Everybody help me, I m upset

Did you notice? The feeling of love is always very sweet at the beginning, and I always feel that there is one more person to accompany you, and one more person to help you share, and you are finally no longer alone. Because at least one person thinks of you and loves you, no matter what you do, as long as you can be together, it's good.

But slowly, as you get to know each other better, you begin to find each other's shortcomings, so problems happen one after another, you begin to be annoyed, tired, and even want to escape, some people say that love is like picking up stones, always want to pick up a suitable one, but how do you know when you can pick it up? She suits you, so are you suited to her?

In fact, love should be like a grinding stone, maybe when you first picked it up, you are not so satisfied, but remember that people are flexible, many things can be changed, as long as you have the heart and courage, instead of picking up stones everywhere, it is better to polish the stones you already have.

Many people think that it is because the relationship is weak, so people will become lazy, in fact, people want to be conquered by laziness, so the relationship will become weak, no wonder more and more people just want to fall in love for a lifetime, but they are reluctant to enter into marriage, because marriage is easy to make people lazy.

If everyone is too lazy to speak, too lazy to listen, too lazy to create surprises, too lazy to be gentle and considerate, then how can a husband and wife or a lover not drift apart and become silent? So remember: a vibrant love needs to be properly irrigated.

We always say: "I want to find someone who loves very much, will fall in love" but when the other party asks you, how to be very loved, you can't her, because you don't know yourself, only know that you are looking for a feeling for each other, but when you love someone, love to eight points is absolutely just right, all expectations and hopes are only seven or eight points, the remaining two or three points love yourself, if you continue to love each other a lot, it is likely to put a lot of pressure on each other to breathe for each other, completely lose the fun of love.

So we should remember not to drink more than six points to be drunk, not to eat more than seven points full, and not to love someone more than eight points. If you are also confused about love, perhaps the following passage can give you some inspiration: To love someone, you must understand and understand; To apologize and to thank you; We must admit our mistakes and correct them; Be considerate and considerate; It is to accept rather than endure; It is tolerance rather than connivance; It is support rather than domination, condolences rather than questioning; It is a confession, not an accusation; It is memorable rather than forgotten; It is to communicate with each other rather than to explain everything; It is to pray silently for the other person, not to ask for many things from the other person; It can be romantic but not wasteful; Don't just hold hands, and don't let go casually.

It can be seen that your girlfriend is more independent and thinks about herself, but it doesn't mean that she doesn't care about you anymore, she has her personality, you might as well communicate, in fact, it's not a big deal, you can tell her your grievances directly. Just say it. It's more painful to put it in your heart, so you might as well say it directly.

You give it a try, isn't there a saying that is well said? - No matter how close your lover is, you have to be honest with each other and respect each other.

May you be happy.

In fact, you are not open enough, you should explain your thoughts directly to her, or hint that she thinks about you. If you talk openly, she'll change a bit, but if she doesn't change and accuse you of continuing to have a girlfriend like you, it's only going to make you more miserable. It's better to divide early.

The good thing is that he treats you as if you were from her own family, so he won't be polite to you! (Of course, boys also need to care) The bad thing is that if you think it's not good, it's better to divide it, so as not to bother! I suggest you tell her about your troubles first!

See how she reacts! If it's good, it's even better! If it's not good, divide it!

Wishing you happiness!

Maybe your girlfriend doesn't love you very much.

Such a girlfriend may not love you at all!