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Anonymous users2024-02-11Since ancient times, it has been a big problem between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
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Anonymous users2024-02-10The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has existed since ancient times.
Regarding the question of whether I was upset when I saw my mother-in-law or I was upset when I saw my mother-in-law and saw other people.
If you're in a bad mood and you're upset when you see everyone, it's recommended to adjust your mood and look at others.
If you are a single pair of wood individuals, such as your mother-in-law, it is recommended to keep a low profile to regulate your emotions.
I'm here to send you a word. Hope it works for you.
If you want to be a qualified daughter-in-law, handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
If you want to be a smart woman, handle the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
If you want to be a qualified daughter-in-law, handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
If you want to be a wise mother, handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Above, thanks.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09When she is airy, train yourself.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08Upstairs, I especially understand your feelings, I also live with my mother-in-law and suffer from moderate depression....It's so disturbing.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07If conditions permit, it is better for couples to move out. Only come back for the New Year's holiday. In this way, if you are not under one roof, there will be no contradiction after a long time. Your parents-in-law will miss you from time to time. As soon as you return, they will be happy.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06Move out to live, stay away, out of sight.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05Then tell them, you said old witch and old man, you are doing this to me now, be careful that when you die, no one will collect your body for you.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04I hate his family as much as you do. Especially his grandfather. I can't stand it when I see that face, it's not like I can move out, I don't live with them, it's better for you to make your husband understand and make him have corns with his parents.
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Anonymous users2024-02-03Forget it, so as not to make it difficult for both sides of the husband!
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Anonymous users2024-02-02Since ancient times, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have been natural enemies. But you still have to get along well, otherwise it will be difficult for your husband to be caught in the middle, take the initiative to be nice to her and she will be good to you, if she is unreasonable, then it doesn't matter, scold her.
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Anonymous users2024-02-01Asking questions doesn't feel like anything like her lifestyle.
Question: She plays cards every day, and there is nothing else in her head.
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Anonymous users2024-01-31At least you can still be upset with your wife, and I can't be upset with anyone I want to talk to, and no one wants to be more upset with me.
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Anonymous users2024-01-30Don't bother, you annoy your mother-in-law now, and your daughter-in-law will hate you even more in the future.
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Anonymous users2024-01-29That's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are never opposites. It must not be his own mother.
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Anonymous users2024-01-28Mother-in-law just can't count on it, my mother-in-law is also all day long to put a stinky face on us to see, I see her like that, I am very upset, are working outside a day when I come home from work, how happy I have to pull a bitter melon face at every turn to talk, love to ignore and owe her. It's a blessing to be a good mother-in-law! View the original post
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Anonymous users2024-01-27Being able to be a good mother-in-law was a blessing from my previous life, and I didn't have that blessing. The family has a scripture that is difficult to read, fortunately I did not marry far away, although it is a flash marriage, but married in front of my parents' eyes, love and money are fake, my parents are the biggest spiritual support in my life. View the original post" for adoption.
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Anonymous users2024-01-26If I don't feel upset, I will discuss it with my husband. Separated. It was really annoying to live with my parents-in-law. I'm also in a troubled mood. Depressed.
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Anonymous users2024-01-25I also feel the same way, I live with my parents-in-law after I got married, I feel very uncomfortable, I want to open it, think about the good side, for example, I don't have to cook when I get home from work, I don't have to bring my own children, there are still a lot of good ones.
It's better to let go of your heart.
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Anonymous users2024-01-24Try not to clash head-on.
Although she is a mother-in-law and her husband's mother, she is an elder after all, try to avoid head-on conflicts, no matter how you say it, it is a family, if you really tear your face, it will be very embarrassing to get along in the future.
2. Convince yourself.
In fact, sometimes the first impression is not necessarily accurate, you may see what your mother-in-law did or said for a while, so you have a bad impression of her, but you should try to convince yourself that it is only a one-sided, incomplete view, and convince yourself to re-acquaint yourself with a fair and neutral attitude, maybe she is not what you imagined.
3. Enhance understanding.
You can get to know your mother-in-law from the side through your husband or neighbors, or you can try to communicate more with your mother-in-law, and if you know more, you will understand many things, for example, the average old man is used to living a hard life when he is young, so it seems to be stingy in the eyes of young people, but if you really understand her at that time, you may understand and even admire her.
4. Respect elders.
No matter how to say that she is an elder, respecting the elders is the minimum politeness of the juniors, if you really can't do it, you might as well think about it, if it is your own mother, if her daughter-in-law treats her badly, then the mother should be sad and sad, maybe she can be better to her. Try to treat her as an elder and a mother, and it will feel different.
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Anonymous users2024-01-23Out of sight, out of mind, or taking her face for your own mother's.
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Anonymous users2024-01-22Married to my husband for 2 years, my in-laws are also very good to me, the house is down at the end of this year, these 2 years have been living with my in-laws, they are not very good, I can still be very capable at home, but I am also diligent, they are very good We get along quite well, but I am looking at my husband's face So I don't like to worry about small things Try to avoid friction In fact, I am 100 unwilling to live together, knowing that they will be separated at the end of this year, I am very happy, but the closer I am, the more urgent I wish I would move tomorrow, my father-in-law is not in good health The brain is dull Sometimes I go to the toilet and don't close the door Sometimes I change clothes in the room and he forgets to knock on the door There will be a few times this kind of misunderstanding Mother-in-law is not in good health to cook a meal on the back pain The face is not very good I also have a job Sometimes I want to go home to eat ready-made I once have a stomachache and ask for leave to go home Thinking that there is a hot meal at home My husband is not at home Just come back with nothing Just say that you can just get some food by yourself As soon as I talk about it, I think that my mother is only good for my own mother Other people's mothers are always other people's mothers So I can't treat her like my own mother This is how the estrangement of people arises At the critical moment, only your own mother will take care of you without asking for anything in return Living with them They always make a mess in the living room and kitchen Over time, I don't bother to clean up They always use bad health as a reason What about me If I want to be lazy or something, it's like I'm going to abuse them So this kind of life is very depressing Maybe it's my own bad mentality In short, the longer you live together, the more you hate them psychologically What should I do? But I'm all suppressed in the bottom of my heart
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