Hello buddy. Now I m a little confused, brother, I hope my buddy can give some advice

In fact, you know very well in your heart that you are impetuous, have no direction, and always want to reach the sky in one step. In fact, how can there be such a good thing in the world, the growth of ability needs time to sharpen, do not practice in winter and summer, and want to obtain peerless martial arts, that is a fantasy, what you want is precipitation, even if a sales job is not profitable, but you position yourself, no matter how difficult it is for half a year or a year, you have to do it, and go all out to do it, you will have a harvest, don't think about how much you pay, how much you gain, than these can only make you doubt and confused, because as the saying goes, good people are more popular than dead people, you just have to work hard, Find a way to work skillfully, after half a year or a year, your ability will naturally grow, otherwise it will be difficult for you to progress in 5 years, and people's ability is slowly improved in the process of doing things and thinking. What do you think?

Who says insurance isn't a good job? I personally bought a lot of insurance, I think insurance is very good, now the society is a capital society, insurance can protect your social rights and interests and property safety and life safety, in the case of your own ability to pay, is the first choice of investment. I'm not saying that you want to do insurance, I mean, there are people doing everything, there is no good or bad, since you have chosen, do it well, it's very simple.

Who are you looking for?

Uh, are you talking to someone you know (buddy)?

It's all done at this point, how can you be a friend? Now that you have done your duty, there is no need to be sad. Such a friend is not worth making, but there is no need to be a stranger.

You have to say hello when you meet, don't you just don't give him a heart. I've been through it too, and I can understand how you feel, and it's very uncomfortable. It doesn't matter, it's not that we lose him, it's that they lose the person who really treats him.

Dude, you were hurt by your brother, and now in this society, it is normal for this situation to occur; Because such people, because of such things, it is not worth really, people, it is not just a person who can be a brother, such as this kind of selfish, looking at money more than feelings, it is obviously not in line with your group. If you pay before, you should know someone. When you meet someone and say three points, you can throw away all your hearts in the end; On the road ahead, be cautious in making friends.

People who are heavy on feelings can't afford to hurt.

If it's me, you and I have torn my face with me when I ask for money, so what else do I have to take care of? It's good to be a stranger, can I still be a friend, I'm cheap.

You are still too young, you know a lot after experiencing it, now does not mean later, you can't forget it now, you will figure it out later.

For friends, he can't be regarded as unkind and unjust, he can only be said to be selfish, and he can't make deep friends with such people! Otherwise, it will be affected by it, or your relationship is tense, in short, it will do more harm than good, and I personally think that people who take money too seriously in front of their friends are not very good, and such people should not have any close friends! See for yourself!

Other people's suggestions are always suggestions, and the final decision is you....

Let's find out why he needs money so badly! If there is no other reason, just because you owe him money, you can't make friends anymore! I treat the most general person with treatment!

If he had been in the way, he would have died.

Don't be in a hurry to make a decision, observe him for a while to see if he has anything unspeakable, don't find out later that you have misunderstood him, you will be even more uncomfortable. When you're sure he's doing it because he's too selfish, don't do it.

You didn't ask Dai why he was in such a hurry to ask for money. Maybe he's like that, maybe there's something unspeakable?

Best friends show up when you need it most

Tianzhan is not very far from the bridge, if it is an afternoon, it is a chartered car.

It's about 300. About 4 hours.

When you see people, you talk about people, and when you see ghosts, you talk nonsense.

Hello, seeing your problem, I feel that you are just ordinary people who meet in society, of course, after that, there are some righteous anger and the like, whether it is buddies or friends, you need to have a deeper understanding of each other, what does he help you fight, you help him fight, you respect the freedom of others, friends will be each other, rely on each other, help each other, but I feel that what you said Your relationship is more like the previous gangster buddies Maybe they are used to each other and are not very familiar with anything, but all in all, no matter what the relationship is, it can't go beyond the most basic order Why What do you let people do, they must be real friends, and there is no reason for this, the relationship between two people must at least be self-reliant and self-reliant, as for you in the future, whether you want to continue the buddy relationship It depends on the situation Say some ideas It is possible for you to develop for the better You have to communicate and respect each other.

No matter who you associate with, don't believe it easily, and don't doubt it easily if you believe it, I personally dislike the person you are talking about.

A person's life is not a constant layer, he was good when you first interacted, it does not mean that he will always be good in the future, so you don't blame him for changing too fast, making you unbelievable and unacceptable, he just took a different path from you, and gradually drifted away from you;

Look at your description of him, I believe you still have brotherly love for him, but the way is not the same, since he chose this path, and you can't change his mind to stop him, then you can only break your brotherhood early, no matter how expensive the spoiled bread is, you can only throw it away, and cutting the mess with a quick knife is the solution, the long pain is better than the short pain, for your own good, or divide it.

Brothers, settle accounts. Have you ever heard that??? If people do not do it for themselves, the heavens and the earth will be destroyed.

Although no one wants to say this, it is an eternal truth. There are no true brothers in this world. You are too young, child, and society needs to be experienced.

The more I experience and the more I think, the smoother the road under my feet will be. Back to your question, don't be a friend of wine and meat. Finally, send a word to the landlord:

The right way in the world is the vicissitudes of life.

You live in a world that is too small, you know too few people, do you have any other friends besides your brother? You ask yourself, in fact, as you get older, you will see more and more people, and your world will get bigger and bigger, and many things will not be so important compared to the past. So the key is that you learn to get in touch with the bigger world and not stay in the world you are in.

In fact, everyone will be reluctant to give up on the past, because you have invested too much emotion in it, you are reluctant, but one day you will come out of the previous world for various reasons, this is inevitable, so you don't have to be too contradictory, this is the problem that everyone will inevitably encounter when growing up, the most important thing is that you should start from now on to make friends that really belong to you, belong to your brothers, in fact, it is not so easy to find a like-minded person in this life, this is normal, a man, as he grows older, and should learn to enjoy solitude. Of course, being able to make friends with brothers is also a blessing in this life!! As it turned out, it was hard.

Make more friends, friends will make your world bigger and richer...

I don't know what to say.

Everyone has their own joys, sorrows, and sorrows.

My words can only be a suggestion.

You're elsewhere this brother.

Keep going.

It's only you who will be sad.

Actually, my true brother, I think it's okay to be such a brother, I have also had such a friend, the reason why I say it's a friend, because I think he is not my brother at all, I have a lot of brothers now, not to brag about it, which one can also stick a knife in my ribs, you are still young, you haven't experienced the baptism of society, and there are some things you may still not see clearly. My advice to you is that there are brothers all over the world, but he is not suitable for you, just like a partner. If you don't suggest it, you can tell me if there's anything uncomfortable, mine.

At least I really understand what the word brother means.

People change. Actually, it's not just him who has changed, and you've changed too......Since you have so much unhappiness in your heart, you are no longer the same person who was moved by your heart. He is no longer the same person he used to be, it is better to part ways.

As long as you don't do some stupid things because of righteousness, this kind of brother should still be able to get along.

People need to run in with each other, because he has helped you before, you let him ask unscrupulously is not good, he has developed a habit, I have encountered a similar situation, only when he meets the person who asks for him, you will be comfortable walking together, relying on you alone will only get worse and worse.

People change, your friends change. Stay away from him at last.

A rotten person, but also a treasure. Brother is the one who will take care of you and help you at a critical time. By your description, you should not contact such a friend at all, regardless of whether you think he is a sa.

He thinks to use your should, eat your should. When the stepfather is a whole man, the hammer is a brother.

Yes, friendship requires understanding, trust, and respect, and you have to understand your brother in order to obtain the "golden key" of friendship

How to say it! In fact, a brother is sometimes like a lover, you want him to care about you to the same extent as you care about him, or you want your best friend to put gold on your face or make you say something. Usually you also care about what you do for him!

But what is a brother, it is you who help him when he is in trouble, and you should warn him when he is strong or weak. No one is perfect, you can carefully consider what you think, what kind of brother you want to have!

In your case, how to say it, people are trustworthy and untrustworthy, I used to have a brother, I really regarded him as my confidant at that time, and I thought about two people in everything, but he was always self-centered

People will change, no one can blame anyone, maybe he did something for you somewhere that you don't know, people's supremacy is very strong, it may be that he used to invite you all the time, and now he is invited by you in turn, he will have a sense of depravity, feel that he is not as good as you, it is your turn to take care of him, and his heart is very unpleasant, his original intention is not bad, because of his strong self-esteem, but not everyone is like this, there are also some people who are not people to brothers, look at it yourself, just remember who to be brothers with in the future, and keep your eyes open.

Some brothers are like this, when the labor and management have money, they follow me in a mess, and when they don't have any money to smoke in the labor bag, they won't even give you a cigarette. Therefore, for this kind of person: when he goes with him on the surface, when he borrows money from me, the labor and management will not take him in their mouths.

Different people have different values and worldviews.

If they do not share the same principles and views as each other.

No matter what the relationship is, there will be contradictions.

So the most important thing is yourself.

If you're willing to change for him, that's okay to say.

Because he won't change for you

If you question him, be wary of him. Friends still have to do it. But you don't have to be a bosom friend.

If he encounters a problem, do you want to help him ask his own heart, as long as he is worthy of his conscience. I think as long as people have helped you, you should have a sense of gratitude in your heart. Because no one has to help you, including your own parents.

Helping you is someone else's affection, not helping you is someone's duty. But the reward is to repay others rationally.

There are always many things to go through in life, either happy or sad. However, it is not until you have experienced life that it is complete and fulfilling!! Don't be discouraged, identify yourself as happy and happy, even if you are not happy as you imagined, you will not regret it, this is life, I wish you and your friends can be happy!

Not happy, not happy at all, if Qian Hongju and her father don't come to Beijing or come to Beijing in a better way, I will definitely tell you that I am happy!

In fact, the final decision is not in your hands, isn't it? But before you make any decision, you should think about how much it will help you in the future. In fact, I personally think that being a chef is not bad, one can make money to help reduce the burden on the family, and the other can let others taste the fruits of your labor, and see others eat happily, I believe you should have a sense of accomplishment and hunger!

Now in this society, don't think about anything else, you just need to think about what to do now to help you after the feast. No matter what you do, you have to do it with your heart, and in the end, I believe you will have a sense of accomplishment. Don't let yourself regret it!

Follow your feelings ...

3. He doesn't have a good grasp of his future, or he feels that the future is bleak and the pressure is very strong (you ask him in the future: "What if I don't have a good faith in you?") I just want to see if you can stick to her.

I want you to learn cooking, the reason is that you will not be unemployed in the culinary world now, a culinary master is not easy to find, conscription is just your ideal, and cooking is the source of your face and the hail of reality.