too much, there will be a situation of disguise or disguise, women who have been single for a long time, the inner world will be both complex and contradictory, in fact, long-term single women have been at a loss.

The psychology of women who have lived alone for a long time is like a glass of water, and the ripples are not alarmed.

Women who have lived alone for a long time are so beautiful.

They don't need to be deliberately embellished.

They don't have to worry about the trivial things of life.

They are faint like clouds floating in the sky every day.

We didn't care when she came and when she floated away.

We didn't care about her joys and troubles.

Because she's the same white every day.

When girls have just entered the society, some share a house with others, and some rent a house by themselves, so what do girls need to pay attention to when they live alone?

1. Before going to bed at night, be sure to check whether the doors and windows are closed.

Whether it is a boy or a girl, you must pay attention to safety when living alone. Especially when girls live alone, they should pay more attention to their personal safety. First of all, before going to bed at night, be sure to check again whether the doors and windows are closed, no matter how hot it is in summer, it is best not to sleep with the windows open, so as not to allow some unscrupulous people to enter the house through the windows.

2. Whether it's day or night, don't open the door to strangers.

Some criminals will pretend to be some couriers or other staff to knock on the door, whether it is day or night, do not open the door to them casually, be sure to determine the identity of the other party, and then decide whether to open the door. At night, no matter who knocks on the door, as long as you are not particularly familiar with the other person, you must not open it to them. After all, night is the peak time for criminals to commit crimes.

And girls must be more careful when they live alone, and don't trust others casually.

3. Don't bring home people you don't know.

For those friends who have just met, don't just take them home, and it's even better not to leave them your own residential address, lest these people have some bad ideas. And when you go home, especially when you go home at night, you must pay attention to whether there is anyone following, if this situation really occurs, you can choose to call the police at the appropriate time, or temporarily find a place with many people to take shelter. Of course, it's best not to go out casually at night, or come home very late.

When it comes to security, no matter how careful, it can't be overstated. When girls live alone, they should also keep in touch with their parents often, such as calling their parents every day, so that they can not only reassure their parents, but also get in touch in time when they encounter problems.

Because of the popularity of the movie "Door Lock", many people are particularly concerned about the situation of girls living alone, girls must protect themselves, especially women who live alone, especially some criminals may specifically target women who live alone to carry out misdeeds, so what do girls need to pay attention to when they live alone?

Many young people may choose some cheap neighborhoods because the rent is cheap, and this type of community is a share house, andSome neighborhoods don't have doormen, anyone can enter and exit, and at night there are no street lights in the neighborhood, so it looks darkAlthough it is cheaper, for the sake of our safety, try to find some communities that require facial recognition or access control, which can at least reduce a large part of the danger.

During this time, I have seen more than once that many women who live alone suspect that a stranger in their home is intruding, and even once saw a scene similar to that in the door lock, in this caseIt is necessary to have a small camera, which can monitor the situation in your home in real time, and you can also have a more accurate answer to some of your uncertain doubts, Some of the current small cameras** are also inexpensive, so the adaptability is quite high.

When encountering some criminals, our safety is the most important thing at any time, and money is really something outside the body at this time, so we must remain calm in this situation, and secondlyYou can find a way to leave the scene first, and call the police afterwards, the girl's strength is still relatively weak, so don't try to get the job done, and let the police figure it out as much as possible.

In addition to these, don't expose your home address, takeaway can also be delivered downstairs to get it, the express delivery is basically in the post station, so don't write your own address, I hope every girl has a day when you don't have to worry about this kind of thing.