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A postpartum mother, after all, is also in the recovery period, coupled with the fatigue of taking care of children, it is inevitable that there will be melancholy. Now that it's happened, let's face it. Communicate with your wife again, send your two-year-old child to the nursery (about 300 yuan a month of childcare fees, note that it is not a kindergarten, but a nursery, and then send it to the kindergarten after the child reaches the age of 2 and a half), leave the small one to the wife to bring, see if she is willing.
If you want to, it's easy to do, and then you can basically solve the problem. If you don't want to, you can ask your wife to come out to work, ask someone to take care of the children, and use your wife's income to pay for the other's money, which can be regarded as balancing expenses and income. No matter how difficult it is, it is only two or three years, when the child grows up to the stage of being able to enter the kindergarten, the troubles of taking the child can basically be solved.
Don't be discouraged, show the dedication of being a parent and get things right.
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If you are a responsible and responsible man, no matter how hard it is, you must also take on the responsibility of raising your children yourself - even if your wife doesn't care. If not, you can do whatever you want.
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It's already tiring to take care of children, not to mention that it's even more difficult to bring children nowadays, and how much financial burden there is.
Regardless of girls and boys, in fact, for ordinary families, one is enough.
Calculate how much is fifteen thousand a year or ten years, and when you graduate from school, it is simply an astronomical amount.
My family has been in the family for more than five months, and the family has taken turns to take the lead.
Really tired.
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After the son and daughter-in-law divorce, regardless of the child, the child will be handed over to the old man to take care of, and the old man can talk to the son and daughter-in-law at this time. Although the two of them chose to divorce, they are still the parents of the child, so they have the obligation to raise the child. If they are not willing to spend time with their children, they can also pay their children living expenses every month, which is equivalent to giving money for their elders to help raise their children.
If the son and daughter-in-law ignore this and are unwilling to pay for it, then the old man can directly choose to use the law to solve this matter. <>
The old man should not think that the other party is his own son and always help his son to take care of it, because children will always grow up one day, and children are inseparable from their parents. If the old man does not solve this matter sooner, then it will only be the children who will be hurt in the end. Therefore, in the case of unsuccessful communication, the elderly must choose to go through the legal procedures in time, only in this way can the normal life of the child be guaranteed, and the child can grow up in a suitable environment.
Moreover, after all, there is a generation gap between the elderly and children, so there is also a problem of inability to educate children. Therefore, the elderly must let the children's biological parents take on the corresponding responsibilities, and only if they are willing to take charge of the children's future life will be happier. The old man's behavior today is not to find a way back for himself, but to pave the way for the child, so that the child will not have problems in his future life.
Nowadays, there are more and more irresponsible people, and when irresponsible people grow up, they become the parents of their children, and if they are really not responsible for their children, then the children's future lives will be greatly affected. I hope that everyone can remind themselves not to get married casually through this incident, and try not to build a new family if you don't take into account the problems after marriage, otherwise it is likely that you will not be able to take on the responsibility of the family.
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I think first of all, you can put forward an education to your son and tell him that as long as it is irresponsible behavior, and secondly, I think you can use the law to protect your rights and interests.
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You can take the initiative to communicate with these two people. You can also tell the other person that you are particularly tired in life. Return the child to the child's parents and let the child's parents take care of themselves.
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You should communicate with your son and daughter-in-law in a timely manner, and tell both parties that although they have divorced, the child is innocent and has to bear the responsibility of being a parent.
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At this time, you should talk to your son well, the child can't let grandma and grandpa take it all the time, which is not conducive to the child's mental health growth, and you should let your son take responsibility.
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Summary. Hello, because the child is the bond between husband and wife, and the wife does not let you bring the two-year-old child back to his hometown, which means that he may not want to divorce you so much, but just wants to make you change through divorce.
Hello, because the child is the bond between husband and wife, and the wife does not let you bring the two-year-old child back to his hometown, which means that he may not want to divorce you so much, but just wants to make you change by separating from the hole and marrying you.
It's been a cold war for more than a month, and the attitude is very resolute not to let me take it back to my hometown to live for a few days, and I want to live in Xiaobi for a few days, and my parents haven't seen it since I was born.
Then that's absolute selfishness.
It shows that he doesn't look down on your family at all.
I work in other places to support my family, my wife has no income and no job, I earn less living expenses and lack of care, there are no other mistakes, such as domestic violence, gambling, abandonment, knowing that drugs and other things are quietly traveling, I am poor and incompatible.
Yes, he just hates you and looks down on you.
He wants to possess the child alone.
That's why she doesn't let her children go to your house.
So how do I try to bring the child back is just to see my parents, we are both 2 married, I have a son in the second year of college, she has an illegitimate child who is mentally retarded and lost to her ex-boyfriend, and now has a child together, I am 42 years old, she is 38 years old, and she has a strong personality and does not talk about the lead and the potatoes, so I made up my mind to leave.
Have you ever brought this child?
Close and grind the key her earning ability is too poor, at least I still have 10,000 yuan a month, she works at most four or five thousand, the child is less than two years old and spends more than 110,000 yuan, and the eldest son's college expenses are more than 30,000 a year, including living expenses, so I am chilled, she also thinks that my economic distribution tendency is too cautious for the eldest son, too tired, has been complained, and has not said a word of concern? Now I don't know what effective way to take my children back to their hometown.
If you have been giving him money during this process, you can fight for your visitation rights through legal means.
Once you have visitation rights, there is no way for him to stop you from seeing the children.
There is no right of visitation in marriage, and this provision is only available in the process of suing for divorce.
That's right, Zhao Xun, after the divorce, the clan will go to see it blindly, now that he hides the child, you can't do anything about it, the more you tear up with his mother, the more harm it will do to the child.
So you've decided to get a divorce, then just go for it, as long as you have child support and visitation rights.
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My wife said that I don't want me and the children anymore after the divorce, and after the divorce, the parents' custody and visitation rights to the children are guaranteed by law. In China, according to the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China, after divorce, the custody of children belongs to both parents, and if they cannot be exercised jointly, the court will make a judgment. Therefore, if your wife asks for a divorce and gives up custody, you have the right to apply to the court for custody and fight for the opportunity to spend time with your children.
At the same time, you will also have to bear the corresponding legal responsibilities, such as paying child support, etc.
My wife said that the divorce does not require me and the children to be legally responsible.
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My wife said that I don't want my children and me in a hail divorce, and after the divorce, the parents' custody and visitation rights to the children are guaranteed by law. In China, according to the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China, after divorce, the custody of children belongs to both parents, and if they cannot be exercised jointly, the court will make a judgment. Therefore, if your wife asks for a divorce and gives up custody, you have the right to apply to the court for custody and fight for the opportunity to spend time with your children.
At the same time, you will also have to bear the corresponding legal responsibilities, such as paying the child's maintenance and other wheel books.
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Individuals can have a profound impact. You need to consider how to deal with your ex-wife in the event of a breakup, and how to deal with the relationship with your ex-wife, such as the division of joint property, financial responsibilities and custody responsibilities of the children. In addition, for children, they need to adapt to change and manage their relationship with both parents.
Divorce can have a negative impact on a child's growth and development, so it is important to pay attention to the emotional and mental health of the child and minimize the adverse effects as much as possible.
My wife said that she didn't want me and the children, and she said that her parents also agreed, and she wanted to force me to divorce and force me to move out if she liked someone else.
My wife said that she didn't want me and the children, and she said that her parents also agreed, and she wanted to force me to divorce and force me to move out if she liked someone else.
I'm sorry to hear about your predicament. This is indeed a very difficult and painful time, but don't give up, with the help of the law, you have many options to solve this problem, as a party in marriage, you have the right to demand an equal division of family property and ensure that the interests of your children are fully protected, including child custody and custody issues. We recommend that you consult with a professional lawyer as soon as possible and read the relevant regulations to understand your rights and responsibilities.
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