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This is the principle of the forces and reactions of the universe. It's a pity that you didn't use your money on the right path. It's not a bad thing that your girlfriend is gone, she's not suitable for you, and she won't pay attention to you if she has no money.
From now on, you can continue from the beginning, as long as you have the body. Starting from filial piety to parents, everything you want to do is to be filial to your parents and no longer let your parents worry about it. If you have filial piety, God will help you.
In the past, you were fascinated by the devil of gambling, and you repented. In the future, stay away from all vices and only do good things. God does not punish the repentant.
As long as you work, you will have food. But don't think about the evil ways anymore, learn a lesson, and live an honest and peaceful life is your parents' greatest expectation. Then a virtuous wife will be sensed.
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Let's do it again, at least you once had 10w, I'm as old as you now, I haven't seen so much money, I don't have anything now, but also at work, little by little to make money, if you can ever earn 10w, I believe, you can still earn it back, as long as we still have a healthy body, make money tired, hard, or can slowly get up, if, just compare with friends who have everything around you, you will become more and more depressed, Just as if you didn't have anything before, now you start to make money, we have 5 years to 30, I think, no matter what, 10w, you have earned it back, find a suitable job for yourself, leave your friend's side a little, start anew, let your family rest assured, I hope you can quickly correct your mentality, don't gamble anymore......
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Brother, existence is the truth, in this world, there are more people who are worse than you, let yourself rest and rest, give yourself a vacation. It all started anew. Or it's good to read Zhang Defen's books. It's not appropriate to say more, let's fly.
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The meaning of life lies in fighting, as long as there is a breath, you have to fight. Think about it, every cell in your body is desperately growing. What's more valuable is the immune cells, in order to defend your body from the virus, they are on the front line of the war of resistance.
But you ordered them to surrender....You should be like your heart—beating hard, or you'll die, lest you wear out the cells that are working for you.
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Big brother, the prodigal son will not change his money! You're so young, and you still have a lot of opportunities. Failure is the capital of youth, I wish you a good life in the future, little brother, I will top you!
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Summary. When life is at its lowest: First thing:
Think about it calmly. When you are at a low point in your life, you will certainly feel lost and tormented, but if you think about it from a different angle, it is also a test and exercise of your will, determination and courage. The real strong man must mature after a thousand tempers, just like the famous saying "The sky will descend on the people......"Besides, only by learning the lessons of the trough will we make as few mistakes as possible in the future.
When life is at its lowest: First thing: calm down and think about it.
When you are at a low point in your life, you will certainly feel lost and tormented, but if you think about it from a different angle, it is also a test and exercise of your will, determination and courage. The real strong man must mature after a thousand tempers, just like the famous saying "The sky will descend on the people......"Besides, only by learning the lessons of the trough will we make as few mistakes as possible in the future.
The second thing: get out for a walk. After falling into the trough of life, it is often difficult to make a comeback, eager to get out of the trough, but will suffer another blow, you might as well leave for a while, go to the distance to go around, to the deep mountains and rivers, to the seaside and river, take a walk, scatter your heart, look far away, the country is picturesque, return to nature, green wild flowers and plants, fountain pearls, will wash the troubles and pain in your heart, clean up the chaotic thoughts, restore reason and confidence, and help you make a comeback.
The third thing: compare up and down. Although after falling into a low point in life, it is a period of frustration and confusion in life, comparing with classmates, colleagues, fellow villagers, and friends, although it may be less than the above, but it is often more than the bottom.
This seems to be a kind of Ah Q spirit, but it can adjust your mentality in time, so that you can maintain psychological coordination and balance, and you will not lose confidence in yourself because of a temporary trough, do not lose your sharpness due to small setbacks, and do not lose your ambition due to temporary frustration.
The fourth thing: put it aside for a while. It is often said that when you fall, you get up, but it is not necessarily necessary to get up right away, and it is okay to lie on the ground for a while.
When you are at a low point in your life, if it is not something fatal, you might as well put it aside for a while and talk about it after a while. Maybe after a while, you already have a correct understanding, or you don't care about this matter anymore, or you have a more ambitious goal, this setback is no longer a big deal, and you can get out of the trough smoothly.
The fifth thing: the idea of having fun. People are not machines, when they are at a low point in life, don't blindly squeeze and force themselves, find ways to make yourself happy appropriately, and do something to make yourself happy, for example, reading an interesting book, listening to a cross talk, watching a sketch, and diluting the frustration will also help you get out of the trough.
Sixth: Roar loudly. When you are at a low point in your life, it is normal to feel confused, tormented, and emotionally depressed, and the key is to solve them, and yelling loudly is a good solution.
You can find a place where there is no one and shout it out loud, or you can sing a song, whether it is good or not, focusing on venting stress and all kinds of negative emotions to bring yourself back to normal.
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When people are at a low point in their lives. It's not terrible to encounter setbacks, the key is how to get out. From a psychological point of view, when you are in a difficult situation, keep doing it, and you can quickly get out of the trough.
Proper escape from our cultural traditions always requires us to be "strong" and work hard to fight the waves and face the wind and rain. But many times, this leads to further exacerbation of the problem. There's no shame in running away, and there's nothing wrong with self-deception, which in itself is an innate psychological defense mechanism for us to avoid us breaking down due to excessive stress.
When you're at a low point, you don't necessarily need to swim against the current, maybe just a good rest and a vacation for your soul. When maintaining a healthy lifestyle is at a low point in life, we tend to feel lower and have poor control over ourselves, so it is easy to have behaviors that spoil our bodies. Staying up late, overeating, stopping exercise, etc.
These behaviors can destroy our physical condition, and the deterioration of our physical condition can significantly affect our mental state, making us more depressed and sad.
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This sentence means that you have experienced glory and trough, and only then can you see the truth of some facts, and you will understand some things.
Some people say that to look at the depth of a person, it is not to look at the scenery when he is on stage, but to look at his figure when he is off the stage; Not by what he achieves when he is proud, but by how he is when he is down. Where there are good times, there will be bad times. In good times, it is the time when personal development is the fastest, do not be fluttering and "carried away by the so-called victory", but always reflect on yourself, so that "I am three times a day and three times my body".
When encountering adversity, we must withstand the test, and we must not be negative and pessimistic, discouraged, and not "break the jar"; We should strive to overcome setbacks, meet new challenges, and achieve the idea of "getting up from the best when we fall", and always maintain an enterprising spirit, so that the success achieved is success in the real sense.
Many people have been running for wealth and fame all their lives, and they are complacent and complacent when they have gained, but instead of being uncomfortable, they have become more serious, and as a result, they have responded to the proverb that "people die for money, and birds die for food", the more wealth they have, the more they lose, and the higher their status, the heavier they fall. Don't take fame and wealth too seriously, because you are not happy or poor. Keeping a normal heart, being calm, and being more contemplative is the real blessing.
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When life is at a low point, it is even more important to strengthen your confidence, because people are more likely to be confused and doubt themselves during the low period. You must know that no one's life can be smooth sailing, and when you are in the trough, it may be the time to go uphill, although the road is difficult and dangerous, it may be that after this slope is the broad road. Come on!
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Yes, my own experience in the trough is the most profound:
1. Friends, you can double your happiness and halve your sadness. Many people just think of their friends when they are proud of their spring breeze and share the joy of their success with their friends. In fact, when a man is in a low period, he should think of his friends and talk to friends about your pressure and anxiety, which will make your mood much better and more courageous to face the trough.
Once a person reaches the trough of the Peibi travel period, you must remember these words, so that you can slowly get through this stage.
2. Don't be afraid of the rainy weather on the way, the person who gives you an umbrella will come sooner or later. I wanted to live for myself, but I was bound by life. I wandered through the trough more than once, but each time I gritted my teeth and survived, because my heart longed for a distant place, a distant place that I had never reached.
Third, the horse has a thousand miles of journey, no riding can not go by itself, people have the ambition to soar to the sky, no luck can not be reached. Maxima is determined to travel thousands of miles, but without the control of Bole, it is impossible to gallop freely, people have dreams, but without the right opportunity, it is not possible to succeed. When you are at a low point, it is important to remember that it is not that you are incapable, but that you lack the opportunity to appreciate your Bole and enable you to achieve great things!
Once you reach a low point, you must remember these words, so that you can slowly get through this stage.
Fourth, everything will pass, maybe you have experienced a lot of bad things, encountered setbacks and difficulties, been misunderstood, deceived, betrayed, slandered, ......No matter how bad your situation is, don't despair. Life is a long road, the obstacle in front of you is just a small level, just cross it, there must be a road before the car to the mountain, there is no hurdle in life that cannot be passed. Pushkin Zeng Hui socks wrote:
Everything will pass, and what has passed will become a kind memory. ”
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When life is at a low point, don't bother anyone, walk step by step, eat one bite at a time, and survive the trough, it is spring, when life is at a low point, you must be ambitious, don't bother others, and don't give up on yourself.
The rich have distant relatives in the mountains, and the poor in the downtown no one asks! ”
It is human nature to tend to be inflammatory, everyone is willing to make friends with people who are better than themselves, like to associate with people who can bring benefits to themselves, and no one wants to take the initiative to approach people who are not as good as themselves.
Society and people's hearts are always pragmatic and poke the heart, we must face up to it, people are poor, there must be few people who help you, but there are many people who see your jokes; There are very few people who take you seriously, there are many people who don't take you seriously, and when you enter a low point in life, don't have too much hope for favors.
Your worth, your life, because you are poor, you will be people".
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Don't despair when you're at your lowest. There is a saying called bottoming out**, it has reached the lowest point, can it be worse**? Cheer up, fight hard, do your best, your mouth will get better and better, and when it's time to get ahead, you're more likely to get ahead.
People say that ten years in Hedong and ten years in Hexi, don't look at people who are down for a while, maybe one day they will be developed and envied.
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Rising to the challenge is the real answer.
You can do business, set up a stall near the university town, and do the business of college students is the best thing to do, and you can use it as a start! Being alive is the best thing, are you afraid that you won't find something to do? I was born to be useful! If you can't learn to drive, you can be a driver and a bodyguard for a rich person, come on!
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