100 points! Solve my lifelong mental and emotional problems!! leave your comment .

Updated on psychology 2024-05-08
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You're a very strange person ...

    This is a psychological problem, so I recommend reading more books on psychology.

    I also came from that era, many children have had this kind of inferiority complex of yours, this is not how much help others can give, the most important thing is whether they can overcome it.

    Try to communicate with strangers.

    Try to express yourself like someone else.

    You have the courage to speak out about your distress on the Internet, why are you silent in reality?

    Lu Xun said that "if you don't explode in silence, you will perish in silence", think about it yourself, does it make sense?

    It's suffocating to yourself.

    In fact, the current education does not allow students to fall in love, and you have also seen it, aren't you affected? Didn't get into a good school!

    Although these external factors will play a great role in inducing a person, it is still yourself who decides everything! Why can't love be turned into motivation?

    With all due respect: one: although you are physically mature, your mental age is still young (this is a common characteristic of many students now), immature, and not thoughtful!

    2: You care too much about what others think of you, and you want to be a "perfect" person with a strong sense of "vanity".

    Three: You are not a brave person, you are very hesitant to deal with things, and your mind is always not clear.

    Four: You belong to the "sullen type" - refers to the psychological enthusiasm but the appearance is as cold as water, and you are not good at expressing your emotions!

    Based on the above points, I suggest: 1. You usually communicate more with your parents and boldly say some of your thoughts, after all, it is always your parents who really care about yourself! They will understand you, they have been through more than we have, and they can give you a satisfactory answer!

    3: Don't pay too much attention to your appearance, note: You are already a beautiful man here, hehe, you can go to the hospital for correction if you have dental problems. No, you're another MM killer!

    4: Learn to think independently, don't rely on thoughts, and be decisive and refined! These are all things that you have to accumulate in your daily life, and you can't exercise them in three days or two days.

    5: Your willpower is very weak, greatly influenced by the outside world, you can't control yourself, it's best for you to have a clear goal in life, otherwise you will be very empty, and your mind will be very messy, so that you want to do everything, you can't do anything well, and your mind is blank.

    Again, read more books that are good for the body and mind, especially psychology. Very helpful for yourself

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Your question. There is only one.

    That is: low self-esteem and lack of self-confidence.

    Or that you are an overly perfectionist.

    You don't care about what others affirm about you.

    But I always feel that I can't do it here.

    Not going to work there.

    Typical depressive nature.

    Ever heard of it? A beautiful girl loves.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    When I was a child, I would have a period of inexplicable inferiority, nothing. It's gone before you know it, it's not that you always mind the past, life will continue to update, and you're still young. Focus on the present and the future.

    Learn to play sports, read more celebrity biographies, listen to their success stories, and after a while you will find that you have become better. The endurance will also be greatly enhanced.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't think it's a simple question about you, and it's not something you can change in a sentence or two, you're a person with a knot. I think your heart knot is your so-called crooked teeth shortcoming, that is, maybe others don't pay attention to your teeth at all, only you feel bad about yourself, and excessive cover-up and avoidance will only make your heart knot worse. I don't think that no matter what I say, you can't just feel like your teeth are good and don't have low self-esteem, even if it's true!

    So, I suggest that you go for a tooth surgery first, which is very easy, and there are two advantages to doing this, one is that your teeth can become better, and the other is that after you have done it, you will feel that your only flaw is gone, and then you will become more confident. After that, everything was settled.

    So now, I just want to tell you that you can attract a girl that many boys like, which is enough to make you feel proud, if you can, try to accept it, and start a good love, after all, love is a good medicine for the wound of the heart!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This is a very common phenomenon, I was in junior high school too, obviously like a person, but to make a completely different action, now I regret it, probably this is the stage that we have to go through when we are young, we have to slowly learn how to love people, how to accept the love of others, how to refuse at the right time.

    I was young at the time.

    Don't be impatient, slowly come out ...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Let's go for orthodontics.

    Almost 3,000 yuan or so can be done.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think since it is because of the root of the tooth, it is better to find a better dentist and do the beauty of the teeth, similar to porcelain teeth.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's really similar to me, but you're better than me, at least you're handsome, I'm not handsome, it's really too similar, it's like looking at your own history. Bad teeth can be straightened, and now it's very convenient to have QQ contact, I'm a sophomore, and I've just regained contact with her in junior high school, and it's nothing to say hello, everyone greets like this! Only by facing her can the problem be solved quickly.

    I don't want to talk to her at the beginning, but I know that she likes me, I like her, she is still a class tweed, I haven't seen her for five years but I still feel it, but after contacting, I have found that it feels very light, and I have to look forward after the past. Here's how I feel. Our teacher told us:

    Doudou grows in**You're not in a hurry? on someone else's face. I think the teeth are the same, really, you are much better than me, at least the mouth is a handsome guy, I want to be a handsome guy I'm afraid to cover up, I'm also a little autistic, but my method is to find my own world, with like-minded friends, the troubles are slowly gone, a little messy, a little far away, I hope to help you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    How can today's children be like this?

    I was naïve and bad at the beginning.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Three words ·· Simple love!

    Nanchang small n stay! (You need to communicate with me directly with Baidu Hi)!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't know how old you are now, but if you're younger than 20, then I can say you're completely normal and now that you're aware of this problem, you're going to be fine in the future.

    There are many successful speakers who will mention stage fright when you were a child, this is normal, since you realize the problem, you have to start to improve, it is normal for teenagers to feel inferior, as you get older, you will become more and more confident, provided that you consciously talk more.

    As for that woman, if you like it, just hit **, don't miss it, or treat it as a good memory when you were a child.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Through thinking in many ways, the father may have three thoughts: 1 The son is pampered and hopes to train him 2 The father is afraid that the child will watch TV for a long time and it will not be good for the eyes (the probability of this idea is the lowest) 3 The father wants him to know a truth In this society, there are not only things that you want, sometimes in order to survive, you have to do what you are not willing to do, he wants his son to be a smooth person, otherwise he will be bullied. The son has a verbal conflict with his father, it can be said that the son himself is at fault, and the son does not understand the father, maybe he does not know the father's hard work Impatience with his father's education (because in the title he said not to tell me these truths) The son has a bad temper 2, he is not tactful enough to deal with the world, and he does not know how to consider the problem from many aspects Consider the problem from the side of the son and the father The center is the father for the good of the son, and the test rate problem should not always think on the dark side, but consider it from many aspects I hope this answer can help the landlord.

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