Is it too perfectionist, in the end should it be perfectionist or not

It's good-looking! Why do you still feel bad about yourself? How can there be little interpersonal communication?

Are you cool and introverted? Don't like your hobby? Actually, let's be realistic!

In fact, you really don't have to find what you like, what you like will become good at it after hard work, find a job that you are good at! Be independent first, as long as you are self-reliant, what you want to do in the future will be simple.

The pursuit of perfection and excellence is a good thing.

If, in the process of pursuing, you find out that no matter how hard you try, you can't change the facts, you will feel frustrated? No, no regrets, what I can!

There are no saints in the world, and it is already very good to have some strengths.

How about 173cm? Are you much luckier than those who are 160 or 150?

Bad mouth? What can those who have rabbit lips say?

What you have is what those people can't get in a lifetime, and then, what more do you want?

Isn't it fashionable to be primitive now?

I am who I am. There is no second me in this world, if you deliberately change something (beauty?) Then it's not you.

These girls you described saw it and probably wanted to chase you, which is quite enviable. You want to involve everything and the result will only know the surface, so many hobbies, as long as you are proficient in two or three things, your life will be very exciting!

Try slowly, explore slowly, and you'll find your interests.

You're too young to go to school and never know what work looks like, and your appearance isn't really important.

Kazuo Inamori said that when it comes to work, we must pursue perfection, but we must be 100%.

In real life, many people are almost Mr. Same, and we often comfort ourselves, just about it.

When writing essays, it's almost enough, and often you can't write very good essays; When learning skills, if you are almost on the line, you will not become the top master in the industry; When Steve Jobs created Apple products, if he had also had the same attitude, it is estimated that there would not be such a popular Apple product.

So stumbling on perfection to the end sometimes does produce miracles, especially when it comes to work, perfectionism often produces outstanding performance. Mr. Almost can only be reduced to mediocrity.

But sometimes you have to blindly pursue perfection, but find that the work can not progress, just like wanting to write a perfect article but thinking for a long time and can't write, wanting to be a perfect copywriter but racking your brains can't think of it, delaying and can't start writing, wanting to complete a perfect sales visit but the scene is always broken by various unexpected circumstances to break the original plan ......

At this time, we also keep comforting ourselves that we can complete first and then perfect, and that defects are also a kind of beauty.

For perfection, my understanding is that it is something that I control, or something that can give full play to the initiative of my supervisor to change, we try to be as perfect as possible, high standards and high requirements bring better results, for things that we cannot control, things that objectively exist, we don't want to be perfect, just go with the flow, keep open-minded, but it is better to see more open-mindedly.