I m scared to find a job now, I m afraid of hitting a wall, what should I do?

Let's think about why we are looking for a job.

What is the result of not looking for a job?

Looking for a job is first and foremost for survival, then for dignity, and finally for the realization of personal values.

The result of not working is that you will become a rat. Can you accept the feeling of eating soft rice or gnawing on the old people who are shouting and beating the rats on the street?

Can you stay at home for the rest of your life? Can the fear of finding a job outweigh this result?

What is hitting a wall? Do you think you're a genius, and others will rush to get any company? Even if you are a genius, there will be HR who will look down on you. Because one cannot be good at all areas.

It's also a good thing to hit a wall, you know that you are insufficient, so you will improve. Everyone has their own advantages, find a job that suits them and can do them, and do things first.

If you can't find a job you like for a long time, don't be too picky. A lot of work is hated and disliked at first, but you can find your value in the process of work.

Be confident and overcome your mentality.

Others can do their work well, and so can themselves.

Be ruthless, knowing that you have to find it when you hit a wall, this level always has to be passed. Don't be afraid to hold back.

Fear is all affected by psychological pressure, you must try to be afraid of what you want to do, the result is not important, the important thing is that you take this step and overcome yourself.

If you feel that you are socially afraid, you can work hard to communicate with others.

If you haven't been out of work for a long time, and then you suddenly go out to work, you will feel that you are relatively unfamiliar with some things, and you will feel that you have nothing to say because you have not communicated with office workers for a long time.

Because these two topics are easier to open up the conversation box of both parties when communicating with others, so that it will not lead to the point where there is nothing to say in the middle of the conversation. In addition, you can also take advantage of the rest to try to communicate with others, and greet each other when commuting to and from work, so that there will be no feeling of social fear over time.

Things to keep in mind when talking to people:

1. Don't always touch the back of your head, it will make people feel immature and have no social experience.

2. Don't play with things in your hands when talking, which will be considered disrespectful, some people always like to slap each other to attract attention when they speak, in fact, this action is very frivolous and disgusting to the other party.

3. Avoid facial movements, whether sitting, standing or talking to people, do not make faces, pick noses, pick ears and other ** actions as the face of guests or behind their backs. In this way, people will be perceived as restless, in a state of uneasiness.